MarcosZeitola wrote:It seems to me like an admission of defeat, to see a prostitute. For this reason I have never seen one, plus the prices are too high and I just known I would have regretted it. Plus, it is quite possible to get with a girl more or less for free if you know how to carry yourself and don't look like absolute shit.
Seeing a prostitute is basically saying: I can't get laid the regular way, so I have to pay for it. At least that is what it seems like to me. Therefore, my ego would never have allowed me. Now if you are rich and a couple of hundred bucks means nothing to you, be my guest and spend as you please. But for me, it does not seem in any way worth it.
And this is what I have been saying all along, and that is, the male ego prevents a lot of males from paying outright for sex. American males in particular are very arrogant, cocky, and have delusions of grandeur which causes them not to consider other options that may be more beneficial to them because they view the option as "beneath" them. It's like American guys I know who wouldn't be caught dead in a Honda Accord because all they want to be seen in is a Ford 250 full sized truck.
Secondly, if you never even seen a sex worker, why are you chastising men about why they chose to see one? I have had girlfriends before, I have been in love before, but found that kind of arrangement wasn't for me, so I have some perspective.
MarcosZeitola wrote:Two hundred bucks could buy me so many other awesome things. Good food, good drinks, things that will last me longer and leave me more satisfied in the long run. You could take a cute girl out some place, have great food and a great time, then go to some motel, and you'd not only have sex without someone watching the clock but you would also have a full stomach and satisfied taste buds, an intact ego and altogether end up spending less.
Busted!You just paid for it, only indirectly. Dinner for two plus drinks cost at least $80.00. A motel for one night cost $50.00. So all total, you paid $130.00 for a woman to spend time with you who
mighthave sex with you that night. On the other hand, $130.00 is the cost of an escort for half an hour to 1 hour at today's going rate with
sex guaranteed. And with an escort, you can take them out to dinner and have great conversations with them as well. In fact, I prefer talking to escorts because the conversation isn't forced, nor does it feel like a business meeting as it always does when you take a regular woman out on a date.
MarcosZeitola wrote:If I was a single man and could for whatever reason not get laid, I might spend the money some guys here spent on hookers on having a good time with friends instead. Go on a trip, see sights, go sailing, surfing, swimming, drinking, hiking. Visit resorts, travel places, cross canyons, tame wild rivers, ride a horse, whatever. Something that I could actually talk to people about without feeling a sense of shame.
Yea, you would do anything but sex. You sound real fun.
The best activity in life is sex, and I feel no shame in paying for it directly. In fact, I feel shame if I get sex without compensating a woman in some way because women have needs too! They have to eat, pay bills, support family (sometime sick) and spend lots of money on beautifying themselves all at the same time.
If a woman is all done up and blows my top, the least I can do is fork over some cash to make her life easier in exchange for the good time and ease of sexual access that she has granted me.