Good question. Not a clue.Winston wrote:How do you get a mistress in china? Cdnfa? Do they advertise somewhere? I cant imagine any chinese woman wanting that arrangement. If i asked the chinese girls i know for that, theyd be insulted.
Rich Chinese dudes get mistresses all the time. I suspect if you show off the wealth they will make themselves known. Being an English teacher in a Tier 1 city might not be enough to do it at least not anymore. Having serious income in a poor region and if you read the air right, and being willing to put it in the right terms and you might have some luck. If you tell her up front that you will pay her to f**k you and be your maid, she might get insulted. However if you gently broach the subject with someone you sort of know...
It isn't very helpful actually. I've read similar about Thailand but they don't make it clear how to find one without getting your face slapped.
OWN [yeah I know] interviewed one girl with an oddly Japanese name who dated this guy twice her age who took her virginity. Turns out he was married but he set her up in a nice ShenZhen apartment with 5K RMB and English Lessons. There were other question marks in the video though.
This site is an insanely in-depth source on living in China. I suspect it may be out of date and I can't vouch for it's accuracy.
http://middlekingdomlife.com/guide/pros ... -china.htm
Renting and Buying "Wives"
We have confirmed two reports of foreign teachers in China who have actually rented a "wife." Renting refers to the process of retaining the full time or live-in services of a prostitute: She serves as both a domestic helper and concubine. In the two reported cases we could confirm, one in Shenyang, Liaoning province and the other in Rizhao, Shandong province, the fee for engaging such services was disclosed as 4,000 yuan per month. One foreign teacher in Inner Mongolia was even approached by a "broker" who was trying to sell him a wife for 10,000 yuan.
... some stuff on trafficked women. followed by a warning.
Although engaging the services of a live-in prostitute is no more illegal than engaging her for one hour, and, once again, momentarily setting aside the moral and legal issues, the arrangement is an entirely risky one. Several Chinese colleagues have informed us that these girls often steal the men blind. Over time, once the man is at ease, the girls eventually obtain a key to the apartment and will even be given the security code (password) to the man's ATM card. One day the unsuspecting man returns home to find both an empty apartment and bank account. Women who sell themselves to strange men in any capacity are thoroughly desperate and that reality needs to be remembered at all times for anyone even contemplating the use of their services.
As that was pretty useless in answering your question, I remembered the article as being more useful. I did some searching and found this
http://www.ibtimes.com/chinese-mistress ... an-1422930