Linc4Love wrote:Nate's a retard.
Winston doesn't need to have a successful long term relationship to prove his thesis. He needs to only show that women in foreign countries are far more approachable and friendlier than they are here, and he demonstrates that quite effectively. How can anyone hope to have a relationship with a girl if she shuts you down before you even say hello? At least in other countries you have more options and more hope. Whether you develop a long term relationship or not is actually up to you for once, and not based on external factors and circumstances that are beyond your control, namely that the only choice you have is to marry a gold digger whore, a Humpback whale with legs, or be gay.
Because women here have an ample dating pool to choose from, they have raised their requirements to absurd heights to the extent that 99% percent of American women are all chasing after the 1% of guys who managed to fit their criteria of being tall, dark, handsome and f**k-ass rich.
Then you have some fucktards that come on here and proclaim based on the 1% of guys in America who can bang any bitch he pleases that it's not so bad here, so it must be us people who are just being small minded!!!11!
Such is the headache of having to deal with institutionalized dickless wonderboy manginas who bang lumbering whale mountain man-beasts with 5 kids, and then having survived that harrowing experience they say, "Thank you, may I have another?"
And I should take advice from these clusterfucks? Um, no thanks.
That's exactly my point. You understand what's important.
And besides, I do have a long term relationship that's lasted since early 2007.
Approachability and doors opening are what counts. From there on, each of us makes a lifestyle choice, whether we want monogamy, a playboy lifestyle, or something in between. It's opening the doors that's important. From there on, our life is up to us, it's our business.
Nate's negativity and judgmental attitude does not contribute anything positive or useful to that.
Besides, like Dano said, my essay was not negative. It just told you how things are, how we are PRESSURED to conform and agree with things that are given to us. And it's TRUE. That's how it does work!
Isn't the truth what counts?
So what's the problem? It can only be something inside Nate, who isn't seeing the big picture.
That being said, I do apologize for my outburst earlier Nate. But sometimes you rub me the wrong way. Anyway, good luck to you if you don't return.
I would advise though, that you think of the big picture, and before you trash someone think about whether any good will come of it, or not. At least truthful essays enlighten readers. Does your bashing or judgment on others enlighten anyway or do anyone any good? If not, perhaps it's better not to do that.
