The_Adventurer wrote:
People who found happiness probably have better things to do with their life than sit around on some forum and complain.
Well sure, if I had some interesting guys to talk to in person and in English at the local cafe here in Dnipropetrovsk Ukraine, I'd talk to them instead of hanging out in internet forums. Face to face has advantages over internet conversation. But since when are men who spend much of the day pleasantly conversing with fellow men unhappy? Some of us complain pitifully, some of simply state the facts of life as we have experienced them so others can learn from us and we from them.
The_Adventurer wrote:
The biggest mistake anyone can make is moving overseas, or across the street for that matter, for a woman. That makes women too big a deal in their life, and already gives women power over them.
Of course women have power over us. So do our pets. If I had a cat or dog, I would have to buy it food, change the litter box or walk it, take it to the vet, clean up messes on the floor, etc. Anything we like has power over us. My beloved bicycle has power over me. Think of all the time and money I've sunk into that machine.
I look at women, I fantasize about them when I masturbate, I would willingly make major changes in my life for a good woman, including handing over large sums of money, far more than what I spend on the bicycle. Damn right they have power over me. But I'm rational and disciplined and can resist their power if that is in my best interest. Benefit has to exceed cost, that's the test I use, and most women fail that test.
