If you are good looking, then it is likely to be the case that many women just want to see if you would go for them, but they are not truly interested. It seems illogical that someone would put you through the hoops and just turn and run in the end, but this is their game. They have no respect for men. At minimum, many have callous, cold hearts and simply don't care. That's still reprobate behavior. It is all about the ego boost to see how much sexual power they have. Just like when a man "gets laid" he gets the ego validation, it's the same for a woman, when she attracts and rejects.Nailer wrote:I will be, I am.Adama wrote:Just because you're an insider, that doesn't mean you'll be included in the clique either. Just like school.
If you struggled in high school, your first struggle after that will be getting back into "high school". Then you can worry whether you are cool enough.
So far this approach has only given me a higher frequency of disappointment. I got hit on by a 24-year old 9.0 who was one of those real-life girls better looking than any movie star, but of course it didn't work out. I didn't do anything wrong, I just can't win here. She made a beeline for me and actually approached me. I played all my cards right, and still lost. Like f***ing always.
Then there are those who want to put you through hoops, and then say no, and then they won't leave you alone, but go further to destroy your reputation amongst your peers to make you a social outcast, so that no other woman will attempt to touch you.
Beware of the large number of women who just want to play with your heart, your spirit (located in your heart) and your soul. Any woman giving knowingly misleading signals (and they know), making herself UNavailable, ridiculing you or putting you down cruelly (not in a slight manner but in a manner that destroys the soul and something which would cause them to go into a rage if it were said about them), spouting off with feminist or women-firster nonsense including mother-worship (always judge a man by how he worships his mother), those who claim to be equal yet demand the man pay even for the first date (as in the ones who offer to pay for the date but "expect" you to overrule her and disregard her fake willingness to pay and you pay for all; that's deception and confusion from a manipulator who has things planned out; In other words women who offer to pay under a pretense but expect you to not allow them to pay when they said they were willing).
Look for hypocrisy, deception, verbal cruelty, broken promises, and disregard for your well-being.