Is Philippines the easiest country to get laid?
Re: Is Philippines the easiest country to get laid?
I find it hard to believe that it's harder to land a decent girl in the Philippines compare to Japan or South Korea unless there is a lack of decent girls.
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Re: Is Philippines the easiest country to get laid?
To me a "decent girl" is a girl who loves me for who I am, not for what I can give her and/or her family. A "decent girl" is a girl who can take care of herself, has completed a good degree and is aspiring to a job, if not a career, when she doesn't already have one. Definitely not a girl whose only ambition is using her charm to land a foreign man who can set her up for life. A "decent girl" to me is a girl who has good moral standards, doesn't lie, doesn't scam and goes back to Kano-hunting as soon as her current man has outlived his "utility period".
If you consider all of the above, the chances to find a "decent girl" are incredibly slim in the Philippines.
Re: Is Philippines the easiest country to get laid?
Its not that hard you just need to know how to select the right Filipina and most guys screw up the selection process.publicduende wrote: ↑January 31st, 2018, 6:25 amTo me a "decent girl" is a girl who loves me for who I am, not for what I can give her and/or her family. A "decent girl" is a girl who can take care of herself, has completed a good degree and is aspiring to a job, if not a career, when she doesn't already have one. Definitely not a girl whose only ambition is using her charm to land a foreign man who can set her up for life. A "decent girl" to me is a girl who has good moral standards, doesn't lie, doesn't scam and goes back to Kano-hunting as soon as her current man has outlived his "utility period".
If you consider all of the above, the chances to find a "decent girl" are incredibly slim in the Philippines.
If you find a Filipina that likes cooking and is good at it, its a good sign. A Filipina that's always offering to cook for you is generally one that you can trust. The women that can't cook will want you to take them out to dinner every day, its a sign of a bad a princess. These women have no talent and are not submissive to men. Every middle class Filipina I've met that has a maid is arrogant and very difficult to get along with.
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Re: Is Philippines the easiest country to get laid?
Its not that hard you just need to know how to select the right Filipina and most guys screw up the selection process.publicduende wrote: ↑January 31st, 2018, 6:25 amTo me a "decent girl" is a girl who loves me for who I am, not for what I can give her and/or her family. A "decent girl" is a girl who can take care of herself, has completed a good degree and is aspiring to a job, if not a career, when she doesn't already have one. Definitely not a girl whose only ambition is using her charm to land a foreign man who can set her up for life. A "decent girl" to me is a girl who has good moral standards, doesn't lie, doesn't scam and goes back to Kano-hunting as soon as her current man has outlived his "utility period".
If you consider all of the above, the chances to find a "decent girl" are incredibly slim in the Philippines.
If you find a Filipina that likes cooking and is good at it, its a good sign. A Filipina that's always offering to cook for you is generally one that you can trust. The women that can't cook will want you to take them out to dinner every day, its a sign of a bad a princess. These women have no talent and are not submissive to men. Every middle class Filipina I've met that has a maid is arrogant and very difficult to get along with.
Paranoia is just having the right information. - William S. Burroughs
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Re: Is Philippines the easiest country to get laid?
Most Filipina girls know how to cook popular recipes, especially if they're among the younger ones of the children. I wouldn't read that much in a Filipina offering to cook, or take care of the laundry: it's just a sign that she is acquainted with the routines of family life.Taco wrote: ↑February 1st, 2018, 4:03 pmIts not that hard you just need to know how to select the right Filipina and most guys screw up the selection process.
If you find a Filipina that likes cooking and is good at it, its a good sign. A Filipina that's always offering to cook for you is generally one that you can trust. The women that can't cook will want you to take them out to dinner every day, its a sign of a bad a princess. These women have no talent and are not submissive to men. Every middle class Filipina I've met that has a maid is arrogant and very difficult to get along with.
I know I have been stating this point time and again in my posts, but many men (like me) simply won't settle for the simple-minded girl who is (or, rather, appears!) submissive and low-maintenance. My expectations are elsewhere. I have been lucky, very lucky, to find a girl who is not only upper class and very well educated, but also down to earth and quite pretty. It took me the grand total of 2 years, though, and 6 months of courtship. I would have never even met her if I hadn't been living in the Philippines. Impossible to find a decent girl on a dating site, nowadays.
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Re: Is Philippines the easiest country to get laid?
Agreed, although I would have to say this is basically true in every country.
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Re: Is Philippines the easiest country to get laid?
Two philosophies diametrically opposed to one another...
Filipina Philosophy - Sex is an excellent foundation to start a solid long lasting relationship
Middle Class White Woman Philosophy - A rich, famous, narcissistic guy is an excellent foundation to start a solid long lasting relationship
And the correct answer is Filipina Philosophy for 500 Alex.
Filipina Philosophy - Sex is an excellent foundation to start a solid long lasting relationship
Middle Class White Woman Philosophy - A rich, famous, narcissistic guy is an excellent foundation to start a solid long lasting relationship
And the correct answer is Filipina Philosophy for 500 Alex.
Paranoia is just having the right information. - William S. Burroughs
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Re: Is Philippines the easiest country to get laid?
What do you mean by dark features?aren't most filipinas fairly dark?I like khmer women,so maybe their equivelant phenotype in phils would be easier?publicduende wrote: ↑January 31st, 2018, 2:45 amEasy to get laid in the Philippines, if your target are gullible, uneducated and mediocre-looking girls (many of whom single moms) who will try giving you sex hoping you will stick around as a boyfriend, or at least hand out a little cash for their vast pool of personal & family problems.
Alternatively, you can get laid with girls who are not that destitute financially but know they will never have a chance to land a good Pinoy man: single moms, mature women, widows, girls with dark and "exotic" features. Etc.
Finding a quality girl in the Philippines is far harder than finding one in places like Japan, South Korea or even China, limiting ourselves to Asian countries.
Re: Is Philippines the easiest country to get laid?
I'm just seeing this thread now and haven't read all 17 pages, so apologies if I repeat what somebody else said.
I've read posts from middle-class Filipinas who said that most middle-class women there wouldn't date foreign men (I don't know if that meant non-Asian men), because it's low-class women who are associated with that.
I haven't been to the Philippines, but have looked into the Westerner expat scene there. I get the impression that the vast majority of Filipina women who get with Western men are doing so to escape the poverty. Unless they happen to luck into a truly desirable situation and fall for the Western guy, he's little more than a ticket out for her and her family. If he doesn't pony up as much as they think he can, it's either game on or game over.
I've read posts from middle-class Filipinas who said that most middle-class women there wouldn't date foreign men (I don't know if that meant non-Asian men), because it's low-class women who are associated with that.
I haven't been to the Philippines, but have looked into the Westerner expat scene there. I get the impression that the vast majority of Filipina women who get with Western men are doing so to escape the poverty. Unless they happen to luck into a truly desirable situation and fall for the Western guy, he's little more than a ticket out for her and her family. If he doesn't pony up as much as they think he can, it's either game on or game over.
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Re: Is Philippines the easiest country to get laid?
I mean the usual facial features of Filipinas generally found in the rural areas of Visayas and Mindanao and, obviously, in all major cities where they migrate for work or family reasons.willymonfrete wrote: ↑February 9th, 2018, 2:06 pmWhat do you mean by dark features?aren't most filipinas fairly dark?I like khmer women,so maybe their equivelant phenotype in phils would be easier?
Since a pic is worth more than a thousand words, this is the typical look of a Filipina a foreigner usually hooks up with.
These girls are not necessarily bad girls but Filipinos tend to be quite picky and will always try to go for girls who look like this:
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Re: Is Philippines the easiest country to get laid?
It's true, most middle-class and virtually all upper-class Filipinas have absolutely no need to have a foreign bf/husband in their lives: they have financial security from their families or their own jobs, their own careers or ambitions thereof, and they are desirable enough to have no shortage of local pretenders. In fact, at least by experience, most of these girls will have a bf or be engaged or married by their mid-20's. Very hard for a foreigner to wriggle his way into this relatively small area of Filipino society.AkitaMan wrote: ↑February 17th, 2018, 10:18 amI'm just seeing this thread now and haven't read all 17 pages, so apologies if I repeat what somebody else said.
I've read posts from middle-class Filipinas who said that most middle-class women there wouldn't date foreign men (I don't know if that meant non-Asian men), because it's low-class women who are associated with that.
I haven't been to the Philippines, but have looked into the Westerner expat scene there. I get the impression that the vast majority of Filipina women who get with Western men are doing so to escape the poverty. Unless they happen to luck into a truly desirable situation and fall for the Western guy, he's little more than a ticket out for her and her family. If he doesn't pony up as much as they think he can, it's either game on or game over.
I actually did find a girl who is young, middle/upper-class, very well educated and with a high-profile job, reasonably cute and who - I have no doubt after a few months - loves me to bits and for who I am, not for what I have or what I can offer her. The flip side? I took me more than 2 years to even meet her and it was only because she came from Manila to Davao for business and we had a "professional interest" to start talking...then a little wine did the rest
It took me 6 months of courtship to win her fears and the typical stereotypes she had, about going out with a mature man - and a Westerner at that. And, last but not least, I had to be here in the Philippines continuously: perhaps I am wrong, but I would have never met her (or the likes of her) if my only dating pool had been the usual dating site.
So yes, despite some of my notorious earlier posts painting an overly bleak picture - mostly dictated by personal stress and frustration - it is indeed possible for a foreigner - even a mature, divorced one like me (I am 43) - to pierce the glass ceiling and catch the odd girl belonging to that class and status.
And, perhaps the more refreshing aspect of this is that, despite all people say about Millennials, at least in the Philippines it is still possible to find Millennials who are modern and open-minded without being shallow, slutty and self-centred.
Re: Is Philippines the easiest country to get laid?
You are spot on...I guess you might say it hearkens back to colonial times, but the second girls is obviously more European looking. Lighter skinned spanish and Spanish/Chinese looks tend to win out.publicduende wrote: ↑February 17th, 2018, 10:47 amI mean the usual facial features of Filipinas generally found in the rural areas of Visayas and Mindanao and, obviously, in all major cities where they migrate for work or family reasons.willymonfrete wrote: ↑February 9th, 2018, 2:06 pmWhat do you mean by dark features?aren't most filipinas fairly dark?I like khmer women,so maybe their equivelant phenotype in phils would be easier?
Since a pic is worth more than a thousand words, this is the typical look of a Filipina a foreigner usually hooks up with.
These girls are not necessarily bad girls but Filipinos tend to be quite picky and will always try to go for girls who look like this:
Re: Is Philippines the easiest country to get laid?
You are spot on...I guess you might say it hearkens back to colonial times, but the second girls is obviously more European looking. Lighter skinned spanish and Spanish/Chinese looks tend to win out.publicduende wrote: ↑February 17th, 2018, 10:47 amI mean the usual facial features of Filipinas generally found in the rural areas of Visayas and Mindanao and, obviously, in all major cities where they migrate for work or family reasons.willymonfrete wrote: ↑February 9th, 2018, 2:06 pmWhat do you mean by dark features?aren't most filipinas fairly dark?I like khmer women,so maybe their equivelant phenotype in phils would be easier?
Since a pic is worth more than a thousand words, this is the typical look of a Filipina a foreigner usually hooks up with.
These girls are not necessarily bad girls but Filipinos tend to be quite picky and will always try to go for girls who look like this:
Re: Is Philippines the easiest country to get laid?
You are spot on...I guess you might say it hearkens back to colonial times, but the second girls is obviously more European looking. Lighter skinned spanish and Spanish/Chinese looks tend to win out.publicduende wrote: ↑February 17th, 2018, 10:47 amI mean the usual facial features of Filipinas generally found in the rural areas of Visayas and Mindanao and, obviously, in all major cities where they migrate for work or family reasons.willymonfrete wrote: ↑February 9th, 2018, 2:06 pmWhat do you mean by dark features?aren't most filipinas fairly dark?I like khmer women,so maybe their equivelant phenotype in phils would be easier?
Since a pic is worth more than a thousand words, this is the typical look of a Filipina a foreigner usually hooks up with.
These girls are not necessarily bad girls but Filipinos tend to be quite picky and will always try to go for girls who look like this:
Re: Is Philippines the easiest country to get laid?
I am very happy it seems like you pulled this off! What do you think two years of looking would get you in the West?publicduende wrote: ↑February 17th, 2018, 10:58 amIt's true, most middle-class and virtually all upper-class Filipinas have absolutely no need to have a foreign bf/husband in their lives: they have financial security from their families or their own jobs, their own careers or ambitions thereof, and they are desirable enough to have no shortage of local pretenders. In fact, at least by experience, most of these girls will have a bf or be engaged or married by their mid-20's. Very hard for a foreigner to wriggle his way into this relatively small area of Filipino society.AkitaMan wrote: ↑February 17th, 2018, 10:18 amI'm just seeing this thread now and haven't read all 17 pages, so apologies if I repeat what somebody else said.
I've read posts from middle-class Filipinas who said that most middle-class women there wouldn't date foreign men (I don't know if that meant non-Asian men), because it's low-class women who are associated with that.
I haven't been to the Philippines, but have looked into the Westerner expat scene there. I get the impression that the vast majority of Filipina women who get with Western men are doing so to escape the poverty. Unless they happen to luck into a truly desirable situation and fall for the Western guy, he's little more than a ticket out for her and her family. If he doesn't pony up as much as they think he can, it's either game on or game over.
I actually did find a girl who is young, middle/upper-class, very well educated and with a high-profile job, reasonably cute and who - I have no doubt after a few months - loves me to bits and for who I am, not for what I have or what I can offer her. The flip side? I took me more than 2 years to even meet her and it was only because she came from Manila to Davao for business and we had a "professional interest" to start talking...then a little wine did the rest
It took me 6 months of courtship to win her fears and the typical stereotypes she had, about going out with a mature man - and a Westerner at that. And, last but not least, I had to be here in the Philippines continuously: perhaps I am wrong, but I would have never met her (or the likes of her) if my only dating pool had been the usual dating site.
So yes, despite some of my notorious earlier posts painting an overly bleak picture - mostly dictated by personal stress and frustration - it is indeed possible for a foreigner - even a mature, divorced one like me (I am 43) - to pierce the glass ceiling and catch the odd girl belonging to that class and status.
And, perhaps the more refreshing aspect of this is that, despite all people say about Millennials, at least in the Philippines it is still possible to find Millennials who are modern and open-minded without being shallow, slutty and self-centred.
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