I'd like to thank everyone who replied for your suggestions and advice!
@ Contrarian Expatriate
Are you basically saying that Russia and Eastern Europe no longer give an American any advantage so I would have the same desirablity there as I do in the US?
@ djfourmoney
It is good to hear that you had success in Europe. But how successful were you in the US? I saw from your introductory post that you dated as a teenager so you must not have been completely shut out of the US dating scene. How big an advantage do you think going to Europe gave you? Does it give you say, 2 additional points out of 10 or 3 or 4?
@ wuxi
Thanks for your honest opinion even though it disappoints me. About White Women being phoney though, I think that is an over generalization. I can't see how that could apply to all White Women. Some of them are decent people.
You also said that the reason I'm still attracted to White Women is because I haven't dated enough bad ones yet. I'll have to disagree with you there. A person doesn't choose what they are attracted to. Attraction isn't a choice. I could no more easily make myself feel attraction to Asian Women than I could make myself gay. I think that what a person is attracted to is determined by their early life experiences and from that point it becomes fixed. Probably because I grew up in an all-White area that might be why I only feel attraction to White Women.
@ jamesbond
Thank you for the encouragement. I saw the videos and they are what gives me hope. However, if you look at Winston's biography he clearly states, in a quote that I put in the original post to this topic, that he wasn't that successful in getting INTIMATE relationships with the women in Russia. Yes, he was much more successful at getting PLATONIC relationships with the women in Russia than he was in the US. But not INTIMATE relationships. So while his videos are inspiring they don't prove that it is easier to go all the way with Russian women.
@ Winston
Was your Asian friend unsuccessful in the US? How tall is he? The problem is, if you were unsuccessful than that means I would probably do even worse because I'm shier, I'm losing my hair, and I'm the same height as you. So if anything I have it worse than you do. Yes, there might be some random factor but I think in reality for the most part it comes down to ones dating market value. Mine is lower than yours so I would do worse.
@ Phoenix Sosa
By Category 4, I mean guys who are
UNSUCCESSFUL in the Anglosphere and successful overseas. If you are successful you are a Category 1 or a Category 3.
The criteria you list are good things to consider, and when I look through the list of countries I'll consider the items you suggest. Thanks! There are a few additonal items that I think you should add to that list.
1. Rate of Single Motherhood (the higher the rate of single motherhood, the fewer desirable women since who wants a single mom.) I think it is MUCH better to find a country with a low rate of single motherhood because you have a better chance of finding a woman without a little brat. When I meet women in the US, the phrase I dread the most is "I have a little boy that is my world." I CAN'T stand it when women tell me they have children. Because you know that eventually, they want you to take care of their little brats. They want you to be the father even though the kid isn't yours. So then I make excuses to not meet them. For some reason, the only women in the US that I seem to attract are single moms.
2. Rate of Obesity (Again, the higher the rate of obesity, the lower the chance of finding an acceptable woman.) In a country where very few of the women are fat, finding an acceptable looking woman is much easier.
To put it this way, in the US, about 60% of the women are overweight and 30% are single mothers (those aren't exact figures just estimates). Even if we assume there is no correlation between the two, this means that only (1-0.6) * (1-0.3) = 28% of the single women are both of normal weight and don't have kids. 28% is close to 1 in 4. Which means that there are almost 4 single guys for every acceptable single woman in the US. This is why the US dating market is so bad. So you have got to consider the rate of single motherhood and the rate of obesity in a country that you are considering.
I would agree with you that some Scandinavian women are REALLY hot! Yes they are much hotter than Russian women. However, in those countries there is a HIGH rate of single motherhood. Also, those countries are rich Upper Tier Countries, and if you view the post Winston posted a while back:
Upper vs. Lower tiers: Different dating markets for men at the link below:
viewtopic.php?t=9073
You see that it doesn't make much sense to move to another Upper Tier Country. That is one of the reasons I crossed those countries off my list. I'd rather a plain Russian woman than a hot Danish woman with a
Phoenix Sosa wrote:tribe, village, major city population
to quote your hilarious post about bad boy dating sites.
@ DaRick
You are correct about Ladislav. I put him in the wrong category.
Have you been overseas? If so, have you had any long term intimate relationships with White Women overseas?
@ Rock
Thank you for the tips!
1. I should definitely add Argentina and Southern Brazil. That is an area I missed in my initial research. South Africa seems like a violent place though. I'm not sure I'd feel safe there.
I made a list of the White countries outside of the European Continent. Can you think of any I missed?
Argentina
Australia
Brazil
Canada
Chile
Iran
New Zealand
South Africa
USA
Also, I might include Iraq and Turkey. However, most of those people seem to be too dark for my tastes.
Are there any other White countries?
2. I've tried to find sites similar to this and I can't seem to find any. All the other expat sites are either about the technical aspects of relocating to another place or are about getting short term non-romantic relationships. I also see some sites that are put up by Russian bride agencies in my searches but since they are trying to sell vacations their advice is biased.
3. I'm White
4. Good to know that FSU still gives an advantage. However, for me to succeed I would need a REALLY BIG advantage since I'm short, bald, in my mid thirties but look older, and am quite shy and awkward.
5. No, that isn't me.
6. Yes, I'm going to look through countries around the world. Thanks for that suggestion.