From experience, that depends on the college and its demographics. Thee are different ways to address the issue.LukeSkywalker wrote: Now, in contrast to Poland, at my college in America, girls pay attention to me only at parties, which seems like Winston said to be one of the only places that it is socially acceptable in America for people to meet each other. Other than that they have this complete uncrackable "bitch-shield" up.
At Cal State Long Beach, where art and liberal arts (?) major is pretty strong, it's easier to chat up girls and ask them out. The school has a lot of on-campus housing (dorms) and many girls don't have a car, so they like to get a boyfriend with a car, or at least some guy friends with car to drive them around. Once you meet one, you get to meet a bunch of her dorm mates and the numbers multiply. The ratio of women to men is also higher (more girls) in art majors as of late 1990s. I didn't attend this school personally but dated girls from there.
At Cal State Fullerton, business major is stronger, with very little on-campus housing (more of a commuter school). Unlike CSULB if you attend night school the girls are mostly older working professionals, so you have to attend classes during day time to meet girls in-class. The business major mentality also makes the girls a little harder to approach. One day during later afternoon, I wandered down to the lower (basement?) level of the business department building and found the computer lab was filled with Viet girls, many looked quite bored. Hmmm. Started hanging out there after classes. Bored girls like to chat up guys, I didn't even have to start the conversation.
At 2-year community colleges (Fullerton JC, Irvine Valley College, etc.), the students are often less academically inclined than 4-year universities, and more open to parties and hooking up for the weekend. The girls are more flaky but easier. My first 3 GF's in college were all from Fullerton JC in 1990s, before I transferred to CSUF. If you take classes like modern dance, art, pottery, etc. the ratio of girls to men are huge, and what else are you going to do besides chatting when sitting around making pottery?
Some Asian guys complain about lack of social life or action, but I think they're either in wrong place or didn't bother to look around. If you're Asian and attending college in Orange County, it's easy to hook up with inter-school (CSU or UC) Pan-Asian parties and clubbing events where you can meet lots of girls. I had so much fun back then and wish I could go back to those carefree years again, long before my 8-5 job and mortgage payments.