I was lucky enough to meet and marry a "middle class" filipino girl (see my avitar of the girl sitting down in the chair) so I have some experience with this topic. When I was courting Cathy, I visited her several times in Cebu. I got a chance to meet many of her other middle class friends. You guys are correct, IMHO 80% of them will prefer to date other filipinos. I'm a big believer in Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs as it explains the reasoning behind people's behavior. Many poorer classs filipinos are the ones actively seeking kanos because their basic needs of shelter, food and security have not been satisfied. If you sign online to Cherry Blossoms or Asian Hearts, I can pretty much guarantee that all the emails that you receive will be coming from poor girls.Winston wrote:Rock, Baron,
You forget something. If middle class Filipinas barely even talk to strangers and have that shield around them that American women have, then what use is having a condo? If they don't talk to you, then it's a moot point right? It's not like they get to know you, see your place, and then dump you. That's not what is happening. So what does a condo have to do with it?
But yeah, it does depend on where you hang out. That I'll agree with.
Btw, check out these middle class Filipinas I met in a gated community. Someone took me to a house party there and I met them. They had the shield around them that yuppie American girls have, except they seem even more introverted. They were there to do a photo shoot at a photographer's house. When I tried to talk to them, they only gave quick yes/no answers, and so were not very engaging. At one point, I asked to pose a picture with them, and that's what you see below. However, two of them, including one super hot tall white Filipina refused to be in the picture and stepped outside instead. lol
Anyway, see below. Don't they carry a different vibe and body language than poor Filipinas do?
With the middle class Filipina (like the ones in the photo with Winston above), usually her basics have been met and they will naturally date their own kind. However, this doesn’t mean that it can’t be done! I posted a reply a few weeks ago about the “hunted or the hunter concept.� IF you sit back and let the Filipinas approach you (whether it be in person or online) you’ll no doubt end up with a poorer girl to date/marry. However, those that are patient and willing to look under a few rocks before you strike gold, you can find a “middle class� Filipina much easier than trying to find a lady here in the west. For those who have not seen my prior posts before, either do a search or PM me and I will gladly share my methods which are SPECIFICALLY designed to meet middle class girls.
Back to the topic of motivation. In order to find a middle class girl, you’ll have to find one that is either 1) looking for a better opportunity abroad and/or 2) flat out fond of kanos (yes they do exist). All three of Cathy’s sisters have four year degrees and held good jobs in Phils. But since they were looking for both items 1 and 2, all three of them are now married to Americans and happily living in the US.