davewe wrote:BTW, I should add that as a newbie on this site, I am genuinely seeking the truth. I love travel and love women and would love to combine both. And I have often thought about relocating post-retirement. But OTOH if as Rock as several others seem to imply it's (old) fools gold, well I have no desire to waste my time.davewe wrote:So what is the message you wish to convey? Stay in America? It's screwed but at least you know how it's screwed.
However, I will say that I have traveled abroad and without any effort found women in those countries and so far have managed to do it without getting fleeced.
I don't think going abroad would be a waste of your time. You have to find your own reality out there. I tend to be a realist. That makes me skeptical of amazing claims which I haven't seen backed-up with my own eyes.
But many countries are much better than the US for finding intimacy, romance, and love with attractive girls. In the US, it seems many average looking, and even above average looking young guys can't get a date with anyone remotely attractive. Just read through the posts here.
Consider a guy who in his early 20s is only able to date obese girls in the States but when he hits 35, he goes to Colombia, Russia, Brazil, or China and suddenly finds himself dating spicy 20 year old students. This is an example of why abroad has much more potential than the States.
Faster forward to the guy when he reaches 50s. If he's in the States, he can probably date girls around his own age or a few years younger. Perhaps in some cases, you can get it down to late 30s women with baggage, issues, etc. However, Steve Hoca, 39, claims US women his age only want to date younger guys, lol. Anyway, as a 50 something, going abroad will help a helluva lot in most cases. But going for the early 20s set is pushing the bounds of reason. I'm not saying its impossible. Its just that I really don't see it happen very often unless a lot of 'sugar' is being passed in the process. BUT, if you just raise your target age a decade or so, the picture looks much more promising. Consider an early 30s girl with no kids, beautiful face, and hot body. Do you think a 50 something would have a shot at her in the States under normal circumstances? Well, in Brazil, Ukraine, or even Taiwan, you just might. Many African and NE Asian women who've grown-up in the right circumstances look amazing for their age too. So biologically, you may be getting a mid 20s girl.
Perhaps you can consider a rough rule of thumb formula which has been cited on this forum before: (your age / 2) + 7 to determine the mid-point age of your target age range. The good thing about this formula is that the older you get, the larger the gap becomes. Here's a few examples:
- For a 36 year old guy, formula yields 25. So he could target women from 23-27 (9-13 year gap)
- For a 46 year old guy, formula yields 30. So he could target women from 28-32 (14-18 year gap)
- For a 56 year old guy, formula yields 35. So he could target women from 33-37 (19-23 year gap)
- For a 66 year old guy, formula yields 40. So he could target women from 38-42 (24-28 year gap)
I think these gaps are still realistically achievable with subsets of women in the more favorable countries abroad but certainly not in the US. If you wanted to push it, I suppose you could substitute your apparent age for your real age allowing relatively youthful looking guys to cut off a couple years or so from the target range. But then you have to lie about your age or risk shocking her with the real figure.
Now one alternative to this is try dating 19-22 year olds your whole life. If you can pull-it off and more importantly, trigger genuine feelings and respect from the girls towards yourself, more power to you. I would love to see older guys posting about their successes with very young and/or hot girls in various countries. Example pictures or vids of such relationships would be especially inspiring.