After hitting my mid-30s, I've lost interest in women

[NorthAmericanguy]

He's 26 and still horny. You guys would look nuts to someone that age.

Well, I'm still horny but I don't care for having so-called meaningful relationships with women, outside of boinking. You see, being horny and being disrespected by mainstream society are distinct attributes.

When I first started seeing women abroad, it was some ten years ago. And while I enjoyed the first series of relationships, I started noticing that there was a *compensation type of thing going on* where being overseas was great and being in America was bad.

Well, as time went by, I changed. I realized that I was a productive member of American society but during this time, my sister turned into an alcoholic, overweight psycho, but yet, I was the one being judged by women all around me while she was getting a free ride for having a vagina. That's when the wake up call occurred and I started rejecting those, who tried to castrate me, as a productive member of society.

I agree on all counts. However, let's see what DJforyourmoney thinks about this; I bet he's pissed.

[NorthAmericanguy]

For me I cannot have sex with a prostitute, in fact, I have to respect the girl at least to a certain degree, I have to get to know her a little bit, feel some intimacy with her, and have some conversation, another words, I have to really like here to have sex.

I fully respect your beliefs, however:

1. If you had sex with a few women in your life, you have probably already had sex with a former, current, or future prostitute because many women sell their bodies outright for cash on the side and don't tell anybody. For example, there are prostitutes with boyfriends, or they are doing it to put them through school. I have slept with them and they have told me nobody knows what they do.

Have you seen this girls blog: She has a BF and he does not know she is a prostitute at a massage parlor: hXXp://happyendingz.blogspot.com/

The other blog that was real popular was called :Confessions of a College Call Girl



2. My belief is that all women are prostitutes, or rather, all women prostitute themselves to various degrees. The only difference is, the woman who does not outright sell her body for cold cash prostitutes herself in a way that makes you feel she's not a prostitute so you think of her as "clean' and you "respect" her. But the FACT of the matter is that she's a dishonest prostitute because otherwise she would not be with you if you did not buy her food, take care of her problems, buy her a house, increase her status, or demonstrate that you're a man who can take care of her and her kids.


This is why I have more respect for a prostitute because she's being honest by telling me up front how much it's going to cost to get a lay while at the same time letting me know its just business, where as, the other women play games, are vague, and are generally dishonest down to telling me that they "love me" and "care for me" in order to try and trick me into signing up to fund their needs in life indefinitely.

[rome86]

I am 25 and you guys are nuts ahahaha i can't possible imagine stop loving and hitting women'asses ..guys eat plenty oysters with tongkat ali you will need strength for those 18 year old you're pounding

[Repatriate]

I agree with everything said in this thread but I still believe there's a match for everyone. Maybe not perfect but i'm a true believer that there are women out there that complement your personality. It's just a matter of finding that individual which is hard. I think society programs us to chase certain ideals which actually don't fit our personalities and lifestyle. That <1% who may give us love and happiness is elusive.

The problem is that people usually settle for whatever they can get or wind up getting conned by some woman using them and that's a big mistake. The urge for procreation is strong but it's easy to end up in a miserable relationship with a kid. Winston seems to know more about this than anyone else.

[S_Parc]

The other blog that was real popular was called :Confessions of a College Call Girl

This is why I have more respect for a prostitute because she's being honest by telling me up front how much it's going to cost to get a lay while at the same time letting me know it's just business, where as, the other women play games, are vague, and are generally dishonest down to telling me that they "love me" and "care for me" in order to try and trick me into signing up to fund their needs in life indefinitely.

Since you live in Canada, I'm wondering if you'd noticed this big cultural difference between the two countries, w/ regards to pros.

For much of the northeast corridor, USA side, this sort of activity is done in a stealth way, behind various facades, where for the most part, many college females will never be pegged as a semi-pro by a mainstreamer, even if they *work* odd hours.

In Canada, esp Montreal City, this sort of activity is advertised practically out in the open and many Quebecois escorts have various levels of sophistication from massage/happy ending to high end courtesans, who BTW, will make any man feel like he's the best thing since sliced bread. I believe college students make up a vast number of them in downtown Montreal, almost like it's the best job in town.

[NorthAmericanguy]

The other blog that was real popular was called :Confessions of a College Call Girl

This is why I have more respect for a prostitute because she's being honest by telling me up front how much it's going to cost to get a lay while at the same time letting me know it's just business, where as, the other women play games, are vague, and are generally dishonest down to telling me that they "love me" and "care for me" in order to try and trick me into signing up to fund their needs in life indefinitely.

Since you live in Canada, I'm wondering if you'd noticed this big cultural difference between the two countries, w/ regards to pros.

For much of the northeast corridor, USA side, this sort of activity is done in a stealth way, behind various facades, where for the most part, many college females will never be pegged as a semi-pro by a mainstreamer, even if they *work* odd hours.

In Canada, esp Montreal City, this sort of activity is advertised practically out in the open and many Quebecois escorts have various levels of sophistication from massage/happy ending to high end courtesans, who BTW, will make any man feel like he's the best thing since sliced bread. I believe college students make up a vast number of them in downtown Montreal, almost like it's the best job in town.

Actually, I live in the United States.

As far as the college girls being prostitutes, I understand it's the best cover for that type of job, so much so women falsely enroll in collage to cover the prostitution rings they start with their friends. What they do is take advantage of the cheap housing, transient lifestyle that people around collage towns are accustom to seeing.

[S_Parc]

Actually, I live in the united States.

As far as the college girls being prostitutes, I understand it's the best cover for that type of job, so much so women falsely enroll in collage to cover the prostitution rings they start.

Well, it's legal up in Canada so the rings which last the longest, tend to have escorts with the best customer satisfaction.

Here, it's hit & run, always a step ahead of the men in blue

I've always wondered how so many gals could afford the school tuition these days

[NorthAmericanguy]

I've always wondered how so many gals could afford the school tuition these days

Dude go to this website.... So many pretty collage girls looking for a "date": http://www.seekingarrangement.com/

[S_Parc]

Dude go to this website.... So many pretty collage girls looking for a "date": http://www.seekingarrangement.com/

And here I was, thinking that they only had those gatherings for some Oil Baron's Club in Houston

The debutante veneer for a high class escort is now mainstream

[NorthAmericanguy]

And here I was, thinking that they only had those gatherings for some Oil Baron's Club in Houston :

oh, that stuff still goes on too, this one is more of an orgy with women in charge but it goes on none the less: http://www.killingkittens.com/Killing-K ... arties.php

[eurobrat]

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[leavingusa]

For me I cannot have sex with a prostitute, in fact, I have to respect the girl at least to a certain degree, I have to get to know her a little bit, feel some intimacy with her, and have some conversation, another words, I have to really like here to have sex.

I fully respect your beliefs, however:

1. If you had sex with a few women in your life, you have probably already had sex with a former, current, or future prostitute because many women sell their bodies outright for cash on the side and don't tell anybody. For example, there are prostitutes with boyfriends, or they are doing it to put them through school. I have slept with them and they have told me nobody knows what they do.

Have you seen this girls blog: She has a BF and he does not know she is a prostitute at a massage parlor: hXXp://happyendingz.blogspot.com/

The other blog that was real popular was called :Confessions of a College Call Girl



2. My belief is that all women are prostitutes, or rather, all women prostitute themselves to various degrees. The only difference is, the woman who does not outright sell her body for cold cash prostitutes herself in a way that makes you feel she's not a prostitute so you think of her as "clean' and you "respect" her. But the FACT of the matter is that she's a dishonest prostitute because otherwise she would not be with you if you did not buy her food, take care of her problems, buy her a house, increase her status, or demonstrate that you're a man who can take care of her and her kids.


This is why I have more respect for a prostitute because she's being honest by telling me up front how much it's going to cost to get a lay while at the same time letting me know its just business, where as, the other women play games, are vague, and are generally dishonest down to telling me that they "love me" and "care for me" in order to try and trick me into signing up to fund their needs in life indefinitely.

Truth! Holy shit about every woman I know is playing that game.

That just reminded me about the times when I would start talking to an old ex gf again and she was married or had a bf and wouldn't have sex wtih me. Usually 150-200 toward some extra gifts for the kids would get me in and the bf had no idea. Man some of the things I was able to do really screwed me up, now I don't trust nobody.

And don't get me started on "dinner". 3 dates = 150-200. About your average "tuition" at the local AMP. If you think that's bad most guys in North America pay about 2-10k a month for sex. They pretty much bring home the paycheck and literally hand it to the wife and she gives him back an allowance. I've seen this too many times to count. 800 a month gets me laid once a week with a different girl every time, it sounds expensive but it's a bargain compared to marriage.

[S_Parc]

This is why I have more respect for a prostitute because she's being honest by telling me up front how much it's going to cost to get a lay while at the same time letting me know its just business, where as, the other women play games, are vague, and are generally dishonest down to telling me that they "love me" and "care for me" in order to try and trick me into signing up to fund their needs in life indefinitely.

Truth! Holy shit about every woman I know is playing that game.

That just reminded me about the times when I would start talking to an old ex gf again and she was married or had a bf and wouldn't have sex wtih me. Usually 150-200 toward some extra gifts for the kids would get me in and the bf had no idea. Man some of the things I was able to do really screwed me up, now I don't trust nobody.

And don't get me started on "dinner". 3 dates = 150-200. About your average "tuition" at the local AMP. If you think that's bad most guys in North America pay about 2-10k a month for sex. They pretty much bring home the paycheck and literally hand it to the wife and she gives him back an allowance. I've seen this too many times to count. 800 a month gets me laid once a week with a different girl every time, it sounds expensive but it's a bargain compared to marriage.

There's this big theory, also purported by a lot of men, and that's that only men cheat on their spouses

How did men become so gullible?

[S_Parc]

It's a known fact that men work as hard as they do for women and it has always been that way.

You know, whenever I hear an overtone like that, it reminds of those battle hymn credos like 'We all fight for God & Country'.

Which then sort of reminds me of Tom Cruise's character, Ron Kovic, in "Born On the Fourth Of July", and how an All-American kid, in love with the girl next door, is willing to throw himself at harm's way in Vietnam, all for his country. Then fast forward to after the war, with him being in a wheelchair, being dished on by the VA hospital system, and being a semi-permanent misfit, in his hometown, for the remainder of his life.

I don't wish the above for anyone but the way things are going, more and more everymen will be a type of middle class Ron Kovic casualty down the road. See 1999's best picture, "American Beauty" with Kevin Spacey, if you need a more contemporary non-Vietnam example.

[Hook]

I think all of you are nuts.

Me too? What did I say that makes you think that?

Because it just sounds like a plight or excuse to give up and hug the floor licking the concrete. It's a known fact that men work as hard as they do for women and it has always been that way.

I'm not saying that your way of life is bad or evil it just goes against my traditional values and morals.

Plus no one went into the discussion about the two types of women in this world:

1) The women you bang like the filthy whores that they are.
2) The women you spend the rest of your life with as a partner.

You guy's can call me young and horny but your not going to change my traditional conservative views.

I thought that is why you said they were nuts, because they weren't interested in women anymore. Not because they screw around.