Why people get fooled by Asian girls:

[boycottamericanwomen]

So just don't marry these f***ing bitches. You can move to an Asian country and get sex for cheap, or get a handjob once or twice a week, and it is quite inexpensive.

In Asia, you can live free, just do not get settled down with any woman. Use prostitutes for handjobs (no risk of disease), or jerk off to internet porn. What more could any man want?

In America, you are constantly beaten on if you are a man. In Asia, men are respected. THAT is the main reason to go to Asia. So you can live free, without worrying about women trying to destroy your lives.

I also say that you should NOT marry an Asian woman. Just use them for sex, or use a prostitute. Don't marry one. In America, you can't get sex so easily or cheaply. So, it's a win-win situation, living in Asia.

[S_Parc]

So you can live free, without worrying about women trying to destroy your lives.

I like how you cut through the story arcs and get to the heart of the matter

[MrPeabody]

To make matters worse, he has so little experience that he is naïve about women and can be easily fooled. Then the marriage agencies set up tours where a dozen lonely American men are put in a room with three times more Russian women wearing their best makeup and dresses to make him feel like Hugh Hefner. It’s really a prescription for disaster. Any con artist will tell you that you can only con someone who has a weakness or flaw. So, for example, a get rich quick scam will work on people who have excessive greed. A person who isn’t greedy can’t be conned. In America, a man who has naïve delusions about women will be mercilessly exploited. Getting a women oversees is actually difficult. You have to do work on yourself and strip yourself of all your delusions. The men who become mongers and then out of loneliness want a relationship are not even in the ballgame because they have set their reality and now live in a universe where women are only interested in men for financial gain. One advantage of Latinas is that they wear their hearts on their sleeves so that when they don’t have natural feeling, it’s hard for them to hide it. Of course, there are plenty of gullible men who can be deceived by any woman without her even trying.

Good call, Mr Peabody.

I would ask if you could clarify as to what, *working on oneself* means in this context.

It means purifying the mind to remove greed, pride, anger, lust, and the other defilments that cloud our view of reality and make us vulnerable to deception by con artists who understand human weakness. Someone with a clear view of reality can’t be deceived. How can a man be with a woman who doesn’t want him for even one day and not detect it? She has to be giving off at least a hundred clues per day to somebody who is sensitive enough to detect them.

[Taco]

The average American man spends years where his major problem is he can’t get a woman to look at him. Then he goes oversees and is getting attention from scores of women. He doesn’t realize it but now his problem has changed. All of a sudden he has become valuable, so now he needs to develop the same BS detector that American women have in order to filter out the pretenders.

Women, that are pretenders, almost always do something that will tip you off to their true intentions, the problem is most guys don't recognize it, especially if they drink a lot. When a woman starts spending their own money on you, no matter how poor they are, its a sign there serious.

[Twobrains]

It means purifying the mind to remove greed, pride, anger, lust, and the other defilments that cloud our view of reality and make us vulnerable to deception by con artists who understand human weakness. Someone with a clear view of reality can’t be deceived. How can a man be with a woman who doesn’t want him for even one day and not detect it? She has to be giving off at least a hundred clues per day to somebody who is sensitive enough to detect them.

Great contributions, MrPeabody, and an excellent thread.

Know thyself, know the hypergamous female nature, and be very, very careful, especially with your sperm.

[DaRick]

Firstly, it must be said that Asian women who actually live in Asia are a different breed from Anglo-Asians, who basically behave like Anglos for the most part. Being suckered in by one of these women is like being suckered by an Anglo, so any advice telling you to date second-gen immigrants is folly.

I believe that culture, more than race, defines people (especially women, though men are not exactly immune to this either). I had a crush on a white girl of Australian/NZ heritage who was raised in Thailand. She was not really like the white Anglo girls around her. Even then, when I was younger and did not consciously understand why this was, I subconsciously knew.

[davewe]

The average American man spends years where his major problem is he can’t get a woman to look at him. Then he goes oversees and is getting attention from scores of women. He doesn’t realize it but now his problem has changed. All of a sudden he has become valuable, so now he needs to develop the same BS detector that American women have in order to filter out the pretenders. He has undergone a role reversal. To make matters worse, he has so little experience that he is naïve about women and can be easily fooled. Then the marriage agencies set up tours where a dozen lonely American men are put in a room with three times more Russian women wearing their best makeup and dresses to make him feel like Hugh Hefner. It’s really a prescription for disaster. Any con artist will tell you that you can only con someone who has a weakness or flaw. So, for example, a get rich quick scam will work on people who have excessive greed. A person who isn’t greedy can’t be conned. In America, a man who has naïve delusions about women will be mercilessly exploited. Getting a women oversees is actually difficult. You have to do work on yourself and strip yourself of all your delusions. The men who become mongers and then out of loneliness want a relationship are not even in the ballgame because they have set their reality and now live in a universe where women are only interested in men for financial gain. One advantage of Latinas is that they wear their hearts on their sleeves so that when they don’t have natural feeling, it’s hard for them to hide it. Of course, there are plenty of gullible men who can be deceived by any woman without her even trying.

Excellent post but I don't take it as negative. It also means that there are great women out there if you have stripped yourself of your own B.S. so that you can see them.

But you are correct that I have been at times overwhelmed by the role reversal oversees making me more valuable and what it might mean. It isn't just getting fooled by the scammers and con artists, which are everywhere in life. It's the inability to discern who isn't conning you that is the key. Its like the man who suddenly becomes rich and assumes no one is interested in him for anything other than his money. He is depressed because he himself believes that his only worth is his money.

So you have to strip yourself of your all your self-delusions, including the delusion that you are only valuable due to your perceived status and money.

[davewe]

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[Sexter]

I've noticed a difference. The Fobby asian girls vs americanized asian girls. I noticed that one is a lot more humble and submissive, the other is bratty and bitchy

you do the pickings

[magnum]

I noticed asian girls who grew up in the U.S are even worse then your average white woman by at least 25%

if they are fobbed then they are better then the average woman in the U.S by 50%


that's what I've experienced anyway.

[Taco]

The top reasons western guys are fooled by Asian women, in my opinion.

1. They don't understand Asian culture

2. They want to marry or date the first hot, young Asian girl that shows interest in them

3. They want to marry non-virgins and divorced women (Asian guys don't marry them so why should you?)

4. They dump virgins that refuse to have sex with them before marriage, these are precisely the women you should marry if you don't want to get raped in divorce court

[Repatriate]

I noticed asian girls who grew up in the U.S are even worse then your average white woman by at least 25%

if they are fobbed then they are better then the average woman in the U.S by 50%


that's what I've experienced anyway.

They really are much worse. Asian-American women are pretty much on par with Jewish-American women in a lot of ways. They are often highly educated but become ultra high maintenance in their 20's and then when you get married to one you either have to have ultra high ambition or be willing to let them dominate your finances.

What's worse is there's no reason to ever marry one because they are bitchy and you can find someone that looks exactly like the americanized version in Asia that has a far superior personality.

[jcris7]

They really are much worse. Asian-American women are pretty much on par with Jewish-American women in a lot of ways. They are often highly educated but become ultra high maintenance in their 20's and then when you get married to one you either have to have ultra high ambition or be willing to let them dominate your finances.

What's worse is there's no reason to ever marry one because they are bitchy and you can find someone that looks exactly like the americanized version in Asia that has a far superior personality.

+1. I agree with this. The personality and temperament between Americanized Asians versus the exchange students I knew (including the one I hooked up with) at my local UC was night and day. That's all it took for me to wake up and realize there are real women outside of this country, superior to their American counterparts in so many ways.

[NorthAmericanguy]

Just updating this thread with new post:

This is very interesting. As weird as it sounds, I agree with many of the points Jason made despite the fact that I am an Asian woman living in US. Hear me out on this. I am a very attractive Asian woman who does not have any problems getting successful White or Asian men. I actually prefer to be with an Asian man since we have much more in common and I find them more generous than White men in general. And please spare me the penis talk. Trust me, no matter what race, most of you have small to average penises and some of you (about 1/8 of you) have spectacular penises FYI. lol

I don’t necessary agree that successful men only date or marry White women…because obviously that would not be true in other countries like Asia. In places like Asia, it is a common knowledge that White women are good for sex (only up to their 20′s) but never good for marriage since they tend to be too demanding and tend to age badly.

But I agree with Jason in that…if a man (a white man) looked like David Beckham and was rich like David Beckham, the chances are…he didn’t need to reach out to another race-no matter what race it was. He can have his top pick within his own race. He will probably pick a hot white supermodel.

And if you looked like Takeshi Kaneshiro (a hot Japanese actor) and was rich like him, the chances are he will pick the best from his own race ( a hot Asian supermodel) and would not bother marrying a woman from another culture.

I do tend to agree that the guys who tend to date or marry someone from another culture was not very successful with women from their own culture and therefore needed to branch out. I see it first hand. I am “the first choice� or “what they were looking for� for many of the Asian men…but I am “the last hope� or “what they hope is the opposite of their ex White girlfriends� for many of the White men.

I choose Asian men because of the previously mentioned reasons and also because they haven’t gone through this cycle that white men have gone through to get to us Asian women. And even if you haven’t gone through this, experience has taught me that men who have options to choose from their own race simply means he has more to offer.

But there is a positive side to this mix race thing…for an example if you are an ugly Asian woman, you’d have much better options and luck with White men. Why? because most White men can’t really tell which one of us is attractive or not. They are definitely less picky than an Asian man when it comes to their own race. If we have long hair and remain somewhat petite, we can pass as the pretty, exotic girlfriend. Many Asian women benefit from this.

So there you have it. These are my thoughts. I don’t hate on White guys…I actually find them lovable and very forgiving of many things. Personally, I think White guys are no match for the Chinese dragon ladies. The teachings are too different.

In China they teach you to “do whatever is required to succeed including lie and cheat. �

In US you are taught to “abide by rules and ethics. �

I can not warn men enough not to get involved with women (people) from that kind of country. Bringing someone into your home is a serious matter. You really don’t want to bring someone into your home who could potentially poison your parents because they pissed her off or kidnap your kids back to China because you pissed her off. Don’t be fooled by her long hair and whatever else she is using to lure you in.

Anyhow, I’ve said enough for today. Thanks and good luck.

The drama plays out like this:

1. You’re insecure, and scared of white women and you’ve never been a success with white women (maybe your suspicions cause you to act weird around them and they drop you). You think they are out to use you (ironically that is exactly what you end up marrying when you marry a Chinese girl!). You want a sweet docile wife who will always agree with you, do the housework and not really have a mind of her own. Maybe you had an overbearing mother or some other influence in your childhood.
2) You hear Chinese wives are super-sweet, easy to control, meek and mild, and you like the look (face). You decide to go on a Chinese marriage website, unaware of the scams surrounding them. She says and does everything right (coached by her mother) and you feel you’ve met the perfect woman.
3. You meet up and she shows Chinese “face� to you by puting on the sweetest act, and catches you hook, line and sinker. You wonder why your dumb white friends even bother with white woman who are far too independent – you have found paradise and she is THE ONE. What’s more, she tells you she’s a virgin (haha). You’re having sex AT LAST, and life can’t be better! You spend tons of dollars on her to keep her interest.
4. Soon afterwards she reveals that her father is abusive. She says her parents want her to marry a Chinese guy who they know (he doesnt exist, but the parents want a quick marriage), and she cries floods of tears to you, because they insist on marrying her off to him SOON. Your brain is messed up, the relationship is only months old, you’re caught by the sex, and desperate to keep her. You need to rescue this sweet damsel in distress from her evil parents, so the marriage has to happen soon.
5. Before you know it, you’ve asked her to marry you because you want to rescue her, though you dont really know her that well.
6. When the wedding ring is on her finger, and she feels her future is secure, with lots of YOUR money to spend, she suddenly starts to change. Her true personality emerges: shrill, throwing tantrums, money-grubbing, refuses to work even if she has a good education. (Chinese like having their daughters well educated, but that doesnt mean she will work or pay her way. YOU are the packhorse, providing for her, the kids she wants to have, AND her family, while she shows FACE to her relatives about her rich husband. She owns you and your wallet.
7. You spend your life regretting your dumb stupidity, unless you can find a way out.
. If you have money, however, she is happy and will spend it fast enough. If you dont have enough money, she will make your life miserable and pick on you constantly. They are money-driven, not love driven. If she’s nice to you, its because she’s in love with your fat wallet. Oh and she will wail and cry and deny it, swear on her mother’s life, if you accuse her of being a golddigger – Chinese TV is very dramatic and they learn to act that way as well in real life. They are expert at faking love to get what they want.
9. To sum it up: how did you get into this mess? You liked her FACE (ie Chinese eyes, flat-faced features and didnt look beyond to the personality), and she gave you FACE by deliberately acting sweet to hook you. Her family and Chinese friends will also be super-sweet to you, showing FACE in case they need to borrow money from you in the future, or need your help back in America. You dumbly think Chinese people are so kind and friendly to you! You have been groomed by these Chinese as a future money supplier! Just don’t loose you job.

Two observations from the various postings above:
1) Why do Chinese girls all claim to be verbally or physically abused by her father? (They spring this lie on the westerner soon after hooking him with sex, to get the naiive man to feel sorry for them and ‘rescue’ them. They lay on the drama to obtain a quick marriage while the guy is still in the ‘honeymoon phase’. Is this familiar to you???
Yet in reality, its the mothers who abuse the fathers. What respect do they show the father to tell such lies about him, just to secure a marriage for the daughter (and indirectly someone to pay for the parents in old age).
2) All the bad experiences men relate above, are because you do not have enough money, end of story!!! They are money driven, not love driven. They have to show ‘face’ to other Chinese.
She needs to live in a mansion (not an apartment), drive an expensive car (not a small car), have lots of your money to spend (which she will secretly hoard, for when she plots to leave you. Her parents are in the scam as well – the whole family will plot against the naiive westerners to achieve their goals.

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[marklambo]

I'm glad I don't like asian women. I find them very unattractive. In the past I liked them a lot because that was all I had. But when I started experiencing other women, I would never go back to asian again. For many years I've missed out! As for asian women cheating, oh man, I can't tell you how many times I had sex with asian girls who had boyfriends and husbands. At least 50% of the girls I was dating in the past were with someone else. The number could be even higher because only half of them actually told me they were still with someone. Well my asian days have been long gone anyway.