PeterAndrewNolan wrote:Jester.....publicduende is a moron...he is busy giving "advice" when he is a pig ignorant moron!! LOL!! Cornfed has dealt with him inside 5 posts. If publicduende is stupid enough to take on cornfed then he is certainly too stupid for me to listen to.
If I look like I am "Super-Alpha-laddish" to you then that must be because you do not know what alphas look like......I am low on the alpha scale and I know it....I have been alpha for just two years and it does take some getting used to.....I have friends who have been alphas all their lives....they make me look very mild. Germany is full of guys who are high alphas....I meet them all the time....I laugh my arse off at what they say and do.....AND TAKE NOTES! LOL!!
I have a LOT to learn about being alpha and I am busy learning.
"Peter, you have friends, you should stop lashing out at them." I do not lash out at my friends....
If I criticize someone then if he is man enough he will listen to the criticism. publicduende is a moron who can not take the slightest bit of criticism....and he is dumber than a rock about women.
As far as women go? I am very happy with my situation.....guys like publicduende can not even show me the respect of accepting my word as to how I am doing....that is very disrespectful....and so he deserves no more respect from me than he shows me....after all. I have EARNED his respect...he has not earned mine.
I have EARNED the respect of men across a lifetime of accomplishments. That is how respect works....a man shows respect WHERE IT IS EARNED....and if a man is not willing to show respect WHERE IT IS EARNED he is not worthy of the respect of the man who has earned it.
It is about time publicduende learned how respect works. Seems his father never taught him...he was probably taught "respect" by his mother...and women have no idea what respect is all about.
As for women being needed? I challenge that.....there are 7 BILLION people on this planet.....the only real use for women is producing more children and breast feeding them....name something else women can do as well as men.......and since 7 BILLION can be well argued as being too many......only a SMALL PERCENTAGE of women are actually NEEDED.
And after all....with cows only some of the cows are used to breed....so why not just select some women to breed, eh? Women keep talking about how the world would be so much better if only 10% of people were men.....maybe we should talk about farming women like cows or sheep......Angry Harry did that and the women went ballistic......
The women that I wish nothing to do with are the western liars and hypocrites......the rest are just fine......and western women are a small minority that we can easily do without......the ads on this site make it quite clear there are plenty of other women around.
And as I said yesterday? When I say these things to eastern european women they generally agree with me 110%. They too are scathing of western women. This Romanian woman I met who lived in Italy for 5 years is SCATHING of Italian women and how they treat their men in divorce. She speaks MUCH more harshly of women than me.....she can see that italian women are destroying marriage and destroying mens desire to marry....it was a big motivator for her to leave italy. Her assessment was that she would be very hard pushed to find a husband because the men are getting to wary of women and disbelieving them.
She was well aware that the lies and the crimes of other women were affecting her chances....and she said so. That was one reason we really hit it off...she understood exactly that women are destroying their own futures and she is seeking a place where this might be less so......Germany is not that place if you ask me but she is having a look around to see what it is like.
Peter, you shouldn't be surprised if I "criticise" you. I have given you much more respect than I perhaps ought to because of some "professional" sympathy (you're a fellow IT pro after all, and an objectively accomplished one at that) and because I thought that you were a good person who had been deeply traumatised by a bitter divorce and legal struggle. However big the trauma, an adult personality just cannot be devastated to such a great extent. Or that's what I believed.
Your last posts have broken new lows in terms of personal insults and the usual arrogance with which you dismiss anyone who doesn't agree with your most outlandish ideas as a moron, not worth your attention. It seems to me that you're the one who came here as a self-proclaimed guru of men-female relationships, escapism, the inner working of modern society, etc. What you think you have discovered is nothing more than what many people here are saying anyway, that some women can be incredibly cruel and manipulative, that their (historically) recent gains in terms of gender parity have played against us men, etc., only, distorted to the wildest degree by the lens of your frustration and a tragic, "fundamentalist" take on society.
Saying something that begins as plausible and then pollute it with a mixed bag of feminist conspiracy, the ASIO, corrupted judges and juries, even your own family and kids, in a framework that is more akin to a salesman than a wiseman, doesn't really give it more dialectic power or credibility. It could be passable as fiction, as I pointed out in an earlier post. The more you insist on this, the more you expose yourself as a pitiable individual at best, and as a deeply disturbed one, a sociopath who deserves indifference, at worst.
I, just like many others, had my fair share of disappointment from women. I have been sometimes trapped, conned, abused by women, but also been trapped, conned and abused by men. Truth be told, the gauge of my disappointment with my fellow human beings is definitely weighing more on the male than the female side, and not for a feminist bias of sorts: I have literally met more bad men than bad women. For as much as I try to understand that your life experience is very different than mine, I would never dare elevating my personal experience to the rank of universal wisdom, especially when my conclusion are extremely negative as it is in your case. I would never try and shove it down people's throats and dismiss those who won't swallow it as morons and lost causes. This is wrong, and quite arrogant. This is a fact and there's little to debate about it.
Just like Cornfed with my wife, you're giving in judging my past, my family. Do you think a man of 35 years of age still feels the legacy of his father's upbringing? Do you really care to know what kind of person my Dad is? I was brought up by two parents, my Dad and my Mom. Both of them taught me to respect people as human beings, before even beginning to make distinctions based on gender, rase, or social status. They also taught me that other people's opinions are best appreciated when you have your own to hold on to, to compare with and synthesize into a better, clearer, more complete view of the world.
We are all born unique, and we are all born equal in front of Mother Nature, or God (if you believe in Him). That's probably the main, if not the only reason why hearing you nonchalantly stating that women are only capable of hatred and manipulation and (as of now) should be treated like breeding cows, gives me two contrasting impulses: that of defending women because they're virtually absent here, with nobody who will even try to set the record straight for the sake of a balanced debate, and then that of seeing you as a traumatised, suffering man in need for help.
Since I am not a psychiatrist, all I have tried to do is simply (and gently, at first) encourage you not to let your past overwhelm your present and future. Move on and claw back the chance to be happy again, with or without a woman by your side.
I have only changed the tones to more upset and polemic when your insults started to come down more heavier and more frequent. I have tried to help you, yet I have no obligation to endure your abuse ad libitum. You're a big man, and if you believe this new life as self-proclaimed alpha is giving you more kicks than ever before, be my guest. Just, don't continue to think that your stance towards women and life is all there is.
And then the interesting part about your Romanian friend. It's kind of amusing that she's speaking so badly of Italian women, since it's a well-known fact that one of the best things they tend to do is run away with Italian husbands. Perhaps when she says that Italian women are "destroying men's desire to marry" she means "thanks God Romanian women are there to show Italians how a real woman is supposed to be"? Well, maybe, maybe not. I've heard a full spectrum of stories, ranging from evil Romanian ladies who married good guys and twisted and bent them to their will, to Romanian ladies who were abused by Italian men, to Romanian men who forced their girlfriends or wives to become prostitutes, to more... I wouldn't want to judge the state of Italian women, or Italian families, based on a single Romanian woman. It's more complex than that I'm afraid. Nonetheless, I recognise your friend's opinion is an interesting one.