Most "incels" are "volcels". In particular, most men in America can scrape together enough to buy a prostitute. About $200/hour for decent looking girls in flyover country (Texas, etc), less for skanks at truck stops. Even guys on minimum wage can afford that a few times a year, just to see what all the fuss is about real sex versus masturbation.
Incels are not hurting for lack of orgasms, which are easy for 99% of men to obtain via masturbation, nor for physical touch, which they can get from petting a dog or wresting and other martial arts with men, nor for communication with other humans, which can be obtained in internet forums. What they are mostly hurting for is female validation. They need an "attractive" woman to find them attractive, but then they sabotage themselves by deciding that any woman who does find then attractive must herself be unattractive, so her attraction to them doesn't count. "I don't want to be a member of any club that would accept a man like me as a member," as Groucho Marx joked.
Inceldom is a result of inner conflicts. On the one hand, it's natural for young men to want to mate. On the other hand, mating in the West is among the worst things a young man can do in terms of screwing up his future potential for happiness. Only getting involved with crime or wrecking his health are worse. MGTOW really is the smart thing to do, fur men living in developed western countries, but MGTOW is not easy to accept, without a lot of bitterness, when you are young, dumb and full of cum. Incel is a way to effectively be MGTOW without making the necessary mental adjustments to be a non-bitter MGTOW. In my experience, only older guys, like me and Yohan, can be non-bitter MGTOW. Younger guys all have to play mind games on themselves to justify avoiding women. Inceldom is one such mind game.
Biggest enemy of incels is men like Marcos plus PUAs, who tell incels that getting laid is all that matters in life and men who don't get laid are worthless failures as humans, etc, etc. Biggest friends are mature MGTOWs like me and Yohan, who explain clearly that real sex is just a bodily function like picking the nose or taking a shit, and nothing to boast about because you pick your nose more than some other guy or take bigger shits, and yes real sex is enjoyable, but it's also expensive and dangerous in the west. Much safer, cheaper and simpler to go MGTOW, with occasional sex vacations to places where prostitution is cheap and legal. Get human connection from internet forums or from other men and older women in real life.