I wouldn't put too much faith in what Mystery, Paul Janka or David Deangelo write on pua sites. These guys are there to make money and they BS about a lot of stuff.
However, when women fall for the same guys they say 2 things:
-nice guys are boring, I can seduce them anytime
-they think they can change a bad boy into a nice guy (I heard this from countless women when I personally asked why they go out with jerks)
Now the reality is that men won't change for the sake of women. Their way of thinking is plain immature and many of them don't get it until it's too late. After 15 years of dating idiots they realize it's time to find someone decent and guess what...all the decent folk show them the middle finger because they won't settle for a 30+ woman with issues and scars from previous relationships or worse...children. That's when they buy a cat and become bitter.
And the worst part is: you can't change them. Even if you tell a child to stop playing with fireworks because he might burn himself, he'll still do it.
A "nice guy" may have many hobbies, a well paying job and other perks (like being a gentleman) vs a pub/club crawler with a guido haircut but he's seen as boring solely because he doesn't chase women all week-end. It's a society that promotes all the wrong habits, it doesn't matter if you're a hard working individual with 2 doctorates or something like that, a bum that drinks himself to death and chases skirts will still have "higher value".
So what's the solution ? Well there's no way around it...you gotta become a jerk. A few years ago I gave up on all my hobbies, I went to the gym, I took dancing classes and I spent most of my time chatting with women either in person or through facebook. Guess what ? I started getting a lot more attention, sometimes I would have 3 or 4 potential dates on a Friday night. The problem with this is that it's all short term. The few women I actually wanted to date for a longer period just plain rejected me. I went through some tough times with their immature way of thinking.
Last edited by Andrewww on Wed Jun 13, 2012 4:19 am; edited 1 time in total
Wed Jun 13, 2012 4:05 am
jamesbond
Joined: 25 Aug 2007
Posts: 3224
Location: USA
These are the guys who are getting all the women in America.
just came back to this thread and read the link. Thanks.
Sobering stuff.
Sat Jul 07, 2012 12:11 am
jamesbond
Joined: 25 Aug 2007
Posts: 3224
Location: USA
green1976 wrote:
Here how things are going,everything is a lie.
You can open your TV or listen almost the same bs,as everybody is free enjoying a freedom of sex and liberation of females.
Men get sex quit easily and women are independent for the best ,so the guys who swallow all these lies are ending up by getting depressed and feeling that something is definitely wrong with them.
The mainstream media will never say how it works.
It just keep entitling females,provoking sexual frustration in males,encouraging compulsive consumerism so the mechanism is well planified.
If you watch American movies and tv shows, it will show men in the US, easily being able to meet women and get laid. For some reason, women in movies and tv programs in the US are seen as friendly, approachable and easy to get into bed. Nothing could be further from the truth.
Women in the US are unfriendly and anti-social and they most certainly are NOT easy to get into bed. Winston has talked about this, how when he was growing up, he would watch movies and tv shows in America and it would show women acting nice and friendly towards men. Ladislav talked about this as well.
What you see happening in American movies and tv shows, is just the opposite of how things really are in the US.
_________________ "When I think about the idea of getting involved with an American woman, I don't know if I should laugh .............. or vomit!"
"Trying to meet women in America is like trying to decipher Egyptian hieroglyphics."
Fri Nov 23, 2012 2:40 pm
marklambo
Joined: 04 Nov 2012
Posts: 399
Location: Las Vegas
jamesbond wrote:
green1976 wrote:
Here how things are going,everything is a lie.
You can open your TV or listen almost the same bs,as everybody is free enjoying a freedom of sex and liberation of females.
Men get sex quit easily and women are independent for the best ,so the guys who swallow all these lies are ending up by getting depressed and feeling that something is definitely wrong with them.
The mainstream media will never say how it works.
It just keep entitling females,provoking sexual frustration in males,encouraging compulsive consumerism so the mechanism is well planified.
If you watch American movies and tv shows, it will show men in the US, easily being able to meet women and get laid. For some reason, women in movies and tv programs in the US are seen as friendly, approachable and easy to get into bed. Nothing could be further from the truth.
Women in the US are unfriendly and anti-social and they most certainly are NOT easy to get into bed. Winston has talked about this, how when he was growing up, he would watch movies and tv shows in America and it would show women acting nice and friendly towards men. Ladislav talked about this as well.
What you see happening in American movies and tv shows, is just the opposite of how things really are in the US.
yep, pretty much just Hollywood fiction with nothing but lies and fake situations. I'm also tired of meeting a woman here and I'm thinking...hmm ok...she might have potential....then find out she has kids. The one thing I will not do again is be involved with a woman with kids. It seems that most women by the age of 25 or younger already have at least 1 or 2 kids, especially here in Las Vegas. It's like all we have left are either used and abused single moms or stuck up women who think they deserve more than they should. It's almost a lose lose scenario here. In reality, it really shouldn't be "hard" to meet a potential woman. Dating should be fun and exciting but in reality, it's a tedious and annoying task here. There is no fun in it anymore....in the US.
Sun Nov 25, 2012 2:10 am
jamesbond
Joined: 25 Aug 2007
Posts: 3224
Location: USA
marklambo wrote:
I'm also tired of meeting a woman here and I'm thinking...hmm ok...she might have potential....then find out she has kids. The one thing I will not do again is be involved with a woman with kids.
It seems that most women by the age of 25 or younger already have at least 1 or 2 kids, especially here in Las Vegas. It's like all we have left are either used and abused single moms or stuck up women who think they deserve more than they should. It's almost a lose lose scenario here. In reality, it really shouldn't be "hard" to meet a potential woman. Dating should be fun and exciting but in reality, it's a tedious and annoying task here. There is no fun in it anymore....in the US.
Yes, in the US there are a ton of women who are single mothers. Personally, I wouldn't touch a single mother with a ten foot pole!
_________________ "When I think about the idea of getting involved with an American woman, I don't know if I should laugh .............. or vomit!"
"Trying to meet women in America is like trying to decipher Egyptian hieroglyphics."
You cannot post new topics in this forum You cannot reply to topics in this forum You cannot edit your posts in this forum You cannot delete your posts in this forum You cannot vote in polls in this forum