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Re: Men who need foreign women are losers or control freaks

Post by traveller » September 12th, 2018, 11:54 pm

Jonny Law wrote:
November 13th, 2014, 11:14 pm

"If you have to travel long distances to meet “good ones,” chances are that it’s you who is the problem, not the women."

Thanks and enjoy
That is exactly what some people told me before I moved to Florida from Chicago. Like to them, women by nature are wild, spoiled, heartless man haters, or even like only Ted Bundy would have ever failed to get a date with a College of DuPage Track & Field star. Like literally saying; " You can't get a date at College of DuPage, you belong in the electric chair! No questions asked."

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Re: Men who need foreign women are losers or control freaks

Post by Darrell_Johnston » September 13th, 2018, 6:14 am

traveller wrote:
September 12th, 2018, 11:54 pm
Jonny Law wrote:
November 13th, 2014, 11:14 pm

"If you have to travel long distances to meet “good ones,” chances are that it’s you who is the problem, not the women."

Thanks and enjoy
That is exactly what some people told me before I moved to Florida from Chicago. Like to them, women by nature are wild, spoiled, heartless man haters, or even like only Ted Bundy would have ever failed to get a date with a College of DuPage Track & Field star. Like literally saying; " You can't get a date at College of DuPage, you belong in the electric chair! No questions asked."
slight exaggerations there.

where do you make the logical leap from "chances are that it’s you who is the problem, not the women." to "you belong in the electric chair! "

If its not true for you.....dont worry about what people say.

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Re: Men who need foreign women are losers or control freaks

Post by Yohan » September 13th, 2018, 7:01 am

https://matingmarket.wordpress.com/2015 ... -nutshell/

I think, this disgusting blog is abandoned. The last comment is from 27/Apr/2015, more than 3 years ago.

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Re: Men who need foreign women are losers or control freaks

Post by Darrell_Johnston » September 13th, 2018, 7:43 am

Yohan wrote:
September 13th, 2018, 7:01 am
https://matingmarket.wordpress.com/2015 ... -nutshell/

I think, this disgusting blog is abandoned. The last comment is from 27/Apr/2015, more than 3 years ago.
"“The men who benefit from monogamy are generally not the kind of men you want to f**k.”

There is truth to that, women who are looking for hook ups dont want to f**k a man who is looking for monogamy, women who are looking for long term stability want relationships with monogamous men

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Re: Men who need foreign women are losers or control freaks

Post by traveller » September 14th, 2018, 12:36 am

Darrell_Johnston wrote:
September 13th, 2018, 6:14 am
traveller wrote:
September 12th, 2018, 11:54 pm
Jonny Law wrote:
November 13th, 2014, 11:14 pm

"If you have to travel long distances to meet “good ones,” chances are that it’s you who is the problem, not the women."

Thanks and enjoy
That is exactly what some people told me before I moved to Florida from Chicago. Like to them, women by nature are wild, spoiled, heartless man haters, or even like only Ted Bundy would have ever failed to get a date with a College of DuPage Track & Field star. Like literally saying; " You can't get a date at College of DuPage, you belong in the electric chair! No questions asked."
slight exaggerations there.

where do you make the logical leap from "chances are that it’s you who is the problem, not the women." to "you belong in the electric chair! "

If its not true for you.....dont worry about what people say.
Illinoisans are not only spoiled and standoffish, they love to bully dateless guys by acting like he escaped from prison and is wanted even for quadruple capital murder.

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Re: Men who need foreign women are losers or control freaks

Post by Darrell_Johnston » September 14th, 2018, 12:51 am

traveller wrote:
September 14th, 2018, 12:36 am
Darrell_Johnston wrote:
September 13th, 2018, 6:14 am
traveller wrote:
September 12th, 2018, 11:54 pm
Jonny Law wrote:
November 13th, 2014, 11:14 pm

"If you have to travel long distances to meet “good ones,” chances are that it’s you who is the problem, not the women."

Thanks and enjoy
That is exactly what some people told me before I moved to Florida from Chicago. Like to them, women by nature are wild, spoiled, heartless man haters, or even like only Ted Bundy would have ever failed to get a date with a College of DuPage Track & Field star. Like literally saying; " You can't get a date at College of DuPage, you belong in the electric chair! No questions asked."
slight exaggerations there.

where do you make the logical leap from "chances are that it’s you who is the problem, not the women." to "you belong in the electric chair! "

If its not true for you.....dont worry about what people say.
Illinoisans are not only spoiled and standoffish, they love to bully dateless guys by acting like he escaped from prison and is wanted even for quadruple capital murder.
who bullies you?

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Re: Men who need foreign women are losers or control freaks

Post by growup » September 14th, 2018, 7:46 pm

Illinoisan jumping on here to say that no, most of us actually DON'T bully dateless guys (mostly because we don't spend our time wondering how/why someone is dateless lol).
Nobody wants you to go to the electric chair.
But please don't expect women to flock to you.
Just as you have said countless times that you are not attracted to certain women, certain women may not be attracted to you either.
Have an awesome day :)

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Re: Men who need foreign women are losers or control freaks

Post by GuyAbroad8293 » September 15th, 2018, 1:47 pm

men who need big strong independent white western women are spineless cucks with no balls, and probably quasi-homosexuals to boot
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Re: Men who need foreign women are losers or control freaks

Post by Darrell_Johnston » September 15th, 2018, 3:43 pm

I am loving the over-exaggeration in this group.

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Re: Men who need foreign women are losers or control freaks

Post by Splicelo » May 10th, 2019, 5:07 pm

There is some truth to this article. Obviously shoe doesn't fit every foot and if you are offended then the shoe probably fit. The guy who wrote the article put a disclaimer that is not talking about every guy who travels abroad.

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Re: Men who need foreign women are losers or control freaks

Post by Mercury » June 8th, 2019, 5:11 pm

Veruca; "And if I don't get the things I am after, I'm going to scream!" (Trashes the Golden Goose room). "Don't care how, I want it now!" (Gets dropped down the garbage chute).

Mr. Wonka; "She was a bad egg."

Clearly, the American woman's mascot role model is Veruca Salt from Willy Wonka.

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Re: Men who need foreign women are losers or control freaks

Post by Neo » June 10th, 2019, 10:53 pm

I'm not a control freak but I do believe that men and women have different roles. Many women are confused as to what their role is, and that is simply repulsive to me.

The problem is that many women cannot accept their role. They want to rule, but female dominance over the husband is evil.

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Re: Men who need foreign women are losers or control freaks

Post by mattyman » June 11th, 2019, 12:35 am

I read the article, One of these people who thinks all people who date foreign women 'can't get laid'. He fails to acknowledge that there are differences in the way people are brought-up and socialized. He's falling into the trap of pleasing a female audience rather than dairing to talk about the reasons many men find these foreign girls so attracive.

An example of a guy I know married to a foreign girl I know
A guy who's a regular at the folk night my dad's age (dad 65y) married to a Thai girl (looks younger than me (32) don't know her age, Thi women age better than British women (love the Un-PC conversations)), feminists would be cross. Do the people in that folk club or pub consider him a 'controlling loser'. NO THEY DON'T! He's further from a control freak I could imagine. If anyone's controlling it's the social justice warriors and people who hate people for finding love from other countries.

Comments like 'control freak', and 'loser' are born out of fear, fear from women who can't articulate what is causing them to act like that (fear from FEMINIST women; BULLIES).

This hate towards people who find their lover from another country, it's born out of fear, feelings of inadequacy, feeling threatened, that's all. They're juveniles.

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Re: Men who need foreign women are losers or control freaks

Post by Zambales » June 11th, 2019, 7:19 am

mattyman wrote:
June 11th, 2019, 12:35 am
I read the article, One of these people who thinks all people who date foreign women 'can't get laid'. He fails to acknowledge that there are differences in the way people are brought-up and socialized. He's falling into the trap of pleasing a female audience rather than dairing to talk about the reasons many men find these foreign girls so attracive.

An example of a guy I know married to a foreign girl I know
A guy who's a regular at the folk night my dad's age (dad 65y) married to a Thai girl (looks younger than me (32) don't know her age, Thi women age better than British women (love the Un-PC conversations)), feminists would be cross. Do the people in that folk club or pub consider him a 'controlling loser'. NO THEY DON'T! He's further from a control freak I could imagine. If anyone's controlling it's the social justice warriors and people who hate people for finding love from other countries.

Comments like 'control freak', and 'loser' are born out of fear, fear from women who can't articulate what is causing them to act like that (fear from FEMINIST women; BULLIES).

This hate towards people who find their lover from another country, it's born out of fear, feelings of inadequacy, feeling threatened, that's all. They're juveniles.
Most of the guys I know who are married to foreign women are placid, sensible and stable and were most likely rejected by western women due to them being perceived as "boring" or saw that the grass was greener in the overseas "market". There's the odd one or two who want a gopher to tend to their needs "24/7" but they're in the minority.

The truth is, men who have this kind of personality are better equipped to be in a long-term relationship and tend to seek similar traits in their partners. Western women generally aren't receptive to them nowadays unless they can take on the role of dictator. Some don't even realise how controlling they actually are.

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Re: Men who need foreign women are losers or control freaks

Post by CannedHam » June 17th, 2019, 12:30 am

I would bet that men in the US who are married to foreign women tend to be more successful and stable than average.

When my wife first moved to the US she attended a local ESL school for a couple months before she got her work permit. A few weeks ago there was a reunion party that we went to at this institute. While my wife was chatting with her friends/former classmates I talked to some of the husbands. Most of the students at the institute were women - I'd guess around 70%, so most of the husbands were therefore American.

Several worked in IT or engineering. One was a physician. Another did international sales for a huge food company. I am part owner of a scientific software company. Every single one of them (incl myself) own a home, at least one car, can travel a few times per year, and so on. Yes, these guys weren't exactly the "alpha bad boy type" and were maybe a bit boring, but they had their shit in order.

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