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Tinder, Ashley Madison, Tan Tan

Post by zboy1 » April 19th, 2017, 8:01 pm

How effective are these dating apps? I've heard people say they have used them and banged many woman as a result. I think they're bluffing and full of shit.

I just want to know if these things are actually effective, or if they're full of spam posters.

Which apps are the best? Anyone have experiences? Do they work better than traditional dating sites (which suck in general) like E Harmony?




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Re: Tinder, Ashley Madison, Tan Tan

Post by aozora13 » May 11th, 2017, 8:51 pm

Well from trying, Tinder, I believe it is better outside the US; especially for ethnic guys. US is more geared toward white guys. Ashley Madison? The affair dating website? Possibly but never tried. Also, I have never tried Tan Tan.

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Re: Tinder, Ashley Madison, Tan Tan

Post by Contrarian Expatriate » May 11th, 2017, 9:04 pm

Don't waste your time on apps. Get out there an approach women and get numbers.

Apps are being used by women to get ego boosts and attention.

Even when you get matches, the rate of dilly dallying before meeting makes the juice not worth the squeeze.

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Re: Tinder, Ashley Madison, Tan Tan

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Re: Tinder, Ashley Madison, Tan Tan

Post by wingfeather » May 12th, 2017, 12:45 am

All the apps I've tried are a waste of time.

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Re: Tinder, Ashley Madison, Tan Tan

Post by Man With a Plan » May 12th, 2017, 1:27 am

Unless you're in the top echelon of men, you won't be getting much mileage out of them apps. Think about it. If the west is as dry as you lot claim, you think that women are going to notice you when men of all tiers swipe right like robots?
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Re: Tinder, Ashley Madison, Tan Tan

Post by mand38 » July 21st, 2017, 5:29 pm

zboy1 wrote:How effective are these dating apps? I've heard people say they have used them and banged many woman as a result. I think they're bluffing and full of shit.

I just want to know if these things are actually effective, or if they're full of spam posters.

Which apps are the best? Anyone have experiences? Do they work better than traditional dating sites (which suck in general) like E Harmony?
I tried many of those hookup apps (Tinder, Down, Pure, etc...) and many sites, basically, it is very similar, from my point of view it is not easy but not impossible to get laid on that way. What I want to say that I don't have a problems with women in real life, but for every woman I need some time, patience and efforts to put in, and in same that way if I do online using some of those sites or apps on same way like in real life I can hookup, if I am lazy and send copy/pasted message to 30 women then nothings gonna happen. So answer on your question according to my experience is: it all depends.

Dating (not hookup) sites like okCupid, POF, Match.com, etc used but stopped long time ago, because most of women I met there are ... let say are not so attractive and pretty.

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Re: Tinder, Ashley Madison, Tan Tan

Post by nomadphilippines » July 23rd, 2017, 4:22 am

its always hard

its hard to go out and approach women in person.... more importantly then it being hard it is an extremely slow process

apps and dating sites are hard, women have lots of options

the good thing about the online game is you just sit in your room and swipe when bored
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Re: Tinder, Ashley Madison, Tan Tan

Post by chanta76 » July 24th, 2017, 5:39 am

it's mostly about looks. If your good looking guy or girl dating is easier .

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Re: Tinder, Ashley Madison, Tan Tan

Post by mand38 » May 14th, 2018, 4:42 pm

chanta76 wrote:
July 24th, 2017, 5:39 am
it's mostly about looks. If your good looking guy or girl dating is easier .
Well, yap, it works on that way :)

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Re: Tinder, Ashley Madison, Tan Tan

Post by Adama » May 14th, 2018, 5:20 pm

Don't be so upset about not being able to pick up women at will. Pretty much the only people who can pick up new people for the purpose of having intercourse at will, are homosexuals. Outside of prostitutes it will be hard for most men.

The poor women who have taken advantage of their power have merely turned themselves into whores who aren't paid, which is far worse than being a prostitute. They are actually in a similar boat as homosexuals, as far as their destiny is concerned.

There's no reason to envy these people. They may have great glory in this world, but really that glory is a shameful thing, and they are on the road to destruction if they haven't destroyed all their hope already.

This is because intercourse is sacred and is supposed to be reserved. It is the greatest glory most men will ever have. It's not supposed to be a sport.

Also, a crooked woman can ruin a man's life. It may be a blessing in disguise for men to get rejected or left on the sidelines. Because although celibacy doesn't feel good, it is better than being destroyed by a female reprobate sociopath who has slept with one hundred men. A woman who has slept around is not psychologically healthy, and she will destroy a good man, by breaking his heart, misleading him, or even entrapping him somehow. And most men are naive to the ways and methods these women have at their disposal. It is definitely a blessing to not be able to interact with them deeply.
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Re: Tinder, Ashley Madison, Tan Tan

Post by publicduende » May 16th, 2018, 12:05 am

chanta76 wrote:
July 24th, 2017, 5:39 am
it's mostly about looks. If your good looking guy or girl dating is easier .
If the girl is only looking for a good time, of course she will be looking for a handsome, hunky-looking guy. In the UK the choice is wide, as men are generally in much better shape than girls.

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Re: Tinder, Ashley Madison, Tan Tan

Post by fdiv » May 23rd, 2018, 11:07 am

zboy1 wrote:
April 19th, 2017, 8:01 pm
How effective are these dating apps? I've heard people say they have used them and banged many woman as a result. I think they're bluffing and full of shit.

I just want to know if these things are actually effective, or if they're full of spam posters.

Which apps are the best? Anyone have experiences? Do they work better than traditional dating sites (which suck in general) like E Harmony?
I think in addition to just random people being full of shit and boasting, lots of these stories are "guerilla marketing" by the company. Many of these Silly-Con Valley fart-ups are just pump and dumps hoping for an IPO. They fake everything. Many just have a user base that is mostly bots and so on. Reddit even admitted they did this to make their site look big and popular. I'm also highly skeptical (for good reasons, if you read the TOS) of all these stories of people making millions just from ad sharing on youtube. They're probably just part of Youtube's marketing dept. We know Youtube freezes the view counter or downgrades views on things they want to censor, so it's not unreasonable they upgrade fake views on their marketing videos to make people think those channels are making millions. In reality (TOS) they pay what they want, when they want, if anything. Again the same story with fart phone App creators. Lots of fake stories and B.S. about dorks making "millions" for creating simplistic apps that have no utility and trivial cost to duplicate. It's just B.S. stories created by those platforms (Apple, Android/google) marketers to create a huge bubble in the supply of developers. Foolish young people will rush in and focus on learning and then providing all this support for their platform for FREE in the foolish hopes of making large sums that never materialize.

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