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How do you tame your feelings of anger and loneliness?

Postby TruthOrConsequences » Mon Nov 17, 2014 3:21 am

I assume that most people on here are young males in their 20's/30's,dissatisfied and disillusioned with the social culture here in the US, struggling to get by without any complications with law and/or women. So how do you personally deal with the feeling of emptiness or loneliness that this place casts upon the likes of us? Do you work overtime or excessively indulge in your hobbies like reading or working out? You might say that I'm assuming and speaking from my perspective, but the question that I'm trying to ask the reader remains the same. What is it that you do to compensate for the lack of true friendship or romance, and the things that a normal dude that somewhat fits into this dysfunctional piece of shit culture does or takes part in? Then if you feel that those things are not all that important to you, maybe you could share with us how you get on with your life in general or how do you deal with the anger and frustration that comes as a result of dealing with these shitty mediocre middle-class douchebags that constitute the majority of the population in this country?
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Re: How do you tame your feelings of anger and loneliness?

Postby Ghost » Mon Nov 17, 2014 7:51 am

Hobbies, more or less. But it goes deeper than that. There is the hope of going abroad again, of course. But living in America, the key is compartmentalization. Life goes into several different boxes; some of those boxes are hobbies or passions. Others are job, college, whatever else you do. If you have goals, you have boxes that you can delve into to keep your sanity. And when at work, you are in work mode, for example. Everything has its compartment. That way, things you love can remain things you love instead of getting mixed into your life as a whole, which would make you hate it all together. So in America, when I am doing something productive and useful (working for myself), I'm in a positive box and it helps me cope. When I'm in the work box, it's just a temporary thing until I can return to what I care about. If I thought about it as one continuous life that sucks, it would probably beat me down and keep me there.
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Re: How do you tame your feelings of anger and loneliness?

Postby starchild5 » Mon Nov 17, 2014 11:11 am

TruthOrConsequences wrote:I assume that most people on here are young males in their 20's/30's,dissatisfied and disillusioned with the social culture here in the US, struggling to get by without any complications with law and/or women. So how do you personally deal with the feeling of emptiness or loneliness that this place casts upon the likes of us? Do you work overtime or excessively indulge in your hobbies like reading or working out? You might say that I'm assuming and speaking from my perspective, but the question that I'm trying to ask the reader remains the same. What is it that you do to compensate for the lack of true friendship or romance, and the things that a normal dude that somewhat fits into this dysfunctional piece of shit culture does or takes part in? Then if you feel that those things are not all that important to you, maybe you could share with us how you get on with your life in general or how do you deal with the anger and frustration that comes as a result of dealing with these shitty mediocre middle-class douchebags that constitute the majority of the population in this country?


Whom are we kidding....Nothing works...I have tried it all....Eventually It gets you one way or the other...:) ....The best way is to be prepared for it.

I tried watching comedy shows on youtube to feel lighter, did hobbies, watched movies, went out, went abroad, planned for abroad when back home- it helped for a while, tried cooking, chatting, facebooking, did yoga, meditation, video games, did internet research for passing time, worked my a** out, went to office, did freelancing, wanked....Allahs...All these were mere postponing of the inevitable....The anger, frustration, loneliness of living on earth will get you eventually today or tomorrow or after one week or a month....But It will find you.

The above are just temporary solutions to a bigger issue - The only permanent solution it seems is to escape the earth itself :)- It seems, everything we touch, we feel produce some sort of negative energy now a days that gets us eventually in the form of anger.

The thing I do now is...I built up my anger...store it all in...and let it go all out in one go....I don't get angry all day, frustrated, I suck it all up...I have prepared a day for being angry, letting out all the stored up frustration of one month and so far it has worked wonderfully. :)

Feeling Angry, being lonely, frustrated is the RIGHT kind of emotion a sane human being produces living in a Psycotic place. Its not your fault.

The problems just don't go away, if we chose to Ignore it by doing other things - Anger, being lonely, frustration are real emotions that our mind feels and we need to deal with them. It won't just go away, doing other things. They are the after effects of experience we feel living on a Psychotic place called planet earth.

Remember, Its NOT YOU...who is the problem. Being angry, frustrated, being lonely is not your fault....you get it by living on earth. Don't Ignore it. Deal with it.

Do a 30 Day anger cycle - Chose a day to let it all out - You have the right to be angry with this Psycotic world - Hit Back - You will feel better. Its not You. Its the world.

Good Luck.
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Re: How do you tame your feelings of anger and loneliness?

Postby Ghost » Mon Nov 17, 2014 9:38 pm

starchild5 wrote:The above are just temporary solutions to a bigger issue - The only permanent solution it seems is to escape the earth itself :)


Agreed. Can I borrow a rocket from one of your alien amigos?
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Re: How do you tame your feelings of anger and loneliness?

Postby ?????? » Mon Nov 17, 2014 11:06 pm

For me I am just focused on working hard welding at community college for the greater goal of finding the FSU woman I was meant to be with and starting my life with her in Eastern Europe somewhere. I have heard that the oil fields are already full up with pipe welders. Hopefully, there is a demand for fabrication welders needed up in the Alberta or Saskatchewan oil fields.

I am angry about the environment I am in at college. since I ignored this one girl and she has spread this false rumor that I am a fag to the whole college and getting everyone to join in talking about me behind my back. I thought college was a place for professionals to learn their trade, not stupid childish games and locker room gossip. Is this the kind of work environment that many American Women create? No wonder companies are going belly up with the low morale of their employees due to the toxic work environment. No matter, this is only temporary. The joke will be on the stupid American guys who have joined the gossip lynch mob when Uncle Sam comes to clean them out through the divorce courts in 5-10 years. :D

Thinking about my about the future goal to also help remind myself of why I am putting up with this crap. Getting out of that building as soon as I am finished with classes also helps.
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Re: How do you tame your feelings of anger and loneliness?

Postby ezinho » Tue Nov 18, 2014 3:43 am

?????? wrote:I thought college was a place for professionals to learn their trade, not stupid childish games and locker room gossip.

LOL, get use to it dude. Shit like that just keeps going once you get out of college and enter the working world. You have to work for yourself to avoid shit like that; there's no escaping it in the working world.

To sum it up, corporate America is just an extension of college, and college is just an extension of high school.
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Re: How do you tame your feelings of anger and loneliness?

Postby starchild5 » Tue Nov 18, 2014 2:07 pm

Ghost wrote:
starchild5 wrote:The above are just temporary solutions to a bigger issue - The only permanent solution it seems is to escape the earth itself :)


Agreed. Can I borrow a rocket from one of your alien amigos?


There is already a long queue :D :D
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