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For all the guys who've had bad experiences with Filipinas

Postby steve55 » Mon Nov 10, 2014 6:45 am

Here is why.

See - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uBnN7Bao71Q


PS- Newlife, are you paying attention?? I bet it explains your comments about Filipinas 100%. This guy really hits the nail on the head!!! ANd in general, Ill bet it explains 99% of the complaints guys have posted here about Filipinas.
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Re: FOr all the guys who've had bad experiences with Filipin

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Mon Nov 10, 2014 7:24 am

steve55 wrote:Here is why.

See - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uBnN7Bao71Q


PS- Newlife, are you paying attention?? I bet it explains your comments about Filipinas 100%. This guy really hits the nail on the head!!! ANd in general, Ill bet it explains 99% of the complaints guys have posted here about Filipinas.


Ive seen that before before. He is a model and better looking than any filipino guy there so im sure no girl will try to scam him. he doesn't represent my demographic LOL

you should listen to him though in this video. Cause he told you in that video to not what your doing which is to go there for a brief wife hunt and then marry a girl that you barely even know.
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Re: FOr all the guys who've had bad experiences with Filipin

Postby Hero » Mon Nov 10, 2014 12:05 pm

I agree with everything he said, except for trying to find an Asian GF here in the USA. Can't he see how those girls get corrupted by living here?
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Re: FOr all the guys who've had bad experiences with Filipin

Postby starchild5 » Mon Nov 10, 2014 12:20 pm

I love Philippines....No other country has given HOPE to men from all over the world than a tiny island across the pacific.... :D :D

Hate it or love it...Philippines is a necessity for humanity ...especially for free thinking , conspiracy, alternative non main stream guys who don't have much money by wary of being not selling their soul or not working for the corporations nor they wanna get tide down to marriage and kids.

If you just want a women with no strings attached plus no family, friends to bother you with your way of life plus you can survive with barely minimal income....plus you being able to communicate easily in English....plus a workable society even with corruption...It still can make you reach from Point A to Point B...What else does a guy want...when he knows everything else is BS....main stream BS.

Filipina women complements my way of existence....My priorities are to be free, go beyond, explore life beyond planet earth, do research and think deep and Filipinas never tie me down by asking me to start a family and give them kids.....The amount of money i spend on a filipina is the amount of time i have with them. Scams are part of life as a whole....You can't take that out and escape from America or India or China...

Also, as a country Philippines and City Manila...I never feel tied down like back home...I can go out 2 in the morning, have smoke, drink beer in the open and have some food, stroll around...and be back doing my research on things not discussed in lame stream society - the conspiracy nut I'm :D :D

Whenever I feel the company of women, the biological need for being with a women..Manila gives me that everytime...

My priorities in Philippines are different and I'm super happy with the way things are....My reason for going to Philippines is freedom not women...Women just complements freedom for me among other things. Can't wait to go back... :lol: :lol:
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Re: For all the guys who've had bad experiences with Filipin

Postby Bao3niang » Mon Nov 10, 2014 5:46 pm

He makes a good point in the beginning. Too many Western men go to bars hoping to meet good women! Bargirls are a NO NO no matter where you are, Anglosphere or not. No matter how sweet they may seem, avoid getting involved with them at all costs! I do not like going to these kinds of places in general, I barely even consume any alcohol (when I do, it is just out of curiosity). I prefer juice instead.

I'm also opposed to the idea of the vacation girlfriend, because unlike many guys on this forum I am still oriented towards serious relationships and eventually marriage. Sure if a girl that's attracted to me wants to hook up with me I'm welcome if I also find myself attracted to her, but she must know that getting involved with me is for the long run. If all she wants is to "raid" instead of "conquer", there are plenty of other men out there.
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Re: FOr all the guys who've had bad experiences with Filipin

Postby steve55 » Tue Nov 11, 2014 12:44 am

newlifeinphilippines wrote:
steve55 wrote:Here is why.

See - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uBnN7Bao71Q


PS- Newlife, are you paying attention?? I bet it explains your comments about Filipinas 100%. This guy really hits the nail on the head!!! ANd in general, Ill bet it explains 99% of the complaints guys have posted here about Filipinas.


Ive seen that before before. He is a model and better looking than any filipino guy there so im sure no girl will try to scam him. he doesn't represent my demographic LOL

you should listen to him though in this video. Cause he told you in that video to not what your doing which is to go there for a brief wife hunt and then marry a girl that you barely even know.


Lol, yes, you are right. I did notice that. But what offsets it is the sheer number of couples who I know did just that. My co worker trey comes to mind as does our happier abroad member Darrenfw. Both looked for a wife from the start and are doing awesome for several years now. Also, in my case, I was perfectly fine going back empty handed. In other words, I wasn't forcing it. But luckily it worked out (so far) That being said, I'm not forcing it when she gets here to Dallas either. Her visit here to Dallas is nothing more than a substitute trip for me not having to go back to the Philippines. I haven't officially proposed to her as of yet, but nevertheless , it is the intention . She understands that her trip to Dallas is a continuation of "getting to know you" time before potentially pulling the trigger (up to 90 days instead of just 1 week like I did in the Phils). Hopefully it all works out but if not, so be it. Life goes on. One thing for sure , I have a feeling this would be my last approved k-1 since I've already had several others before (I had 2 girls back out on me so although approved, they never made it to the interview stage). It may be that I'm one of those guys who needs a lot of time with a girl in order to make the right decision. My best friend says that he and I are one of those types like that while other guys are more easy (less picky and less choosy) to just accept almost any girl who they meet. I think most guys are less picky and choosy than I am. International dating may not work very well for really picky and choosy guys. That's my take. But I've seen how it's been a awesome solution for sooo many guys around me. So even if it didn't work out in the end for me, (hell, maybe I'm just not the marriage type after all like I think I am), I'll still promote it based on how succesfull and life changing it's been for so many other guys.
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Re: For all the guys who've had bad experiences with Filipin

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Tue Nov 11, 2014 1:02 am

steve what was the reason why those girls backed out? Sheehs i thought filipinas would love the chance to get out.

Ill reiterate what i said in my other thread right now.

It may "work" but is it the best option? Unlikely. Serious long term relationships or wife hunting should be done by guys who are living there for years and can pick the cream of the crop not guys being 1 month millionaires.

You been there enough times though steve so you might be an exception.

Im sort of at the point now I dont think i even want a very serious relationship anymore. I think I may prefer just meeting women as tourist guides and just having fun but not settling down.

I dont think your picky at all. Any guy that brings a girl to the u.s with the plan of marriage who doesn't know them is actually the opposite.
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Re: For all the guys who've had bad experiences with Filipin

Postby steve55 » Tue Nov 11, 2014 10:58 am

They backed out cause they were too young, they got scared when things came down to the last step. One was 18 and the other was 19. Bottom line without going into so much detail explaining it is that they both told me they thought they were wanting to get married but chickened out when the time came for the us embassy interview. I guess it sure disproves the supposed American cultural belief that all foreigners (especially if poor ) would so anything to come or America. Apparently not! Americans believe a lot of stuff that just plain ole isn't true and Winston exposes a lot of these typical false cultural beliefs. You guys need to get it In your heads that the world isn't trying to come to America. Let's not flatter ourselves so much.
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Re: For all the guys who've had bad experiences with Filipin

Postby Taco » Tue Nov 11, 2014 9:19 pm

You guys already know this but when your drunk and on vacation its easy to forget. Filipina hoe's won't cook or clean because they have men throwing money at them.

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Re: For all the guys who've had bad experiences with Filipin

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Tue Nov 11, 2014 9:47 pm

Taco wrote:You guys already know this but when your drunk and on vacation its easy to forget. Filipina hoe's won't cook or clean because they have men throwing money at them.




Wrong my hoe served me hand and foot and did any sex i wanted at any time. She was a bargirl. So your notion of love has been proven false. :lol:
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Re: For all the guys who've had bad experiences with Filipin

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Tue Nov 11, 2014 9:48 pm

steve55 wrote:They backed out cause they were too young, they got scared when things came down to the last step. One was 18 and the other was 19. Bottom line without going into so much detail explaining it is that they both told me they thought they were wanting to get married but chickened out when the time came for the us embassy interview. I guess it sure disproves the supposed American cultural belief that all foreigners (especially if poor ) would so anything to come or America. Apparently not! Americans believe a lot of stuff that just plain ole isn't true and Winston exposes a lot of these typical false cultural beliefs. You guys need to get it In your heads that the world isn't trying to come to America. Let's not flatter ourselves so much.



well they are very young and maybe wanted to sleep with their local boyfriends or maybe their parents weren't that poor. I dont know these girls. Alot of the young ones just want cashola they really dont want love or marriage yet they may think they do but as you seen they will back out at the last minute. You dodge a bullet they probably were scammers. I dont think that proves anything. Now if a 25 year old girl without a good paying job does it THEN you might have some evidence.
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Re: For all the guys who've had bad experiences with Filipin

Postby Taco » Tue Nov 11, 2014 10:24 pm

newlifeinphilippines wrote:
Taco wrote:You guys already know this but when your drunk and on vacation its easy to forget. Filipina hoe's won't cook or clean because they have men throwing money at them.




Wrong my hoe served me hand and foot and did any sex i wanted at any time. She was a bargirl. So your notion of love has been proven false. :lol:


You didn't marry her so it proves I'm right.
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Re: For all the guys who've had bad experiences with Filipin

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Tue Nov 11, 2014 10:47 pm

Taco wrote:
newlifeinphilippines wrote:
Taco wrote:You guys already know this but when your drunk and on vacation its easy to forget. Filipina hoe's won't cook or clean because they have men throwing money at them.




Wrong my hoe served me hand and foot and did any sex i wanted at any time. She was a bargirl. So your notion of love has been proven false. :lol:


You didn't marry her so it proves I'm right.


Regardless of she was i wouldn't be dumb enough to marry a girl when she is in her late 20's and will age fast when im almost the same age as her. And i wasn't financially secure. I wouldn't marry your wife either so whats your point?

No because you said hoes dont do those things but they do. not most but some. as far as chemistry and sex and how she took care of me id say she was the best girl i ever met i probably would like her even more than your wife but she was high drama and emotional and of course a professional hoe who just wanted my money.
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Re: For all the guys who've had bad experiences with Filipin

Postby Taco » Wed Nov 12, 2014 1:08 am

newlifeinphilippines wrote:
Taco wrote:
newlifeinphilippines wrote:
Taco wrote:You guys already know this but when your drunk and on vacation its easy to forget. Filipina hoe's won't cook or clean because they have men throwing money at them.




Wrong my hoe served me hand and foot and did any sex i wanted at any time. She was a bargirl. So your notion of love has been proven false. :lol:


You didn't marry her so it proves I'm right.


Regardless of she was i wouldn't be dumb enough to marry a girl when she is in her late 20's and will age fast when im almost the same age as her. And i wasn't financially secure. I wouldn't marry your wife either so whats your point?

No because you said hoes dont do those things but they do. not most but some. as far as chemistry and sex and how she took care of me id say she was the best girl i ever met i probably would like her even more than your wife but she was high drama and emotional and of course a professional hoe who just wanted my money.


Not all hoe's get paid. I know that's hard to believe. Sometimes they want to screw you because they like you, or their drunk, or they need something, or their just crazy, or their mad at their boyfriend. Why they want to screw you doesn't really matter. Most of the time, sex is all your going to get out it. They have no intention of being your girlfriend or sticking around for long. That's my point.

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Re: For all the guys who've had bad experiences with Filipin

Postby newlifeinphilippines » Wed Nov 12, 2014 1:32 am

Taco wrote:
newlifeinphilippines wrote:
Taco wrote:
newlifeinphilippines wrote:
Taco wrote:You guys already know this but when your drunk and on vacation its easy to forget. Filipina hoe's won't cook or clean because they have men throwing money at them.




Wrong my hoe served me hand and foot and did any sex i wanted at any time. She was a bargirl. So your notion of love has been proven false. :lol:


You didn't marry her so it proves I'm right.


Regardless of she was i wouldn't be dumb enough to marry a girl when she is in her late 20's and will age fast when im almost the same age as her. And i wasn't financially secure. I wouldn't marry your wife either so whats your point?

No because you said hoes dont do those things but they do. not most but some. as far as chemistry and sex and how she took care of me id say she was the best girl i ever met i probably would like her even more than your wife but she was high drama and emotional and of course a professional hoe who just wanted my money.


Not all hoe's get paid. I know that's hard to believe. Sometimes they want to screw you because they like you, or their drunk, or they need something, or their just crazy. Why they screw you doesn't really matter. Most of the time, sex is all your going to get out it. They have no intention of making your life easier or sticking around for long. That's my point.

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Yes drama and jealousy is a big issue with a hoe and you can't rely on them you have to carry the weight of the relationship and if your down for the count chances are she will dissapear. What their agenda is usually money but if your a good looking stud then obviously they may make an exception or at least deemphasize the money issue.
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