Happier Abroad - Your Guide to Better Dating, Social Connection and Mental Health Beyond America, Foreign Women, Expat, Overseas, Relationships, Love, Europe, Russia, Asia, South America, Philippines, Thailand, Russian Brides

My Grand Masterpiece

The Happier Abroad Ebook

500+ pages of revealing reasons, comparisons, observations, explanations and arguments on why Dating, Relationships, Social Connection and Mental Health are better overseas. Full of truths not publicly discussed due to their politically incorrect nature. Offers hope and real solutions for lonely, dateless males in America. Eye opening, unusually truthful and courageous! Comes with Two Bonus Gifts! See Reader Reviews and Video Reviews New! Global Dating Guide

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Executive Summary

Purpose and Objectives

Introduction to Happier Abroad

A background summary of what led me to start this movement, its purpose and mission.

Introduction to Global Dating

Are your romantic, social and personal needs unmet in America's anti-social culture and are at a dead end? Would you rather have ONE dating choice every few YEARS or MANY dating choices EVERYDAY? Continue

Motivational Messages from my Expat Advisor

Like Real Estate, Dating is all about LOCATION, LOCATION, LOCATION!

Sound too good to be true? Then see these compelling testimonials from those who lived and experienced it firsthand! Read this inspiring story in the Philippines! And see how this man's self-worth and sanity was transformed by a Filipina! Learn here why PUA doesn't work.

PROOF from Photos and Videos!

For concrete visual proof, see my Photo Collage , Slide Shows, Photojournals and Feature Film!

Want more than mere words that dating is all about location?

See irrefutable concrete proof in my Photo Collages of how my dateless monastic life in America skyrocketed overseas from zero to infinity, fulfilling my dreams and fantasies!

My Russia/Europe Collage

My Philippines Collage

For thousands of more images see My Russia Trilogy Photojournals and my approachable faces gallery, as well as my cultural and architectural gallery! Mountains of evidence to back up my claims!

My Story: How I Became Happier Abroad

Read how I endured and suffered 20 years of loneliness and datelessness in America that led me overseas.

Think you're the only one suffering from the inequities of the US dating market?

Then see these hundreds of sincere intelligent letters I've received from people in the same boat.

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Major Advantages of Foreign Women

If you think women are the same everywhere, think again! See these 6 major advantages of Russian / European women and this Comparison Chart. Learn the truth about the fear of approaching women that the PUA movement won't tell you, and ask yourself, would YOU be comfortable approaching these female faces?

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asian women
Perfect Asian girls

Unveil the Propaganda behind America

See my essay Propaganda vs. Real Life in America. Understand how most Europeans view America. Read what many immigrants and foreigners really think of America. Learn why American "freedom and democracy" is a myth. Here is a list of what America is good for and what it isn't and 3 Taboo Truths in America.

Do you constantly feel lonely, insecure and fragmented in America?

Well the good news is that the problem isn't really you. Almost everyone feels that way in America, though few will admit it. To understand why, see Fragmentation vs. Wholeness and Interconnectedness vs. Separateness. Learn why why America is bad for social life, dating and mental health.

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Happier Abroad Introductions and Romance Tours!

(browse thousands of women's photos and arrange to meet them!)

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Zeitgeist The Movie

Zeitgeist Addendum

Zeitgeist Orientation

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"I want everyone on this site to know that Winston is 100% right. I have lived abroad and seen the difference in my social life, in how it made me feel inside; and I've also seen the antisocial lame-ass dating scene in the US, and how it undermines a man's confidence and inhibits his ability to simply be himself. It is an absolute shame, and no man should have to live that way... Thanks for a great site Winston. You're doing a service to all American guys by exposing the limited possibilities for happiness and social connection in the US." - Merc

"I've never been to the Philippines, Winston, but after spending a month in Thailand I'm willing to believe everything you say about it... That was my first trip abroad, Winston, and it has convinced me that your position that Western guys can have a better life in other countries is absolutely correct." - Merlin

“I was very nervous around women... I traveled to Asia and within a week I learned that I am really only abnormally nervous around American women... What it boils down to, is that foreign women are an entirely different species... It's one of those things you have to experience to fully understand." - Jack

"I went to SE Asia 3 months ago, My Social life went from 0 to Rockstar overnight. America is a dead place, Just GO and get on that airplane. Life is better abroad." - Taogarrett

"I blamed myself for my lack of success with American women. So, I worked hard for many years to improve myself... and I was still getting rejected by women who had no business being picky!... So then I did some traveling to Hungary, the Czech Republic, and the Philippines, and beautiful young women couldn't keep their hands off of me! Dating is like real estate- the 3 most important factors are location, location, location!" - Hero

"I appreciate Winston doing this site because frankly, I know he's right. Before I moved abroad my social life in the US was a 2 out of 10 (at best). When I moved abroad all that changed dramatically, and I made true friends and dated gorgeous women." - Merc

"After weeks and months of criticizing Winston Wu, I have to give it to him... He is right... American women are more stuck up than foreign women and the proof was what I witnessed...? I actually went to most countries abroad and what Winston said was SO true. I now applaud for his effort in helping dateless man like me in America face hope again. Thank you Winston Wu." - xtremixt1

"I would recommend this website to anyone, HappierAbroad.com, created by Wu, a genius at any rate. He's someone who's actually gonna show you proof. All these other websites you go to, they really don't show you anything. His ebook has changed my view of American culture 180 degrees." - Kairosan's video review

"Your book has exposed me to a paradigm shift with regard to dating. My collection of dating / seduction books is now merely a repository of rubbish." - Jelani, NY

"I thank you Winston from the bottom of my heart for showing me and other lonely men THE WAY to PARADISE... Those seduction books I use to buy are total GARBAGE compared to what YOU'VE proven and you put PUA artist and experts to complete shame with SIMPLICITY and REAL PROVEN SOLUTIONS WINSTON..." - Dwayne, NY

"After reading all your ebooks and following your advice to visit Lithuania I did and met the love of my life. I really give you credit because you are 100% right... I would also like to let you know that I am getting married in MAY 2008. Keep up the good work Winston you do inspire people." - Fan Mail

"Hello Winston:

I am reading your revised, updated book as of August 2009, and I must say that so far it's are real eye-opener... good job on your ebook. You are a brilliant orator and you are very good at articulating in succinct detail the plight of men today. Keep up the good work." - Steve, OH

"Winston's blogs and photojournals are epic! I have a new internet hobby now: reading Winston's stories.

I'm moving to St Petersburg in the new year and as I was researching I came across Happier Abroad, and I couldn't agree more with the overall message... Winston is absolutely right from my experiences. I had to go somewhere and then come back to see the light, but I definitely see it." - Unnamed from Canada

"I believe in Wu. Wu was right about the Polish girls and them being really friendly and giggling and blushing. Wu was right about being able to go over to the girls' tables and immediately go and sit with them. Wu was right about the society being more open in Poland than in America. WU WAS RIGHT!!! ... Wu is trying to help other people's lives. And he helped my life because I stumbled upon his website and read his stuff and I was inspired in part by his website to try Poland. AND IT WORKED!!!!! WU WAS RIGHT!!!! WU WAS CORRECT!!!" - Luke

"Having been in band, I've done well with women in America, but I am very well traveled outside the US and only the blind could not see that what you say is true." - Ken

"i agree with wu, and i'm on the flipside of things- i'm a woman! after being dateless (yes, even in college, save one date) and going to france, i found guys approaching fairly regularly-- in random placesl like coffee shops and museums, not just in bars. and what's more, women too (platonically)-- thus, dating and forming friendships were easier in a certain way. it was great. guys, ask us girls out! with so few other guys having the guts to do so, you won't have much competition!" - YouTube comment

"I totally agree with Wwu. I went to Russia and married a beautiful Russian lady in 1999. We have been married almost 10 years now and have a 6 year old daughter together. Russian women have a quality that is difficult to understand unless you have been there. It is a completely different experience than the US." - YouTube comment

"SWEET website. WOW! Inspiring, useful, fun. Fascinating to see the reactions of your readers! As one pointed out, you really are a leader. Unusually truthful and courageous." - Jester, CA

"Photos prove everything they backup the talk. You walk the talk so to speak and very few of these other men on these Blogging sites can ever claim this not even the agency owners whom many are scamming many men." - Derek, WA

"Winston talks the talk, and he walks the walk. Thats more then can be said for most. Kudos Winston." - Grunt

"It's such a wonderful time in my life and YOU are the person I thank for this guidance and for making HappierAbroad.com and giving lonely guys everywhere a chance at solutions and cures to datelessness and hope to having a life that is fullfilled overseas. I'm so excited and so happy now Winston." - Dwayne, NY

"Thank you Winston for all of your help. Your knowledge and experiences are inspirational and GOLDEN and you are well liked and honored by MANY. Keep up the good work my friend. You're doing EXCELLENT !!!" - Dwayne, NY

"A GREAT WEB SITE! Thanks for the many hours of work it took to put together. Also I curse you for the many hours I'll spend reading it all. ;) Thanks again." - Ross

"You are an infinite inspiration to me and I feel tremendous admiration to the fact that you actually put your dream into reality!!!" - James, Canada

"After months and months of observing your views and actually reading through your articles, and experiencing various American people, I made a conclusion that you are correct and I fully agree with your views... Thanks for your enlightening articles." - Fan Mail

"I have been reading the stories and adventures of Winston, and like the rest of you I'M IMPRESSED!!!… I am striking out on a BOLD and NEW path for my life such as Winston did... I love how he persevered and finally got the girl of his dreams. WAY TO GO WINSTON..."

- Edward Kingsley

"Sir, first off, let me tell you in one word what I thought of your e-book... OUTSTANDING!!!!!!!!!! I'm currently reading it right now and it is great!!!" - Darryl, NY, Retired Air Force

"Everything you wrote in your treatise is precisely to the point… It took me a while to realize that there was a chasm of difference between the media picture of America and real life, but when the truth hit home, I felt very disappointed and empty. I even had a lapse of self-condemnation as I thought the problem was in me. I have gotten over it now and can see clearly. Your writing puts all the pieces of the puzzle together very well." - Yuri, Russian immigrant

"I cannot express in words how impressed I am by your work and how accurate and true you are to yourself. I have lived in the US for 13 years now, and I can't but agree with every single word you wrote… Congratulations again on a job well done!!!!!" - Fan Mail

"Dear Winston, I have just read your article Propaganda vs. real life in America. I only wish I could be so eloquent - its as if you have been reading my thoughts. I came here for over 20 years ago searching for the stars with my 2 kids." - Celia

"Your website truly is a treasure! It's making me more self-aware in areas that I may have been slipping into "typical American mode" in, and is opening my mind even more." - Megan, WY

"I recently stumbled across your website... I'm so impressed to find someone who clearly, boldly, and honestly declared the sickening state of social life in America and the deep ills that affect nearly all aspects of social interaction here, not just in relationships with women, but also the overwhelming feeling of disconnection and superficiality that pervades nearly all types of social interaction here... Winston, You are the type of person that sees/feels something wrong and does something about it. Respect!" - ip

"Your ebook was refreshing. I thought I was the only one who thought this way about American social climate." - Fan Mail

"You inspire me! Never change!!" - Cathal

"This guy is a legend… Read his long story and the photos (including the albums) and you will be amazed… my hero" - Allan

"You are a champ. Most of us, even if we did find the holy grail would either be too selfish or more likely shy and embarassed to ever come out publicly the way you have. Your generosity of spirit is truly amazing." - John, New Zealand

"YOU ARE MY HERO TOO. Here I am with clinical depression feeling like I'm wasting my year after college and its honestly giving me hope browsing your photo collages and seeing that happiness is definitely possible, no matter who you are." - Karen, Stanford, CA

"I'm currently 17 years old and like you I am a Chinese American. I love the ebooks you have online and I really enjoy hearing about your success with white women abroad. I have a research paper on "my hero" and I choose to do my report on you and your success." - Joseph, USA

"You are a hero for the underdog, proving that with balls and determination you can find fun, sex, love, and happiness…" - Jeff, Atlanta

"Winston the reason you are successful is that you admitted there was a problem and went outside the box to get what you want. Most people settle for what life puts right in front of them." - Jeff, Atlanta

"Winston you're one of the few people who will tell it like it is, even if it makes yourself look bad. I give you that. Most guys brag and BS and deny their faults. Like Dwight (our mutual friend) if you say something happened, it happened. And like him, you don't just talk about it, you DO IT." - Jeff, Atlanta

"I visited your website, happierabroad.com, and I agree with everything you write. You are my hero! You have spoken truths that many men do not understand. You have broken ground that many men have not... You are an inspiration!" - Mark, Washington DC

"The stuff you recommend, winston, has always managed to utterly CHANGE MY LIFE. thank you for being an inspiration. you will never know how much it means to me!!!" - Elizabeth, Orange County, CA

"I love rebels and free spirits, I really do. And that's why I like Wu so much. There are so many people who turn into depressed potatoes in the USA. They just sit there and get more and more depressed. And if you don't fit in, they just label you a "loser". Wu didn't just sit down and take that. Wu rebelled against that." - Luke

"I've had a bunch of other people validate what Wu says in general about European Culture. The last guy I talked with posted that message about Spain and the women he met. He too is confirming what Wu has said." - Geoff, CO

"Just thought I'd say hi and tell you how much your writing inspired me... I think people "need" to read what you've written" - Joan, USA

"Winston you are now an Asian American Moses, and you are leading your people out of the "captivity" of boredom, loneliness, lovelessness and datelessness to the various promised lands of milk and honey, many honeys that is and milk is to come later. Lol." - Ladislav, my Expat Advisor

"People can be divided into three groups

Those who make things happen

Those who watch things happen

And those who wonder what happened

You are in the first group Winston"

- Ernie, San Diego, CA

"Despite all the flak you get you are certainly an interesting character and probably the most famous (or infamous) self-made asian on the internet" - Rob, USA

"You're probably the most atypical Asian male I've ever met." - Peter, an old Scottish traveler I met in Estonia who's been to nearly 100 countries

"Most Asians don't think for themselves. They simply follow the pack. You are an exception." - Jean, CO

"I enjoy your writing and you are one of the most inspiring dudes around. Main thing is you don't give a shit what other people (especially white) say about you - highly unusual, unfortunately, for any race of people, Chinese especially. So your stuff is absolutely awesome." - John, USA

"Winston, I am amazed at your ability to attract women that are much more attractive than yourself. I wish I had more of your magic. I consider myself much more attractive than you, but you seem to do better with the ladies. What is your secret?"

- Fan Mail

"To be honest with you Winston, I think almost all of the girls you hit on (and many of them you scored) are all very hot. This makes me wonder how you did it, especially the fact that you're an oriental. I know some guys who have a lot more than you, but they can't do anywhere near what you did (in terms of girls of course)." - Fan Mail

"I do support your adventures and would to commend you for doing what many guys are far too chickens*** and cowardly to do ..so my hat is off to you and I would like to hear more about your times abroad." - LE

"Your tenacity is astounding. All the stuff you went through. Most people would have given up." - Geoff, CO

I'm Winston Wu, founder of Happier Abroad. After many years of datelessness and loneliness in America without hope or solution, and having tried everything, I finally found a real and permanent Solution in 2002. It was so simple and easy, yet unknown to most because it was too far outside of the box, beyond the programmed reality of most Americans. Yet it can be summed up in only two words - GOING ABROAD.

Those two simple words alone describe how my hopeless futile situation transformed into one of abundance. My dating, love and social life was transformed completely, skyrocketing from zero to infinity. My Photos, Slide Shows and Film testify to this with with abundant concrete proof.

Along with that, I discovered extraordinary differences and comparisons in the areas of dating, social life and mental health overseas that changed my life forever. And that's what I want to share with you here on this site, in the hopes this will help and change other lives as well. Born again and elated, I began sharing my discoveries with others and in 2007 started this site to publicize them.

We are the first and only movement that focuses on Proven Overseas Solutions to the dysfunctional problems in America that make it one of the worst cultures for Dating, Social Life and Mental Health. We help the lonely, isolated, frustrated, dateless and sexually frustrated in a way no one else does, by revealing overseas cultures and environments conducive to natural healthy Social Connectedness, Dating and Mental Health. First, we bring exposure to major dysfunctional conditions in America that affect many but are ignored or denied. In general:

There is no sense of human connection in America. An "ice barrier" exists between strangers. Every man is an island. People are socially engineered to be anti-social, segregated and paranoid. Most don't even know their neighbors. Groups are non-inclusive. People act superficial and are difficult to connect with. It feels awkward and uncomfortable to try to meet people. One feels alone even in crowded places.
Dating and relationships are a total nightmare for men. Women despise men and see them as fools, creeps and predators. They are not feminine or sweet, and do not giggle or blush. The girls are defensive, unapproachable, paranoid, and harbor a psychological resistance to relationships with men. They have an off-chart sense of entitlement. The male/female dynamic is totally out of whack. Men do not feel wanted or needed, and their niceness is spat upon. There are more dateless males than anywhere in the world.
The artificial culture erodes your self-worth and sanity. It conditions you to feel inadequate, insecure and unworthy, to keep you weak and easy to control. You are trained to fill your void by living to work and consuming endless junk. The social culture is like a fake mask that doesn't allow you to "be yourself". Many act phony to compensate for their inferiority complexes. All this undermines one's psychological balance.

These problems culminate to make America one of the WORST, if not the worst, countries for Social Life, Dating and Mental Health, and explain why it has the HIGHEST rates of mental illness and loneliness in the world (see stats). As the great Indian sage Jiddu Krishnamurti stated, "It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society." Yet these realities are unacknowledged, and it is taboo to mention them (especially # 2) lest you be perceived as a "loser". Instead, you are expected to always maintain the facade that "everying is great" and if you have a problem you are expected to blame or improve yourself. But the truth is that the problem does not lie in the victims, evidenced by the fact that for many sufferers, these problems alleviate once they are in different cultures (demonstrated in these testimonials and those on the right). The GOOD NEWS is that in most overseas countries, these conditions are the OPPOSITE:

There is a natural sense of social connectedness. The social environment is more open and inclusive. It is easy and natural to meet and connect with others. There is an instant familiarity between strangers rather than an "ice barrier". Friendships are truer. A camaraderie exists that you don't find in America.
Dating is natural and male/female dynamics are complementary. Women are feminine, sweet and modest. They are more approachable and easier to meet. Girls giggle and blush. Females provide love, companionship and support. Men feel valued, appreciated and wanted. Niceness wins actual points.
You feel accepted, whole and good about yourself. The "real you" is allowed to flourish. One feels a natural sense of wholeness and oneness. You do not need to act "fake" or develop inferiority complexes.

Now ask yourself: Which of these two social environments would YOU be happier in? Yet most Americans never hear about these comparisons, and those in the know have to be careful not to be too open about them due to their taboo and politically incorrect nature. Hence they are not acknowledged publicly. So that's what we are here for, to disseminate these life-changing truths to those in need (since no one else will). We know that once you go abroad and experience all this, your life is changed forever! (For an expanded version of these comparisons, click here)

The voluminous material at Happier Abroad demonstrate and prove all this conclusively. We provide an abundance of verifiable testimonials, photos, videos, articles, ebooks, guidance and an online community for you to participate in. Our site has changed lives and inspired many, giving them hope, validation and a Proven Solution that has led people like you to Love, Social Connectedness and Personal Fulfillment Overseas, becoming "Happier Abroad" :)

So let us open your eyes and show you a better life overseas!

You may start by exploring the the key links in the three gold boxes at the top. Then browse the content below starting with the Executive Summary and Introduction, and working your way down from there. Thanks for your interest.

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