Home-Country vs. Expatriate-Country
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What's some of the plus & minuses of your Home-Country vs. Expatriate-Country
Trinidad & Tobago
I would have to say I don't miss the traffic & mindless drinking & partying the locals do sometimes. I do miss the serene island life, the sand & the sea, & the abundance of fresh seafoods. The warm tropical climate too.
Some cities are cold, the shops & taxis can be a rip off if you're not street smart since most Turks think foreigners are rich. I do like the abundance & variety of fresh fruits & vegetables available & a big plus is the cost of living is real low here in most cities. Pampering is a Luxury but it's affordable here; like thermal spas, hamams, etc.
Some of the things I miss about the US are:
1. The beautiful nature, landscapes and national parks that are unparalleled in the rest of the world. Having a car to drive around them.
2. The great variety of consumer choices and foods.
But I don't like the US in these areas:
1. Social isolation. It feels very isolating. People expect you to mind your own business. There is no feeling of human connection. Only older people in their 50's and above, are open and sociable with strangers. In most other countries, young people are more open and inclusive and sociable with strangers.
2. Flirtation is a taboo viewed negatively. It is seen as creepy. But in most other countries, it is far more acceptable, welcome and appreciated, for women are flattered by compliments and being hit on.
3. I can't just ask a girl out. If I try, she will say that she has a boyfriend or is busy or has some other excuse. Every time. Thus there is no way for me to get a date, contrary to the myth that it's easy to get a date in the US which the movies portray. In many other countries, I just ask a girl out and she says sure and suggests a day and time to me. Simple as that.
4. Constant feeling of insecurity and low self-esteem. Due to the competitive nature and mindset of Americans, and the sense of isolation, you constantly feel insecure about yourself and not accepted for who you are. So you constantly struggle to maintain your self-esteem, which is a neverending battle that should not be an issue, because it isn't in other countries.
5. High cost of living and no national healthcare for all. If you have to see a doctor, you're screwed out of a lot of money.
You like your home country more than expatriate country because you spent more time in your home country with full of freedom and you have lots of friends in the country while in Expatriate country you have to make new friends and the culture and entire environment is changed.
Not for me. If you are a misfit in your own country, you will only have other misfits as friends, and not very many. You will not be seen as cool or attractive by the opposite sex, especially since your looks are not the type that girls in your country like. So you have nothing to lose by going abroad and seeking a better life, socially and romantically.
The US also has an empty depressing vibe because there is no human connection like there is in other countries, including poor countries. Humans need social connection to be truly happy. America does not acknowledge this and neither does its media. It thinks all you need are work and consumerism, because that's what the government wants so they can tax you. You are merely human livestock and cattle to the ruling elite. That's why they want you to fill your soul with materialism and consumerism and be a workaholic who lives to work.
What the US media never tells you is that in poor third world countries like the Philippines or Mexico, people may suffer from poverty, yes, but: No one suffers from loneliness. No one suffers from lack of female companionship. No one suffers from social isolation and disconnection. For some reason, the US media NEVER tells you that.
There are many deep taboo truths that you are never told. That's why this site exists.
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