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Attention whores

Postby Johnny1975 » Sun Jun 23, 2013 1:29 pm


Women who wear revealing clothes and claim that they're doing it for themselves, and women who kiss other women in clubs even though they're not really into women.

When have you ever heard of a man dressing in a cool way, a way that draws attention to him, and then he claims that he's not after attention, and that he's just doing it for himself, and that women shouldn't assume that it's for them?

And men almost never (if ever) kiss other men in public for the sole purpose of attracting looks.

When a woman dresses in a way that is liable to draw attention, she know it, and that's why she's doing it. It would be nice if they were honest about it. To clarify that, I'm saying that the attention whore element is not the dressing up itself, rather it's the denial of the reason for the dressing up. In other words, some women get a kick out of drawing attention to themselves by creating a situation in which they can say "What? You think I'm dressing up for anyone else? Don't you know that it's just for me? Can't you understand that sometimes a girl just wants to dress up for herself!!!???" <---that, right there, that drama, that's the attention whoring.

As for the kissing, that's just stupid.
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Re: Attention whores

Postby BellaRuth » Sun Jun 23, 2013 1:48 pm


Straight women dont kiss each other. You either found yourself in a gay bar or met your first lesbians.

And yes, revealing clothes is for attention. If anyone says they are not, they are embarrassed that they want attention from others. But theres nothing fundamentally wrong with wanting people to think you are beautiful or sexy. Its part of being a woman. A lot of people overdo it and look trashy, but thats a question of taste.
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Re: Attention whores

Postby Johnny1975 » Sun Jun 23, 2013 2:05 pm


Straight women who are attention whores sometimes kiss each other, and rub up against each other for all to see. Sometimes they do it in response to being approached, as if to really stick it to the guy.

I never said that there's anything wrong with wanting to be considered attractive. I don't know why you're making the point that there's nothing wrong with it. I agree. What I find silly is when they pretend that it's just for themselves. One would have to be narcissistic to the extreme if that were the case. Then again, you never know, some women might actually be that narcissistic.
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Re: Attention whores

Postby Renata » Sun Jun 23, 2013 2:11 pm


It's an easy way to seperate the flowers from the weeds Johnny :mrgreen: At least you know & can see the travesty.
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Re: Attention whores

Postby Johnny1975 » Sun Jun 23, 2013 2:16 pm


Renata wrote:It's an easy way to seperate the flowers from the weeds Johnny :mrgreen: At least you know & can see the travesty.


Which one are you referring to?
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Re: Attention whores

Postby NinjaPuppy » Sun Jun 23, 2013 8:13 pm


Johnny1975 wrote:Straight women who are attention whores sometimes kiss each other, and rub up against each other for all to see. Sometimes they do it in response to being approached, as if to really stick it to the guy.

Some do it for attention, some do it because they are lesbians. If they're doing it in response to being approached, then they must be lesbians. I doubt that these women are doing anything to 'stick it' to a guy.

Johnny1975 wrote:I never said that there's anything wrong with wanting to be considered attractive. I don't know why you're making the point that there's nothing wrong with it. I agree. What I find silly is when they pretend that it's just for themselves. One would have to be narcissistic to the extreme if that were the case. Then again, you never know, some women might actually be that narcissistic.

First off here, no one is saying that you are saying anything is wrong with wanting to be considered attractive. No one is trying to put words in your mouth. If you have a problem with any of us expressing our opinion or personal experience with a subject, then why are you here?
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Re: Attention whores

Postby Johnny1975 » Mon Jun 24, 2013 2:43 am


Some straight women do it, and some of those do it in response to being approached.

Bellaruth said that there's nothing wrong with wanting to be considered attractive. But that wasn't my point. So for her to mention it, that is effectively putting words into my mouth because it is implying that I'm trying to say that there is something wrong with it.
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Re: Attention whores

Postby BellaRuth » Mon Jun 24, 2013 2:46 am


Johnny1975 wrote:Bellaruth said that there's nothing wrong with wanting to be considered attractive. But that wasn't my point. So for her to mention it, that is effectively putting words into my mouth because it is implying that I'm trying to say that there is something wrong with it.


You need to relax.

I wasn't putting words in your mouth, just elaborating on my thoughts. However, you did call the title of the thread 'Attention Whores', so you shouldn't be too surprised if someone gets the idea you think there's something wrong with dressing for attention.
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Re: Attention whores

Postby Johnny1975 » Mon Jun 24, 2013 3:19 am


BellaRuth wrote:
Johnny1975 wrote:Bellaruth said that there's nothing wrong with wanting to be considered attractive. But that wasn't my point. So for her to mention it, that is effectively putting words into my mouth because it is implying that I'm trying to say that there is something wrong with it.


You need to relax.

I wasn't putting words in your mouth, just elaborating on my thoughts. However, you did call the title of the thread 'Attention Whores', so you shouldn't be too surprised if someone gets the idea you think there's something wrong with dressing for attention.


When you said it...

1) You said it only as a way of elaborating on your thoughts, nothing more.

2) You said it because you thought that I think there's something wrong with dressing for attention.
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