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What would make you not want to date someone?

Postby Renata » Thu Jun 27, 2013 3:34 pm


What would make you not want to date someone?

There are many awful things that would make me not want to date someone, but I'll have to go with smoking ... it might seem strange but I just wouldn't want to date a smoker. Can't stand the smell. That's why I don't frequent bars & clubs. Stupid has a broad spectrum, but people that smoke they have a special place of their own on there. :?
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Re: What would make you not want to date someone?

Postby NinjaPuppy » Thu Jun 27, 2013 4:35 pm


Hmmmm, I'd have to say that my number one turn off is a negative mindset. I feel drained after meeting anyone who doesn't have a positive outlook on life.
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Re: What would make you not want to date someone?

Postby Ava Paige » Sat Jul 06, 2013 8:56 pm


I found here a list of the 10 biggest dating turn offs for women:

http://www.lovepanky.com/men/understand ... -for-women

But personally, I get turned off easily when a guy rants about his life.
I once chatted with this Dutch guy online who kept talking about how he was bullied when he was in high school, children throwing bricks at him and all those stuff. Of course he got my pity and sympathy at first. I comforted him like there was no tomorrow, but after a few weeks I came to realize that his self pity makes him a loser.
I can't really say that "I won't date a loser" but I would say that I won't date a guy who sees himself as a loser because then I would see him too as a loser. BIG TURN OFF. So women are not the only ones who must know how to carry herself with confidence, it's a requirement for guys too!

Next is hygiene. A guy who picks on his nose in front of me, who farts 24/7, who smells like a caveman, and urgh! Bad breath! I don't know, smell is really just very important for me. I easily get attracted to a clean looking, good smelling guy.
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Re: What would make you not want to date someone?

Postby Johnny1975 » Sun Jul 07, 2013 2:21 am


Renata wrote:What would make you not want to date someone?

There are many awful things that would make me not want to date someone, but I'll have to go with smoking ... it might seem strange but I just wouldn't want to date a smoker. Can't stand the smell. That's why I don't frequent bars & clubs. Stupid has a broad spectrum, but people that smoke they have a special place of their own on there. :?


Einstein was a smoker. Many intelligent people are smokers, you ignorant nazi.
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Re: What would make you not want to date someone?

Postby NinjaPuppy » Sun Jul 07, 2013 5:39 am


Hmmmm, I just thought of another thing. That would be a guy who calls any woman a derogatory name.
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Re: What would make you not want to date someone?

Postby Ava Paige » Sun Jul 07, 2013 7:06 am


Johnny1975 wrote:
Renata wrote:What would make you not want to date someone?

There are many awful things that would make me not want to date someone, but I'll have to go with smoking ... it might seem strange but I just wouldn't want to date a smoker. Can't stand the smell. That's why I don't frequent bars & clubs. Stupid has a broad spectrum, but people that smoke they have a special place of their own on there. :?


Einstein was a smoker. Many intelligent people are smokers, you ignorant nazi.


Well as for smokers, as long as they are hygienic enough not to have a bad breath, smoking is not a turn off for me as some girls think it is. It's just that chain smokers make me worry a lot about their health, and physical appearance deterioration is faster for smokers than their nonsmoker counterparts.
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Re: What would make you not want to date someone?

Postby Renata » Wed Jul 10, 2013 3:59 pm


Johnny1975 wrote:
Renata wrote:What would make you not want to date someone?

There are many awful things that would make me not want to date someone, but I'll have to go with smoking ... it might seem strange but I just wouldn't want to date a smoker. Can't stand the smell. That's why I don't frequent bars & clubs. Stupid has a broad spectrum, but people that smoke they have a special place of their own on there. :?


Einstein was a smoker. Many intelligent people are smokers, you ignorant nazi.

"Heil Hitler! ... maybe he was saving the world by gassing all dem jews who knows, anyway stupid people smoke!!! The box says, HEY YOU WILL GET CANCER & DIE IF YOU SMOKE THIS :!: but even if the price doubles smokers will pay to poison their bodies, becomes addicts of the cigs & slaves to it.

Ava I'm with you one the hygeine, ... smelly boys not allowed lol
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Re: What would make you not want to date someone?

Postby Riyko » Thu Jul 11, 2013 12:42 am


Guys who treat women like they are shit and that it is their god given right to do it and all women should have to bow down to them. Also name calling isn't cool. Plus double standards of it's okay for me to hang out until 2am with the opposite sex, but you can't. I could go on forever.
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Re: What would make you not want to date someone?

Postby Johnny1975 » Thu Jul 11, 2013 2:43 am


Renata wrote:
Johnny1975 wrote:
Renata wrote:What would make you not want to date someone?

There are many awful things that would make me not want to date someone, but I'll have to go with smoking ... it might seem strange but I just wouldn't want to date a smoker. Can't stand the smell. That's why I don't frequent bars & clubs. Stupid has a broad spectrum, but people that smoke they have a special place of their own on there. :?


Einstein was a smoker. Many intelligent people are smokers, you ignorant nazi.

"Heil Hitler! ... maybe he was saving the world by gassing all dem jews who knows, anyway stupid people smoke!!! The box says, HEY YOU WILL GET CANCER & DIE IF YOU SMOKE THIS :!: but even if the price doubles smokers will pay to poison their bodies, becomes addicts of the cigs & slaves to it.

Ava I'm with you one the hygeine, ... smelly boys not allowed lol


I'd like to take all your relatives and friends who have ever smoked and put them in a giant blender and make smoothies. Don't take that personally, it's just that there are people in third world countries with nothing to eat.
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Re: What would make you not want to date someone?

Postby Renata » Thu Jul 11, 2013 12:46 pm


Those smoothies wouldn't be 100% organic :|

:mrgreen:
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Re: What would make you not want to date someone?

Postby Johnny1975 » Fri Jul 12, 2013 1:51 am


Renata wrote:Those smoothies wouldn't be 100% organic :|

:mrgreen:


I believe you.
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Re: What would make you not want to date someone?

Postby Renata » Sun Jul 14, 2013 1:51 pm


Johnny1975 wrote:
Renata wrote:Those smoothies wouldn't be 100% organic :|

:mrgreen:


I believe you.

Good boy always believe what I tell you :lol:
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