Ladies Discussion Forum

[Johnny1975]

Women who wear revealing clothes and claim that they're doing it for themselves, and women who kiss other women in clubs even though they're not really into women.

When have you ever heard of a man dressing in a cool way, a way that draws attention to him, and then he claims that he's not after attention, and that he's just doing it for himself, and that women shouldn't assume that it's for them?

And men almost never (if ever) kiss other men in public for the sole purpose of attracting looks.

When a woman dresses in a way that is liable to draw attention, she know it, and that's why she's doing it. It would be nice if they were honest about it. To clarify that, I'm saying that the attention whore element is not the dressing up itself, rather it's the denial of the reason for the dressing up. In other words, some women get a kick out of drawing attention to themselves by creating a situation in which they can say "What? You think I'm dressing up for anyone else? Don't you know that it's just for me? Can't you understand that sometimes a girl just wants to dress up for herself!!!???" <---that, right there, that drama, that's the attention whoring.

As for the kissing, that's just stupid.

[BellaRuth]

Straight women dont kiss each other. You either found yourself in a gay bar or met your first lesbians.

And yes, revealing clothes is for attention. If anyone says they are not, they are embarrassed that they want attention from others. But theres nothing fundamentally wrong with wanting people to think you are beautiful or sexy. Its part of being a woman. A lot of people overdo it and look trashy, but thats a question of taste.

[Johnny1975]

Straight women who are attention whores sometimes kiss each other, and rub up against each other for all to see. Sometimes they do it in response to being approached, as if to really stick it to the guy.

I never said that there's anything wrong with wanting to be considered attractive. I don't know why you're making the point that there's nothing wrong with it. I agree. What I find silly is when they pretend that it's just for themselves. One would have to be narcissistic to the extreme if that were the case. Then again, you never know, some women might actually be that narcissistic.

[Renata]

It's an easy way to seperate the flowers from the weeds Johnny At least you know & can see the travesty.

[Johnny1975]

[NinjaPuppy]

[Johnny1975]

Some straight women do it, and some of those do it in response to being approached.

Bellaruth said that there's nothing wrong with wanting to be considered attractive. But that wasn't my point. So for her to mention it, that is effectively putting words into my mouth because it is implying that I'm trying to say that there is something wrong with it.

[BellaRuth]

[Johnny1975]