Re: Why do American women only want to date thugs and bad bo
Posted: August 11th, 2018, 9:00 pm
The women themselves are toxic, so they go for guys that are toxic, including guys with massive criminal records, and even guys who have just been released, or have even escaped, from prison. Toxic people seek toxic people, it's that simple. Bad boys and thugs also tend to be like bodyguards to the woman, keeping all other guys away. American women love when other guys are scared of their boyfriends/fiancees/husbands, and they love seeing other guys flee. Why else do you see attractive American women avoiding the skinny to average guys and going only for guys built like brutes? Because they want to see fear and terror in all other guys that see them nearby. And everyone I am sure has seen it again and again. A guy approaches a dating or married couple because he wants someone to chat with or hang out with (could be at a motorcycle event, a concert, a festival, a beach, a public swimming pool, or even the local bar or tavern), she buries her face in his shoulder and uses him as a "human shield" or a "hiding wall," he gets aggressive and defensive and orders the social guy to "back off, or else!"Winston wrote: ↑November 7th, 2017, 2:22 pmThe reason is simple. Some American girls like bad boys because they are bad girls, or want to become bad girls. Like attracts like. It's a universal principle and the true law of attraction. If these girls were seriously good girls with kind, caring hearts and good moral values, they would not be into bad boys of course. Extreme opposites and great differences do not attract. For example, a person who is 60 percent good and 40 percent bad, can get along with someone who is 60 percent bad and 40 percent good. But a person that is 90 percent good will not get along with someone 90 percent bad. Extremes don't attract and don't get along and don't like each other. When you are with someone too different from you, you feel uncomfortable and do not vibe with them. It's simple logic.
Also, another reason is that some women need drama and conflict in their lives to feel alive. They feed off it, even if they don't know it. Many young women do not enjoy peace and harmony. They need something to fight about to feel alive. If you won't fight with them, they will start a fight with you, usually over something trivial. And if you refuse to fight, they break up with you. A bad boy gives them a constant source of drama, so it makes these girls feel more alive. It's like a drug and addiction to them. They need their fix once in a while.
Another possible reason could be that the girl has daddy issues. If her daddy was a bad man or asshole, she seeks to find a bad boy and change him into a good guy, to make up for her past daddy issues. However, if she manages to turn him into a good guy, she will lose interest and need to find another bad boy to transform. It's a control drama, kind of like how Batman is obsessed with cleaning up crime, and no matter how many criminals he puts away, he still needs to find more to stop. It's an addiction cycle that repeats in a control drama fashion.