I can't remember where I found this out but I was once told by a girl that when they want to boost their self esteem they go out clubbing and ruthlessly reject any male advancements to help feel better about themselves.fox wrote:You are right about that. In bars and clubs the women's bitch shields are very high most of the time and for some women it's like a sport to reject guys or just to see how many guys hit on them (but they are not looking for anyone)Sexter wrote:there are pros and cons for every thing.
Although most women expect to get hit on at clubs and bars, their bitch shields are higher too. Their friends are also more protective(cockblocks), and the music makes it harder for you to build rapport with them... LOTS OF COMPETITION by other men too.
Gaming in america is like a double edged sword. game girls during day game, it's inappropriate and women claim your creepy or weird. game girls at night game, expect a lot of cockblocks/competition/bitch shields. I honostly think it's a double edged sword, i don't think Either is easier than the other, gaming women is always gonna be hard. The only good thing about night game is that there's an abundant of single women that go there, moreso than day game.
most guys who you see holding hands with a hot girl in america, mostly met through social circle/same organization. not through day game cold approach or bar and club game. Only 8% of couples met at bars. the vast majority met through social circle.
I have rarly met couples who met in a bar or night club.
Anyhow, sure you CAN meet a girl at a club and bring one home and get laid, but I would submit that many girls who go to the club have boyfriends and that the most a guy is getting at the club is a cock tease. Girls go the club to DANCE, guys go in hopes of getting laid.