Ghost wrote: ↑
September 3rd, 2018, 11:27 am
Darrell_Johnston wrote: ↑
September 3rd, 2018, 10:13 am
So when I meet american women it is anything but my personality.
But when you meet non american women its nothing but your personality.
American women are turned on by modern morons, so maybe your personality has something to do with it after all.
Your value increases when you go to less developed countries as a first world white man......its basically value by virtue of perception...
Some foreign women do view foreign men like that. Of course for anything serious I look for ones who are looking for a man's qualities and a deeper personal connection.
In USA you don't get automatic value by virtue of nothing, your value has to be self-generated.
In a sane society, men and women have natural value. If they adhere to their natural roles, value is created. (i.e. communities, families, jobs, and so on.) There is a balance. A sane society does not try to impose an unnatural way of life on people. Only a lopsided society on its way to the dustbin of history would enforce a system of "your value has to be self-generated." That is, a system that is telling men and women that their natural value and roles do not apply and that their value comes from ingratiating themselves into a nonsense system that is killing us all.
Here we are in the modern day U.S., where "self-generated value" means being a doofus bad boy thug that gets laid because he is exciting and/or good looking. I know you are too stupid to understand this, so I will try to spell it out again: a system that is working against who and what we are is a cult of death.
But you don't believe value can be self-generated......
So this is where we hit a dead end.
Define self-generated value then. I've already given you my view of it. You're going in vague circles attempting to confound others. I'm just waiting on you to come out of your self-generated circles and realize you're not fooling anyone.
No matter where you are in the world.....if you have no value, you are of no use to anyone. Its why the girls you date overseas are not dating homeless guys. Having a great personality is vital to interact with others and I have met so many bums and society rejects with the nicest souls and friendly warm personalities......but without any value to others their personality only gets them so far.
What is my definition of personal value?..... your personal importance, worth, or usefulness.
There are so many different ways you can offer value, you are already aware of the value you have as a foreigner in a foreign land.....I.E. Exoticness , Being efficient at the worlds most popular language, being perceived as successful and high statue just because you come from the first world. I know what its like......in some places you get treated like a celebrity and for what?.....you are in a system that applies value to you by no virtue whatsover apart from being different. And there wouldn't be PUA communities for local guys these countries, these regular guys who are just the same as any other regular guy from there who dont have the fortune that you do of being different, exotic and perceived high status........
To offer value in your homeland......where you happen to be right now is a different kettle of fish, you dont have free value, you are the same as any other regular person of whatever demographic you are. You know that you are in a different system, you dont have to like that system......but its the system you are in, so if you are just going to complain about how it isnt fair or about how it could be different......that isnt going to change the system that you are in.
. Because value comes in many forms, financial, skill based value, social value, survival value, security, entertainment value, leadership value, sexual value, financial value, novelty value, educational value, I could go on and on......different types of value bring different types of people closer to you. But its sure as hell, if you have what people want.....then you are valuable to them
As far as generating value in your homeland goes.....well before I can answer that..... I really need to know what is it you want? Is it a girl friend? Is it a better social life? Is it a career? Is it sex?. If I know what you want.....then I can offer advice on what specific value would help make you valuable