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I get the impression that a lot of people in general are not comfortable in their own skin. There's a lot of Uncle Toms, Uncle Changs, Senor Gringos, Wiggers, Chiggers, etc.. who if given the chance would transform themselves into some other race at the first opportunity. I believe that most minority women in the U.S. would flip the switch and definitely become white. Women are way more impressionable and conformist.

I'm one of those pale whites (brown hair but almost ginger skin), and girls HATE pale guys. I'd rather be middle eastern or mixed black. But not Asian, very black, or Indian.

I like being Asian and love my culture, food and heritage. The only problem is, living in America (or any other Western country, in general), it can be a disadvantage; Racial stereotypes and racial abuse abound; There isn't the kind of unity in the Asian American community you see in the African American community, for example; Also, Asian women tend to be hypergamous--which tends to make Asian men angry. Otherwise, if it weren't for those three things, being an Asian male is pretty awesome!

I think that as an Asian male, you can easily fit into any part of the world much easier than let's say...Black or White guys. I can be an Asian, I can be an American, I can be a foreigner...I can be whatever I want to be, if I choose. I also love the fact that Asia is a rising force in the world and will soon surpass the West in economic and political power. So, yeah, I may bitch a lot but being an Asian man but really, it's not so bad, tbh.

Those who want to change what they have been born with, have no respect from me, and should be treated like shit. I wouldn't change anything of me, except the place where I was born.

I did not see a response that fit my wish, but I would change from black to a Polynesian Maori if I could.