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Really, if you do not want to do anything than f***ing say no. I feel like being a heterosexual male in this dumb country is torture. I'm sick of this shit. I'd much rather be gay than this shit.

I'd much rather be single than turn gay. I understand your frustration man. I don't get them either but being gay is a NEVER an option.

OTB wrote:I'd much rather be single than turn gay. I understand your frustration man. I don't get them either but being gay is a NEVER an option.

What OTB said. +1

Brother to brother, for f***s sake do not sell out for a life of fagdom. If you do so, then the Americunt feminazis have won, along with your dick. Stick it to these bitches here at home and bang a bunch of hotter (and NICER) FWs.

Darcy, I think your focus should be to finish school and try to find a way to work abroad. Either that or see if you want to find a woman in another country. American women are not worth changing your s.exual orientation. I think most guys in America (and/or Canada, UK, NZ, and AU) that it is not worth the time to try to date American women. Possibly the foreign women who eventually come here for various reasons. The culture is toxic and not worth your time.

All you dudes are so right here except for the latter part of the OP's post of course.

I do focus on school, but I have sexual urges too. It makes it worse when all my roommates have girls

Mr.Darcy wrote:I do focus on school, but I have sexual urges too. It makes it worse when all my roommates have girls

They will all be miserable one day.

I used to feel bad because everyone around me had women, but now I'm glad I never got with a WW because they are all miserable now.

Concentrate now on gaining personal wealth...start learning a skill that you can use to make money online some time in the future. It's frustrating I know, but one day they will mostly be divorced and unhappy, and I would rather wank than be with a toxic WW.

Mr.Darcy wrote:I do focus on school, but I have sexual urges too. It makes it worse when all my roommates have girls

It is very difficult to fight biology and urges for companionship but it is doable. It takes a strong willpower and in the future you would have skipped many heartbreaks, drama, and being played by a cheat. Wasting time with an Ameriskank, which most American colleges girls are, is not a wise decision.

I also have urges which for a long time was a struggle but over my time on HappierAbroad I have finally become foreign-only. The desire to date an American girl was very much present one year ago (only for the short-term so I wouldn't be alone) but today I would rather be single. Would I reject a 10/10 American college girl that seriously asked me out? My emotional side and internal desire would be telling me to say yes and at least give her a chance. My logical side, reasoning, and use of probability would be telling me no. Logic trumps emotion because logic leads to strategy and strategy leads to victory. I plan on being victorious and triumphing in the end. It's like the fable about the tortoise and the hare. The tortoise had a slow start but won the race. The hare was ahead, was slacking, and didn't really pay attention to the true race. In this case, all men are in the race of finding a lasting relationship. Many men either want to be players or they go for sluts to have fun, or they don't want to go the extra distance. We are the tortoises. The scum and (white knight) manginas are the hares. We will find a good bride or good female companions. This is why I would reject any American girl regardless of her attractiveness or compatibility. Also, 99% of American girls are not virgins between age 18-20. I won't ever hope to win 1% odds of landing an American girl that's a virgin because they are basically the same in many other ways. When the probability of winning is too low, the best thing to do is to go to a place where the probability of winning is higher.

Probability of getting a virgin in America. Almost Impossible.
Probability of getting a girlfriend in America. Highly unlikely unless you're scum, a player, or trash (all qualities that women in healthy cultures don't want in a man)
Probability of landing a good woman and a lasting relationship in America. Very unlikely.

The probabilities of getting all three abroad if you look for it ranges from likely to very likely.

The best advice is to use logic and remind yourself that the emotion your feeling is a natural symptom of being deprived the basic human need of companionship as a result of being in a sick and decaying culture. Ameriskanks are one of the viruses in this diseased, sick, and decaying culture. Accepting one into your life will be very harmful (especially to your future).

How do I make money online

Mr.Darcy wrote:How do I make money online

I've asked myself that very same question many times. Every single idea that I've had or come across seems like either a dead end, or it would take so much effort that it would consume your life and drive you crazy. I wish I knew of a way to make at least a bit of money online without having to rip your hair out.

Save your dating money for a plane ticket to Cebu. If you can't afford that a plane ticket to Mexico is not a bad investment.

Mr.Darcy wrote:I do focus on school, but I have sexual urges too. It makes it worse when all my roommates have girls

Presuming the answer is not "being white", what are those guys doing differently than you?

Teal Lantern wrote:

Mr.Darcy wrote:I do focus on school, but I have sexual urges too. It makes it worse when all my roommates have girls

Presuming the answer is not "being white", what are those guys doing differently than you?

They are more rallied up in approaching women.

First mistake was giving her a chance.

In a way you dodge a bullet though...didn't need to waste time going out with her.