So what I wanted to point out was that women are the cause of this. What's the minimum requirements for a man to consider dating a woman? She has to be somewhat attractive, feminine, a decent looking body, friendly, and show she likes you. That's it. We men are very simple and our requirements are not nearly as demanding as women's requirements.
In addition to their long list of demanding requirements, there are a number of behaviors that prevent men from socially connecting with them leaving a lot of men single and living in quiet desperation.
What are they? You already know:
In Public
1. Feelings of having to "perform" for women IF you approach them. Most of the time this doesn't happen. But with this in mind, who wants to approach a woman if they feel they have to perform just to talk to her? This isn't in all cases though.
2. If you send signs of interest to a girl who has caught your eye, by eye flirting in a subtle but manly way, most AW will avoid eye contact and become self conscious and rigid. How can you get the ball rolling if a girl you're interested in doesn't reciprocate the interest? Some would say, well maybe she has a boyfriend. That may be but they're not all taken. Too many of them act like this.
3. They are very unapproachable and this is seen in there body language. Who's going to approach a woman whose body is saying don't come near me?
4. Being friendly and just acting natural a lot of times can be interpreted as being desperate, creepy, or seen as you're up to something. You may be at the mall, the gym, walking through a big city, the park or the food market and you see a girl that you want to talk to. Most likely you're not going to approach her because those aforementioned perceptions will immediately come to mind keeping you from doing what is NATURAL....talking to a girl you're interested in. You don't want to be made to feel like you're being monitored. They have no power anyway.
Online dating
5. In online dating sites, or online meeting sites as I like to call them, are rampant with women expressing how demanding they are, what they expect a man to have, what they want a man to do, how they expect a man to be, how sarcastic they are, they don't want drama in their life, men are to respect women, and how they love talking politics and put so much emphasis on their education, and last but not least, their of LOVE OF SPORTS. I read the profile of pretty black girl a few years back and she stated she wanted a manly man; a man who watches sports! Subtly implying if you don't watch sports you're not a man and I don't want to get to know you for who you are. That was one of her criteria. All of this keeps men single! Who wants to be with a woman who states all this kind of stuff? Not me. It clearly shows you their attitudes are horrid and they don't seem to be very feminine.
Here's an example of one from Blackpeoplemeet who tries to define what a man is.
Good person in all aspects of their life
1. A man treats women with respect. If you don’t respect women, you’re not a man. Period.
SEE what I'm talking about!!!!!!!!
I know it may seem like I'm being redundant with all this but it's to point out that this is what is keeping us single and social disconnected from women. Relationships can't be formed because of the way they think. This is all so unnatural and we suffer from it.
