S_Parc wrote:droid wrote:S_Parc wrote:What I'd recommend ... that is if it were me, I'd not let this be a Laissez-faire meandering.
In other words, form a schedule of boning hoes, depending upon your budget. Don't simply ask women out and go out on dates. Let's say your schedule is 2.5 hoes per week ... well, on that 3rd day, if you find yourself wanting to take someone out, resist it, and bang the hoe instead. And then afterwards, take the woman out, once the activity is fulfilled.
What I'd noticed is that each boink, de-empathized the woman which follows, as the body is relaxed and able to unwind.
In non-loser societies (a.k.a not the USA), women like that relaxed sort of guy, w/o a care in the world, aside from being a good listener and so-forth.
Nice thoughts, but in those societies you don't have to think too much or engage in some convoluted preparations either, it's more natural.
Having said that, 2.5 hoes per week sounds great to me
Winston's a Pisces and unfortunately, that's been one of the seeds of his downfall, esp once he returned to the USA. I saw all those traits, esp given his postings from NV, about falling for strippers, dreaming about esc*rts, and trying to convince an AW about the HA mission statements.
Now, the biggest mistake in going abroad is in the Pisces wandering about, looking for a soulmate in every girl who walks by. So with that in mind, a little Boys Scouts prep work will do wonders in maintaining a healthy mental focus for the journey.
So it's simple, pushups, pullups, boink hoes, eat good food, and then ... date some women.
Yes I think S_Parc is right. I'm a fairly typical Pisces. And when I'm alone, I do become self-destructive and descend into oblivion. I go into my own world and start to become self-absorbed. Eventually I get depressed and negative. It's like my "demons" take over when I'm alone. Whether the demons are metaphysical or psychological, either way, they are real in the sense that they affect me negatively.
At that point, I become addicted to my negativity and inner demons. I also become afraid of change. So when the decision to leave comes, it's hard to make it because it feels stressful and causes anxiety, so I avoid it or forestall it. My mind starts looking for distractions so I won't have to deal with decisions or the stress of moving again.
Having other people around does keep me uplifted and more normalized though. Like when Rock came and visited, I felt more back to normal again.
Maybe I should find a wife so I have someone around to take care of me so I don't slip into oblivion. lol
All this becomes worse when I'm in America, because America is a super isolating lonely place with no social connection. So in that sense, America does "bring out the worst in me." At least abroad I have a decent social and dating life to prevent that from happening.
Yes as a Pisces, I do fall in love easily and try to see a "soulmate" in every lovely girl I meet. How did you know that?
Anyway, it's weird being back in Taiwan now. I feel like I never left. My body is having trouble readjusting to the hot humid climate here. But the food is delicious.
