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1. He talks too much about 'deep' topics girls dont care about including but not limited to 911, jfk, moon landing, rothschilds, fed reserve

2. Have no sense of humor, too robotic, rigid, nerdy type women love to avoid, acts like a complete social retard

3. Lacks aggression and alpha traits. Comes accross as too placid which is probably related to chronic deficiency of testosterone

4. Overthinks things which leads to stifling and self-sabotage

5. No killers instinct, lacks that final touch

6. Looks unhealthy(this is a huge factor when women deciding whether to sleep with a guy)

7. Suffers from cheap charlie syndrome like most asians do

8. Overvalued his market value, desires women out of his league young, skinny, fit instead of goin for older, fat ones

9. Too fat and doesnt look like he could perform well in bed (yes women do assess you on this when they meet you)

Discuss

I remember playing pee wee football starting in the 4th grade back in Washington DC area where I grew up. None of us kids on the team knew anything about the game so it was a time where we relied upon the coaches to give us direction on how to play.

I was assigned to play middle line backer and I was promptly given a list of a dozen or so things that I needed to learn in order to be a better football player. I went home and that night, I started doing little drills with my dad with the goal of improving. Looking back, I became one of the better players on my team because I was "coachable" meaning I took direction very well and I applied my lessons. Most kids did the same, but I remember probably 1/4 kids weren't coachable for various reasons.

During the team drills, if a kid made a mistake on the field, the coaches would often stop practice and yell, "see he was thinking too much and not playing instinctively." This taught me a very good early life lesson and it clearly showed me that there are "do-ers" and there are "thinkers".

So the pivotal question becomes, "is Winston Wu coachable??????" We all know that Winston is a "thinker" and he's probably on the very far right of that scale. We can collectively give Winston a thousand tips that would improve his dating skills but the chances of him implementing any of them are slim.

meh, this stuff is like the stock market Lol, everyone has an opinion, and hindsight is 20/20

The wrote:Winston needs to Diet, lift weights and supplement....
But Nooooo!!! Winston would rather lift a buffet plate than a barbell....

Exactly, that's the main thing. We've all told him this about 4x10^6 times.

Wrong Post

The day will come when he realizes that he's not young anymore. So if he wants to be a forever playboy, w/o a long term GF or wife, then he'll need to be more like this guy ...




and start some sort of daily regimen.

If the above bodybuilder dyed his hair brown, he could pass for a 55 year old, instead of a guy in his 80s.

Has anyone really met Winston in person to say this is him for real?

Winston does need to lose some weight and be in better shape. He probably needs to dress fashionable if he wants to compete for the better quality girls. These are all external factors and doable.

The hard part is the internal aspect. Half the time it's common sense when you meet or date a girl. Guys who dated and been with allot of girls know from experience what works and don't work. The best bet is for Winston to hang out with a guy who is good with girls and observe how he does it.
I think for Ethan reading his post he is probably a really good looking guy or has the style that girls go for. Winston shouldn't observe Ethan because for good looking guys it's about just showing up. He should hang out with an older ugly looking expat but good with girls.

chanta76 wrote:Has anyone really met Winston in person to say this is him for real?

Winston does need to lose some weight and be in better shape. He probably needs to dress fashionable if he wants to compete for the better quality girls. These are all external factors and doable.

The hard part is the internal aspect. Half the time it's common sense when you meet or date a girl. Guys who dated and been with allot of girls know from experience what works and don't work. The best bet is for Winston to hang out with a guy who is good with girls and observe how he does it.
I think for Ethan reading his post he is probably a really good looking guy or has the style that girls go for. Winston shouldn't observe Ethan because for good looking guys it's about just showing up. He should hang out with an older ugly looking expat but good with girls.

And not in the Philippines or Thailand.

1 to 8 don't matter, the real issues are his looks, weight and age. We've been telling to improve his looks for years by healthy dieting and exercise but he keeps looking for easy ways out, fad diets, making faggot ass excuses like "exercise hurts! I don't like pain!" which is nothing but a testament to his lack of character, while taking advice from online cranks and quacks of every kind, and if he fails he can just blame God or "Murphy's Law"!. What he needs is a good kick up his ample backside, some of his friends in real life who actually care about him like Rock could try to get him on track but I suppose they already tried and gave up. I'd be willing to write him an exercise plan and help advise him with his diet but I'm 99.9% certain that Winston won't heed any of this advice.

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I disagree. Looks is his biggest drawback. If he was tall,athletic blue eyed westerner women would be dropping thier panties in places like china. This talk about conservative and hard chinese women is bs, of course when they see you as unattractive they will be hard for you but I bet the same woman will let some badass alpha ejaculate in her mouth on the first date.
Actually, thats how typical western woman act these days.

The best thing winnie can do is to go back to angeles city and enjoy it to the fullest, forget abt other countries, theres no easy lays for a 40 yo fat asian man. Fact.

Banano wrote:This talk about conservative and hard chinese women is bs, of course when they see you as unattractive they will be hard for you but I bet the same woman will let some badass alpha ejaculate in her mouth on the first date.
Actually, thats how typical western woman act these days.

In other words, don't put women on a pedestal.

Banano wrote:The best thing winnie can do is to go back to angeles city and enjoy it to the fullest, forget abt other countries, theres no easy lays for a 40 yo fat asian man. Fact.

I'd add one more point, Win should stop looking for a soulmate. That type of stuff should be flushed out of one's system between ages 29 and 40.

Afterwards, if you haven't found a life partner/companion (Read: Not soulmate but partner) then accept the fact that it's all whores from there forth.

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You can find Chinese women who don't care about looks and/or money. Not the easiest thing to do, but they're there.

I think not. Those that don't care about looks would put money first, while those that don't care about money would put looks first. Even if they wanted something in particular above looks or money they would still have a minimum standard for looks and/or money.

What you're imagining is a unicorn.

Women that dont care about looks and money???
They must be very hot. Lol