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[Tsar]

[MrMan]

It is perfectly normal for a man to want to marry a virgin. When I was single, I wanted to marry a virgin. I passed up a couple of girls I was interested in or dated because I found out they were not virgins. Marrying a faithful widow who has only been with her husband was a theoretically acceptable possibility, but not what I wanted as a young men. Such women behaved in a sexually moral way by not sleeping with other men, and stayed with their husbands 'till death do us part.'

But I was not sleeping around either. My wife and I both waited until we were married.

A lot of traditional cultures had, or have, the wisdom to realize that marrying a virgin is desirable. The woman hasn't bound herself physically, emotionally, and psychologically with some other guy. If she sees a man on the street, she isn't going to act strange because she slept with him. She also is likely to take sex much, much more seriously, and committing adultery would be a much bigger deal for the woman who waited until marriage than a girl who dated dozens of guys and had sex on the third date every time.

Traditional cultures often required a man who took a girl's virginity to marry her.

What do you think about all this Tsar? If you were to marry a girl at 18 and she hit 30, would you dump her after spoiling her?

[Tsar]

What do you think about all this Tsar? If you were to marry a girl at 18 and she hit 30, would you dump her after spoiling her?

No, I would not dump a girl if she aged to 30. I already answered that many times. As long as she never cheated, maintained her appearance, was healthy, and did not gain weight (or become overweight) then I would stay with her.

But I am polygynous. I want more than 1 girl and I want threesomes (me and 2 girls). I want to deflower at least 2 girls and have 2 females. One female for life could have been enough for me back in 2014 and even 2016 but not anymore. I want to have sex many times with different girls and threesomes with my girls. I don't care if my girls did stuff with each other because they would be my girls. Polygynous relationship. 2 girls making out and doing sexual stuff would always turn me on.

[MrMan]

What do you think about all this Tsar? If you were to marry a girl at 18 and she hit 30, would you dump her after spoiling her?

No, I would not dump a girl if she aged to 30. I already answered that many times. As long as she never cheated, maintained her appearance, was healthy, and did not gain weight (or become overweight) then I would stay with her.

But I am polygynous. I want more than 1 girl and I want threesomes (me and 2 girls). I want to deflower at least 2 girls and have 2 females. One female for life could have been enough for me back in 2014 and even 2016 but not anymore. I want to have sex many times with different girls and threesomes with my girls. I don't care if my girls did stuff with each other because they would be my girls. Polygynous relationship. 2 girls making out and doing sexual stuff would always turn me on.

Hmmm. Have you been watching porn? That stuff can mess with your mind, and your expectations. There aren't many lilly white Russian-looking women who are going to go for this. You might be able to find some African tribeswomen in the jungle, maybe, maybe some short, stout teenagers, whose fathers would let you do this if you gave him the right bride price. But how would you get them any legal status to travel with you to whether you wanted to live.

Realistically, what are the odds that you would find a bunch of girls who are:
- pretty
- virgins
- cool with bisexuality
- thin

and whatever else you want. Finding an attractive virgin teen you could get to actually marry, or even be with, an adult man is already like trying to find a needle in a haystack. I wanted one pretty virgin with a long list of characteristics, and I was able to ask God for help. But do you think God is going to help you find a bunch of girls to have an orgy with you? Sounds more like the demonic domain, but they may have already encouraged their girls to defile themselves with other men.

Maybe you could find some lesbians who are virgins who went into lesbianism for some other reason than being molested or raped. If you made a lot of money, they could cut a deal to be your harem, where one of them legally marries you, divorces you, takes half, then splits it with the others.

[Tsar]

Actually, the girls in my target range have a 33%-66% chance of being virgins and most girls in 2021 are bi. Even in EE there are studies that say 65% of girls are bi but only 15% act on it. Do you know how many teens I follow on IG that kiss their #bestie on the lips. Most just do a closed lip kiss but still, it shows evidence. Most girls are sluts and the ones that aren't haven't had the opportunity to become one. Gotta get a girl before she becomes a slut. Once a girl sucks or f***s a guy, she is a slut and will want more and more guys and sex.

[Voyager1]

Tsar, you've got to get over this idea that you can only lose you're virginity to someone else who is also a virgin. Your ship has long sailed for that. You are more likely to get beat up or killed in your part of the world.

I lost my virginity at 23 to a 30 year old. Do you know what I was most afraid of? Not if I could perform but that she would know that I was a virgin. I was scared shitless of that. I didn't want her to know that I was a loser and never made it with the ladies in high school or after.

I've broken in some virgins. I don't know precisely how many. One, I broke her hymen and blood was everywhere. She exclaimed, "Call the emergency! Call the emergency!"

We cleaned up the blood.

[Tsar]

In 2021, no girl in any nation that hasn't been somewhat corrupted or influenced by the hypersexuality that exists in entertainment, magazines, and the media. Girls have always desired sex as much or maybe more than men. Females experience much greater pleasure for a longer period of time than men. They love sex.

Things are not going to be a fairy tale.

I recognized that and changed. The odds of people having a "together no matter what" in 2021 is almost impossible.

Me back in 2012-2016: Getting a 16 year old girl will mean she wants love and is probably not really corrupted by the world yet.
Me in 2020: All girls want money and fun. But most are probably not influenced that bad by the hypersexuality of the 21st Century.
Me in 2021: I was stupid to believe what I did in 2012-2020...girls are just sluts anywhere and the ones that aren't sluts aren't because they haven't had the opportunity to become a slut yet (some teen girls).

[MrMan]

What do you think about all this Tsar? If you were to marry a girl at 18 and she hit 30, would you dump her after spoiling her?

No, I would not dump a girl if she aged to 30. I already answered that many times. As long as she never cheated, maintained her appearance, was healthy, and did not gain weight (or become overweight) then I would stay with her.

What if you gained weight? Women's genes and gut bacteria vary. Two women could eat the same food, and one could plump up and the other could stay thin, not just because she wants to get fat. Diet and exercise are just part of the equation.

I would not want any of my daughters, relatives, or anyone I care about to marry someone with your philosophy of marriage. The fathers of the kind of girls you like will probably feel the same if they care about their daughters.

Maybe you haven't had success getting a virgin because the girls pick up on a 'creep' vibe, a guy that wants to collect a small harem of virgins and dump them at 30 if they get fat. Even the little girls can have some intuition. Back when you were okay with an 18-year-old virgin, I could respect that. Now, a harem of girls which you may likely dump when they get older, who you would want to be bisexual....would you teach them the sexual perversion. Do you watch porn? If you do, you need to stop that. It has a bad affect on the mind. He that looks at a woman in order to lust after her commits adultery with her already in his heart. It's a sinful thing. You need to repent and put your faith in Christ.

[MrMan]

One thing to think about with the video is this-- when you take a girl's virginity, if you do not marry her, you are defrauding the man who should be her husband. You have no right to take that if she is not your wife. Her father has not given her to you in marriage yet. Even if you are second or third up to bat, you are still potentially further defiling the woman another man is going to marry. It's still cheating another man out of something.

For those of you who are sexually interested in women, but only care about men, it still is not right even from that perspective.

[MrMan]

In 2021, no girl in any nation that hasn't been somewhat corrupted or influenced by the hypersexuality that exists in entertainment, magazines, and the media. Girls have always desired sex as much or maybe more than men. Females experience much greater pleasure for a longer period of time than men. They love sex.

There are probably some girls who still live in the jungle with no TV or Internet out there, and there are some girls whose parents greatly limited their media consumption. People respond differently to the media that is presented.

Women probably have men beat by far, for the most part, on the capacity for sexual pleasure. But the stereotype is the man wants sex than the women. An individual woman could be less hedonic than her male partner, and want sex less even though she gets more physical pleasure, or experience some kind of amnesia , not remembering she has more pleasure than he does even though her experience of physical pleasure is more intense.

But I wonder if you get your ideas about women from dirty movies, made to appeal to men's sexual fantasies rather than to reflect reality.

I recognized that and changed. The odds of people having a "together no matter what" in 2021 is almost impossible.

There are still societies that have strong norms against divorce. And there are individuals in the west who have good morals in this regard. Marriages between people of the same religion who regularly attend church tend to have much, much lower divorce rates in the US than the general population. The research is dated, but women who marry as virgins in the US were much, much less likely to divorce.

But if you married a teenage girl willing to be in a polygamous relationship and do homosexual sex acts with another girl, the chances of that working out are rather slow. If you have some cult-leader characteristics to pull off corrupting a little girl like that, it hasn't manifested it self like that either.

[Tsar]

@MrMan

I would be fine if I had a girlfriend and she said no to doing polygynous stuff with another girl, but I would bring it up and see if she was open to it. I know girls can have a good time with other girls and some friendly girl vs girl competition would keep both interested in me and trying to keep my attention.

[MrMan]

@MrMan

I would be fine if I had a girlfriend and she said no to doing polygynous stuff with another girl, but I would bring it up and see if she was open to it. I know girls can have a good time with other girls and some friendly girl vs girl competition would keep both interested in me and trying to keep my attention.

Or you could end up like Ross on Friends.

[Tsar]

@MrMan

I would be fine if I had a girlfriend and she said no to doing polygynous stuff with another girl, but I would bring it up and see if she was open to it. I know girls can have a good time with other girls and some friendly girl vs girl competition would keep both interested in me and trying to keep my attention.

Or you could end up like Ross on Friends.

I never watched Friends. Can you explain the reference?

[MrMan]

@MrMan

I would be fine if I had a girlfriend and she said no to doing polygynous stuff with another girl, but I would bring it up and see if she was open to it. I know girls can have a good time with other girls and some friendly girl vs girl competition would keep both interested in me and trying to keep my attention.

Or you could end up like Ross on Friends.

I never watched Friends. Can you explain the reference?

At the beginning of the show, Ross is a divorced father who visits his son, who lives with her lesbian mother and her partner. In a flashback, his wife suggests he has a threesome with her and her friend from the gym, which she had been spending a lot of time out. It may not have shown any lesbian kissing back then, but the idea communicated off screen was that the two girls were busy on the bed. The knocked Ross off the bed, they were so busy, and they ended up together and cut him out, and his wife got custody of his son.

[cathenira]

I had been bi for many years. Once in a chatroom called "Find your threesome," I saw a feminine user name. I asked what's a "NAME" doing in a bi married men's forum? She replied, "Looking for a man for my husband." That was exciting. We met and I moved in with them in 1998. We stayed together 4 years until her husband, "our" husband, cheated on us with gay guys. We stayed together as a couple. He's now half of an M/M couple.

Since the swinging days, I've always loved the bi threesome. I've had one-on-ones with men (even our husband when we were home alone and horny) but my greatest pleasure is in the MMF threesome. I love sloppy seconds, sharing a cock with her, licking her clit as she's being f***ed, guiding a well endowed man into her p***y and sucking a cock while I'm balls deep in her. I don't seek a guy for single sex. We've been together since 1998 - 22 years now.

So, we're not always in a threesome. I like the extra excitement I feel when we share past experiences as we have couples sex. We had a well endowed black friend for many years. To help me get off, I ask her to tell me how it felt taking his much larger cock.

I think my story just illustrates how different we all can be. My "bi" is different from the next guy.

Hope all goes well with you and thank you to all the other bi guys who commented.