Easy countries to get women?

[lightningbolto]

I am becoming frustrated in my travels. currently in mexico. and it's not easy getting them at all. only place i have gotten a woman was mexico city. other than that it's hard in other states of mexico. i coudn't get anything in cancun or other places. and it takes almost 10 approaches before i can get a woman in mexico city.

People have told me places like Vietnam and even Ukraine it's hard to get women in those countries. i plan on traveling out soon.

so is there any countries where it's easy to get women. maybe phillipines ( when it opens again ) or thailand or brazil or russia.

[WorldTraveler]

Easiest country in the world to get women is the USA. There are are zillions of women there!

[Tsar]

What makes Mexican women hard?

Are Vietnamese girls really hard or easy to date?

[lightningbolto]

What makes Mexican women hard?

Are Vietnamese girls really hard or easy to date?

hey two american guys that have been in vietnam say that it's not that easy compared to phillipines and thailand. they both said it was a lot harder to date women in vietnam. they told me just stick with phils or thailand.

mexican women seem stubborn. staring at me. bending over when i look at them. then when i ask them to go out they say "i have a girlfirend" yes they actually say that. " i am busy" their favorite one. and so forth. not easy to get at all.

[lightningbolto]

What makes Mexican women hard?

Are Vietnamese girls really hard or easy to date?

there is no way for me to reply back to you in pm. so i will answer here. i am in my 30s. but your statement doesn't make sense. because i have gotten a date in mexico city. but places outside of that no. i approached 5 yesterday they all said no out right or " i have a girlfriend."

[HouseMD]

What makes Mexican women hard?

Are Vietnamese girls really hard or easy to date?

there is no way for me to reply back to you in pm. so i will answer here. i am in my 30s. but your statement doesn't make sense. because i have gotten a date in mexico city. but places outside of that no. i approached 5 yesterday they all said no out right or " i have a girlfriend."

I don't know what you're expecting. Out of five random women, most will likely either be in a relationship or not interested in you. Do you expect to just approach random women and them to drop their lives to hop into your bed? That's not realistic, these are human beings that have complete existences that you're just walking into and saying hi.

The only places where that sort of approach does work are those where women are desperate because of poverty. The Philippines, Africa, and some of the less developed parts of South America are about it for a past-his-prime white guy these days, but even there women aren't looking for a quick bang with some stranger, they're going to be looking at whether there's any long term potential gain for themselves and make you work for it. If there's nothing in it for the other party, why would they waste their time with you?

[Tsar]

What makes Mexican women hard?

Are Vietnamese girls really hard or easy to date?

there is no way for me to reply back to you in pm. so i will answer here. i am in my 30s. but your statement doesn't make sense. because i have gotten a date in mexico city. but places outside of that no. i approached 5 yesterday they all said no out right or " i have a girlfriend."

Did they think you had a girlfriend? Or were they saying they have a girlfriend?

[Yohan]

Are Vietnamese girls really hard or easy to date?

I think not easy at all.

Here in Japan are about 270.000 Vietnamese (No. 3. / 1 = Chinese, 2 = Korean, 4 = Philippines, 5 = Brazil) living, both men and women, and they are not known to mix up with the local Japanese population or with other foreigners in Japan. Not outgoing at all.

You can see them everywhere, often in small groups, especially in fishing ports, convenience stores during nightshift, in some churches (Vietnam is the no. 3 Christian country in Asia (no. 1 is Philippines, no. 2 is South Korea), they are doing any kind of simple work - they are not very talkative to others in general, however missing language knowledge and different mentality also might be a major reason for that.

[WorldTraveler]

Are Vietnamese girls really hard or easy to date?

It depends on what countries you've been too and how much experience you have with women. For you, they'd probably be easy. Join some Christian Vietnamese dating site where girls are looking for virgin males to marry and it will be easy.

[Taco]

The only countries in the world that women are still interested in men are Philippines, Caribbean Islands and Sub-Saharan Africa. In these countries women are still having children. That is not the case in the rest of the world.

[Tsar]

Are Vietnamese girls really hard or easy to date?

It depends on what countries you've been too and how much experience you have with women. For you, they'd probably be easy. Join some Christian Vietnamese dating site where girls are looking for virgin males to marry and it will be easy.

How many girls 18-22 or any female actually care about a virgin male? Most females would prefer a guy that banged 100 females over a guy that was a virgin or banged a few.

If I only cared about virginity, I could have tried to get a landwhale. I care about a girl's beauty too and almost all beautiful girls are sluts.

[MrMan]

mexican women seem stubborn. staring at me. bending over when i look at them. then when i ask them to go out they say "i have a girlfirend" yes they actually say that. " i am busy" their favorite one. and so forth. not easy to get at all.

They claim to be lesbian to reject men, or does 'girlfriend' mean a female friend to them?

[MrMan]

In some countries, cold approaching girls probably will not work. I have not seen a lot of that in South Korea. But I did have a married friend there. He had a pretty wife. She had single friends from the office. I was over at their place and she showed me a picture of a girl at work, maybe a 5. I wasn't interested. Some time later, I went with them and their family to an amusement park. The girl she'd showed me a picture of was there with this other girl that was 9+ for looks. I told my buddy I wanted to go around the amusement park with those two girls, instead of with him and his little nephew. He said I lost my chance when I didn't take his wife up on the chance to date one of them. I said she didn't show me the picture of the pretty one.

I knew how to give directions to taxis, buy food, and say hello and good-bye in Korea, and that was about it, anyway.

Pick-up might work in Jakarta better. I didn't just go around picking up girls I didn't know though. I also wonder about the 'quality' and respectability of a girl you can just pick up off the street. Some of them may be nice girls. Others might be a bit desperate or easy.

If you are serious about finding a wife overseas, you could build relationships with immigrants and ask about their relatives or work abroad and get to know people and ask for introductions.

Korean college students typically meet girlfriends by slightly older Korean classmates to match them up on a 'meeting'-- a three person blind date. They do 'meetings' until they find a match. Unless the culture has changed, I would imagine they still do this. Korean pastors may try to match up members of their congregations. I would not be surprised if managers try to match up their subordinates. In South Korea, if a man or woman gets toward the end of the normal marrying years, their mom, aunt, and grandma will take the single person's picture in their purse and show other aunts, mothers, etc. at work the pictures and look at the pictures of their single relatives. I talked with a Korean classmate in grad school whose dad was talking about matching her up with her bosses son.

Our system kind of throws people out in the pool and expects them to sink or swim. Some other cultures have a safety net for getting married. People in one of the tribes in Indonesia that I am familiar with may find dates through their social network, find boyfriends, and marry, but if they don't get a spouse by thirty, family start talking about marrying them off to cousins they are culturally allowed to marry. Or a cousin might have an unrelated cousin who is single in the same social network. If your spouse dies and there is a single person of the same generation in the family, relatives may try to match you up. It keeps the connections to the kids if there are in in the family.

I met my wife while I was visiting her campus, and we had the same faith and even found out we had some common acquaintances after we were married. I did not ask anyone to match me up. But if I had gotten to know some married folks at church and said I am single and I am looking for a godly Christian young woman, someone might have introduced me. They aren't as big into the matchmaking as Koreans are, but it could happen if you ask.

I've read the suggestion of asking your maid for introductions. That probably works with an older married maid. If she's single, she might think of yourself. But a lot of maids in Jakarta are Muslims and I didn't want to marry a Muslim.

@Tsar might consider this sort of thing if he resolves to stay with a woman for life, even after she is fully grown and mature, and if he decides that not all women are dirty sluts who act like women in porn videos.

[lightningbolto]

Are Vietnamese girls really hard or easy to date?

I think not easy at all.

Here in Japan are about 270.000 Vietnamese (No. 3. / 1 = Chinese, 2 = Korean, 4 = Philippines, 5 = Brazil) living, both men and women, and they are not known to mix up with the local Japanese population or with other foreigners in Japan. Not outgoing at all.

You can see them everywhere, often in small groups, especially in fishing ports, convenience stores during nightshift, in some churches (Vietnam is the no. 3 Christian country in Asia (no. 1 is Philippines, no. 2 is South Korea), they are doing any kind of simple work - they are not very talkative to others in general, however missing language knowledge and different mentality also might be a major reason for that.

thanks for your response bro. yeah that's very interesting. i wasn't expecting something like that from vietnamese people. but then again japanese people don't like other asians.

[lightningbolto]

In some countries, cold approaching girls probably will not work. I have not seen a lot of that in South Korea. But I did have a married friend there. He had a pretty wife. She had single friends from the office. I was over at their place and she showed me a picture of a girl at work, maybe a 5. I wasn't interested. Some time later, I went with them and their family to an amusement park. The girl she'd showed me a picture of was there with this other girl that was 9+ for looks. I told my buddy I wanted to go around the amusement park with those two girls, instead of with him and his little nephew. He said I lost my chance when I didn't take his wife up on the chance to date one of them. I said she didn't show me the picture of the pretty one.

I knew how to give directions to taxis, buy food, and say hello and good-bye in Korea, and that was about it, anyway.

Pick-up might work in Jakarta better. I didn't just go around picking up girls I didn't know though. I also wonder about the 'quality' and respectability of a girl you can just pick up off the street. Some of them may be nice girls. Others might be a bit desperate or easy.

If you are serious about finding a wife overseas, you could build relationships with immigrants and ask about their relatives or work abroad and get to know people and ask for introductions.

Korean college students typically meet girlfriends by slightly older Korean classmates to match them up on a 'meeting'-- a three person blind date. They do 'meetings' until they find a match. Unless the culture has changed, I would imagine they still do this. Korean pastors may try to match up members of their congregations. I would not be surprised if managers try to match up their subordinates. In South Korea, if a man or woman gets toward the end of the normal marrying years, their mom, aunt, and grandma will take the single person's picture in their purse and show other aunts, mothers, etc. at work the pictures and look at the pictures of their single relatives. I talked with a Korean classmate in grad school whose dad was talking about matching her up with her bosses son.

Our system kind of throws people out in the pool and expects them to sink or swim. Some other cultures have a safety net for getting married. People in one of the tribes in Indonesia that I am familiar with may find dates through their social network, find boyfriends, and marry, but if they don't get a spouse by thirty, family start talking about marrying them off to cousins they are culturally allowed to marry. Or a cousin might have an unrelated cousin who is single in the same social network. If your spouse dies and there is a single person of the same generation in the family, relatives may try to match you up. It keeps the connections to the kids if there are in in the family.

I met my wife while I was visiting her campus, and we had the same faith and even found out we had some common acquaintances after we were married. I did not ask anyone to match me up. But if I had gotten to know some married folks at church and said I am single and I am looking for a godly Christian young woman, someone might have introduced me. They aren't as big into the matchmaking as Koreans are, but it could happen if you ask.

I've read the suggestion of asking your maid for introductions. That probably works with an older married maid. If she's single, she might think of yourself. But a lot of maids in Jakarta are Muslims and I didn't want to marry a Muslim.

@Tsar might consider this sort of thing if he resolves to stay with a woman for life, even after she is fully grown and mature, and if he decides that not all women are dirty sluts who act like women in porn videos.

i am not doing pick up or pua non-sense. i am not looking for marriage either. just casual dating. how the hell else are you supposed to get women if you are not approaching any of them. plus your choices are extremely limited if you don't approach a lot of them.