Easy countries to get women?

[lightningbolto]

mexican women seem stubborn. staring at me. bending over when i look at them. then when i ask them to go out they say "i have a girlfirend" yes they actually say that. " i am busy" their favorite one. and so forth. not easy to get at all.

They claim to be lesbian to reject men, or does 'girlfriend' mean a female friend to them?

i have no idea why they would do that. it was actually kind of strange they brought up the girlfriend line.

[lightningbolto]

The only countries in the world that women are still interested in men are Philippines, Caribbean Islands and Sub-Saharan Africa. In these countries women are still having children. That is not the case in the rest of the world.

yeah i hear easy to get dates with filipina's and thais.

[lightningbolto]

What makes Mexican women hard?

Are Vietnamese girls really hard or easy to date?

there is no way for me to reply back to you in pm. so i will answer here. i am in my 30s. but your statement doesn't make sense. because i have gotten a date in mexico city. but places outside of that no. i approached 5 yesterday they all said no out right or " i have a girlfriend."

Did they think you had a girlfriend? Or were they saying they have a girlfriend?

they said they had a girlfriend.

[lightningbolto]

What makes Mexican women hard?

Are Vietnamese girls really hard or easy to date?

there is no way for me to reply back to you in pm. so i will answer here. i am in my 30s. but your statement doesn't make sense. because i have gotten a date in mexico city. but places outside of that no. i approached 5 yesterday they all said no out right or " i have a girlfriend."

I don't know what you're expecting. Out of five random women, most will likely either be in a relationship or not interested in you. Do you expect to just approach random women and them to drop their lives to hop into your bed? That's not realistic, these are human beings that have complete existences that you're just walking into and saying hi.

The only places where that sort of approach does work are those where women are desperate because of poverty. The Philippines, Africa, and some of the less developed parts of South America are about it for a past-his-prime white guy these days, but even there women aren't looking for a quick bang with some stranger, they're going to be looking at whether there's any long term potential gain for themselves and make you work for it. If there's nothing in it for the other party, why would they waste their time with you?

i don't know why you want to simp or white knight over women. that's just played out and silly of you to act like that.

why else are you in another country other than to get women. how else are you supposed to get women. just sit there and wait for them to flirt with you? i doubt they would ever do that.

[MrMan]

What makes Mexican women hard?

Are Vietnamese girls really hard or easy to date?

there is no way for me to reply back to you in pm. so i will answer here. i am in my 30s. but your statement doesn't make sense. because i have gotten a date in mexico city. but places outside of that no. i approached 5 yesterday they all said no out right or " i have a girlfriend."

Did they think you had a girlfriend? Or were they saying they have a girlfriend?

they said they had a girlfriend.

Some guys would ask her out and ask her to bring the girlfriend with her. That wasn't my thing. I wasn't looking for someone perverted.

[MrMan]

i am not doing pick up or pua non-sense. i am not looking for marriage either. just casual dating. how the hell else are you supposed to get women if you are not approaching any of them. plus your choices are extremely limited if you don't approach a lot of them.

I spent many years in Indonesia. Girls tend to be more marriage-oriented there. The objective of dating is eventual marriage, at least if she is in her 20's. There are probably bars where loose women who get taxi money at the end of the evening hang out in a lot of cities in these countries, too. But as a general rule, their dating seems to be very marriage focused. I do not know if this is the case in Mexico.

[lightningbolto]

i am not doing pick up or pua non-sense. i am not looking for marriage either. just casual dating. how the hell else are you supposed to get women if you are not approaching any of them. plus your choices are extremely limited if you don't approach a lot of them.

I spent many years in Indonesia. Girls tend to be more marriage-oriented there. The objective of dating is eventual marriage, at least if she is in her 20's. There are probably bars where loose women who get taxi money at the end of the evening hang out in a lot of cities in these countries, too. But as a general rule, their dating seems to be very marriage focused. I do not know if this is the case in Mexico.

someone that talks like this is completely delusional. phillipines is catholic but they seem to whore around a lot with foreigners. they are supposed to be traditional and conservative. same with peru but it's easy to get them there.

so your assertioin that indonesia is based on marriage and that's why they don't date is invalid.

[MrMan]

i am not doing pick up or pua non-sense. i am not looking for marriage either. just casual dating. how the hell else are you supposed to get women if you are not approaching any of them. plus your choices are extremely limited if you don't approach a lot of them.

I spent many years in Indonesia. Girls tend to be more marriage-oriented there. The objective of dating is eventual marriage, at least if she is in her 20's. There are probably bars where loose women who get taxi money at the end of the evening hang out in a lot of cities in these countries, too. But as a general rule, their dating seems to be very marriage focused. I do not know if this is the case in Mexico.

someone that talks like this is completely delusional. phillipines is catholic but they seem to whore around a lot with foreigners. they are supposed to be traditional and conservative. same with peru but it's easy to get them there.

so your assertioin that indonesia is based on marriage and that's why they don't date is invalid.

I did not say that Indonesians do not date. But based on 10+ years of experience there, my impression is that they tend to date with a focus on getting married eventually.

[Yohan]

thanks for your response bro. yeah that's very interesting. i wasn't expecting something like that from vietnamese people. but then again japanese people don't like other asians.

You cannot say that so easily, as in Japan are living about 3 million foreigners, and the huge majority of them are Asians - and in this 3 million people are not included those 'foreigners' who are already holding Japanese citizenship (many of them Chinese and Koreans born in Japan and later on aquired Japanese citizenship). Also not included are all US-military related personnel and their families, who are often Asian-Americans, or family members who are Asians but not Japanese citizens (often Filipinas).

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Further, Japan in 2019 had before this covid-19 problem, about 31 million foreign tourists and those tourists were also mainly Asians and not Western foreigners. Japan's Tourism Revenue was near to 49 USD bn in Dec 2019.

If it is so bad for Asians, I wonder why they coming and spending money in rather expensive Japan...

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tourism_in_Japan

[flowerthief00]

why else are you in another country other than to get women.

Some imagination! Then has every foreigner who is living in a country where it is hard to "get" women (such as Vietnam) made a grievous mistake?

[lightningbolto]

thanks for your response bro. yeah that's very interesting. i wasn't expecting something like that from vietnamese people. but then again japanese people don't like other asians.

You cannot say that so easily, as in Japan are living about 3 million foreigners, and the huge majority of them are Asians - and in this 3 million people are not included those 'foreigners' who are already holding Japanese citizenship (many of them Chinese and Koreans born in Japan and later on aquired Japanese citizenship). Also not included are all US-military related personnel and their families, who are often Asian-Americans, or family members who are Asians but not Japanese citizens (often Filipinas).

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Further, Japan in 2019 had before this covid-19 problem, about 31 million foreign tourists and those tourists were also mainly Asians and not Western foreigners. Japan's Tourism Revenue was near to 49 USD bn in Dec 2019.

If it is so bad for Asians, I wonder why they coming and spending money in rather expensive Japan...

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tourism_in_Japan

of ccourse i can just ask winston about the racism he experienced in japan for example.

[Winston]

I am becoming frustrated in my travels. currently in mexico. and it's not easy getting them at all. only place i have gotten a woman was mexico city. other than that it's hard in other states of mexico. i coudn't get anything in cancun or other places. and it takes almost 10 approaches before i can get a woman in mexico city.

People have told me places like Vietnam and even Ukraine it's hard to get women in those countries. i plan on traveling out soon.

so is there any countries where it's easy to get women. maybe phillipines ( when it opens again ) or thailand or brazil or russia.

When you mean "get women" do you mean in terms of dating or sex or marriage? That's a broad term. Can you specify?

Even in Europe, many women will go out with you platonically, because it's no big to do that there, even if they're not attracted to you. They are open minded and hospitable and will have a platonic coffee or dinner or show you around a museum. Same in Russia and Ukraine too. If you are her type then something more may develop, but an "easy country" is not gonna be easy for everyone. Because some men do better in country X than others.

If you mean get sexy easily for free, well women don't usually have sex just for fun unless there's a relationship involved or they plan to get serious with you. To find a girl for sex just for fun, you'd have to do p4p and pay whores, bar girls, freelancers, and escorts. If you are a clubber and good at dancing, you may be able to pick up girls in clubs. But you gotta look good and fit into that kind of scene. It's not for every guy.

If you mean marriage, well there are good women for marriage in many countries, but if you aren't good marriage material yourself, then it's a moot point. You have to be compatible.

I'm surprised Mexico is that hard. I thought a third world country would be easy. Can't you at least get whores in Mexico or freelancers? Are you at least able to make friends there?

Can you go online and use Tinder or Plenty of Fish or Ok Cupid to date Mexican women who are seeking a foreigner? Have you tried that? There are some countries where cold approach doesn't work, but online dating does, for some odd reason.

Yeah I heard Vietnamese women are conservative. But many guys have a girlfriend there. You gotta be patient and develop a relation with them first, you might have to take it slow for a while.

Yes I'd say Philippines is probably easiest. Thailand is good for sex, but many say it's not good for a relationship, because the women there are not loyal and just like to have fun and are freespirited.

[Winston]

thanks for your response bro. yeah that's very interesting. i wasn't expecting something like that from vietnamese people. but then again japanese people don't like other asians.

You cannot say that so easily, as in Japan are living about 3 million foreigners, and the huge majority of them are Asians - and in this 3 million people are not included those 'foreigners' who are already holding Japanese citizenship (many of them Chinese and Koreans born in Japan and later on aquired Japanese citizenship). Also not included are all US-military related personnel and their families, who are often Asian-Americans, or family members who are Asians but not Japanese citizens (often Filipinas).

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Further, Japan in 2019 had before this covid-19 problem, about 31 million foreign tourists and those tourists were also mainly Asians and not Western foreigners. Japan's Tourism Revenue was near to 49 USD bn in Dec 2019.

If it is so bad for Asians, I wonder why they coming and spending money in rather expensive Japan...

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tourism_in_Japan

of ccourse i can just ask winston about the racism he experienced in japan for example.

I don't have experience in Japan other than as a teenager in Okinawa. When I was there, I didn't know if anyone liked me or was racist or not, because everyone just ignored me. There was no eye contact. I felt like a ghost. It's a super repressed serious society, like Taiwan and Singapore, where people mind their own business and are all business and no fun and have no humor. Even the little fun to be had there feel inhibited, no one lets loose. No one hugs each other or says "I love you" to each other. Of course, some guys do well in Japan and find a girlfriend, but even with a partner, they can still feel isolated and alienated if they don't like the culture.

[Italianman]

If you're experiencing so much trouble, you're definitely hideous and socially uncomfortable (stupid). Maybe buy a hooker?

[lightningbolto]

I am becoming frustrated in my travels. currently in mexico. and it's not easy getting them at all. only place i have gotten a woman was mexico city. other than that it's hard in other states of mexico. i coudn't get anything in cancun or other places. and it takes almost 10 approaches before i can get a woman in mexico city.

People have told me places like Vietnam and even Ukraine it's hard to get women in those countries. i plan on traveling out soon.

so is there any countries where it's easy to get women. maybe phillipines ( when it opens again ) or thailand or brazil or russia.

When you mean "get women" do you mean in terms of dating or sex or marriage? That's a broad term. Can you specify?

Even in Europe, many women will go out with you platonically, because it's no big to do that there, even if they're not attracted to you. They are open minded and hospitable and will have a platonic coffee or dinner or show you around a museum. Same in Russia and Ukraine too. If you are her type then something more may develop, but an "easy country" is not gonna be easy for everyone. Because some men do better in country X than others.

If you mean get sexy easily for free, well women don't usually have sex just for fun unless there's a relationship involved or they plan to get serious with you. To find a girl for sex just for fun, you'd have to do p4p and pay whores, bar girls, freelancers, and escorts. If you are a clubber and good at dancing, you may be able to pick up girls in clubs. But you gotta look good and fit into that kind of scene. It's not for every guy.

If you mean marriage, well there are good women for marriage in many countries, but if you aren't good marriage material yourself, then it's a moot point. You have to be compatible.

I'm surprised Mexico is that hard. I thought a third world country would be easy. Can't you at least get whores in Mexico or freelancers? Are you at least able to make friends there?

Can you go online and use Tinder or Plenty of Fish or Ok Cupid to date Mexican women who are seeking a foreigner? Have you tried that? There are some countries where cold approach doesn't work, but online dating does, for some odd reason.

Yeah I heard Vietnamese women are conservative. But many guys have a girlfriend there. You gotta be patient and develop a relation with them first, you might have to take it slow for a while.

Yes I'd say Philippines is probably easiest. Thailand is good for sex, but many say it's not good for a relationship, because the women there are not loyal and just like to have fun and are freespirited.

well much appreciated for that well thought out post. but paying just isn't my thing. I would just like to play around. so i think it's better to go to countries where it's easier for men. where all the men go. you know phils and thailand and russia and brazil.

plus i think women are playing that whole 3 date rule thing. to try to lure men into a relationship. when they do that with a guy they will just give it to him, maybe, and then he will disappear afterwards.

i will try dating apps as you suggest. but people on these dating apps are sensitive and rude and block you super easy over the slightest disagreement.