My new approach to dating

[Tsar]

Reading the OP it sounds like you've been fed too much PUA brainwashing.

I get your frustrations.

Not all girls who've had partners in the past are going judge you (exception; don't express attitudes of 'I will only date a virgin teen' like mentioned above!!).

What women want is someone who can simply be himself, be open and honest and have that attitude of 'this is me, like it or lump it! I don't need to please everyone'. That's it, that's all there is. It's not about trying to please everyone. No need to feign being the the 'bad boy' that gets girls. Are the sorts of girls that dig those 'guys that get girls' the right ones for you? Do you find them attractive beyond looks? These are the questions that should be asked.

I actually have not been reading PUA. I discovered it on my own. I see the truth.

I have always been willing be honest and myself with foreign girls which is why I only want foreign girls. I am not going to please her by doing everything she wants. She will realize that early on.

I couldn't actually care about a girl where I wasn't her first guy. That's why the most a non-virgin (sloppy second) slut could ever be is a Favorite FWB.

Let's face it. Hot girls with natural beauty have desirable feminine genes as indicated by their physical appearance. It's why many guys want to bang them. It's the Golden Ratio.

It is why across the world 36-24-36 is considered an ideal measurement.

Maybe a girl being larger on the bust could be attractive to some or most guys so 36+.

It is why hot girls have the most sex. They're the most desirable.

Humans are mostly animals. It is why females have more animalistic natures and like to ride many different cock and secretly desire sex more than guys. They want to be dominated and led, and since feminism it made some confused or to challenge guys to test their dominance.

Maybe I don't get a hot girlfriend but I could definitely get at least one hot FWB and have her pop out some babies.

[Voyager1]

Maybe I don't get a hot girlfriend but I could definitely get at least one hot FWB and have her pop out some babies.

No slut is going to want to have your baby. A slut is going to make your wear a rubber and if she does happen to get pregnant with your baby she will abort.

No normal girl is going to want to have your child or have a family with you at least until you are more established.

You have to think of these things. If you get a girl pregnant how are you going to support the child? Raising a child is expensive.

My view is you are not living in reality as MarcosZeitola hit on earlier.

[Cornfed]

My view is you are not living in reality as MarcosZeitola hit on earlier.

It's a hard thing though. At what point does one give up hoping for a normal life and accept that you just picked a shitty time to exist?

[mattyman]

Oh FFS! My initial reaction, stop with the 'I'll only date a virgin' nonsense!

It's a myth that the more attractive=the more men. Yes, some may get male attention. No, it doesn't translate into guys who want to get to know her. No, there are good-looking girls who won't sleep with anyone, but guys they can TRUST and get to know as a friend also.

The reason why a lot of pretty girls are single is simple; they do things that turn guys off; such as coming across as narcissists, coming across as judgemental (what makes me click 'next' on dating sites). The only guys who do approach them are either a) the guys who only want their body b) or the grovelling sycophants..

[Cornfed]

No, there are good-looking girls who won't sleep with anyone, but guys they can TRUST and get to know as a friend also.

In general this is the wrong approach to obtaining sex from Western sluts and probably any white sluts. Maybe it works in some places.

[Tsar]

Maybe I don't get a hot girlfriend but I could definitely get at least one hot FWB and have her pop out some babies.

No slut is going to want to have your baby. A slut is going to make your wear a rubber and if she does happen to get pregnant with your baby she will abort.

No normal girl is going to want to have your child or have a family with you at least until you are more established.

You have to think of these things. If you get a girl pregnant how are you going to support the child? Raising a child is expensive.

My view is you are not living in reality as MarcosZeitola hit on earlier.

You are confusing MZ and Yohan.

Second, no one should be established before having children. That is why Whites, Japanese, and certain other ethnic gtoups are dying out but Africans and Indians have quickly riding populations.

Third, the only girls that require rubber are whores. Virgins will be too inexperienced and sluts are sluts.

Certain countries give money to the child so as long as a girl from one of those places gets pregnant, she gets money to help. Her family would help. I could throw in $100 every month and for many countries it is more than enough for one child, maybe two. I might not qualify for free healthcare or benefits but the girl and her child would.

Girls need to have their first child between 16-21 with a guy older than them.

[Tsar]

Oh FFS! My initial reaction, stop with the 'I'll only date a virgin' nonsense!

It is not nonsense. People only seriously date and marry someone they genuinely respect. I never would respect a nonvirgin or fornicator enough to seriously date or marry her.

I would call one a girlfriend and lead her on to bang her if I really liked her but it would not go further than a FWB relationship.

A girl must trade her virginity and enough of her prime years of beauty to be worth seriously dating or marrying. Any hot slut is worth banging or FWB if she's hot enough and has enough of a good personality or compatibility.

[Tsar]

No, there are good-looking girls who won't sleep with anyone, but guys they can TRUST and get to know as a friend also.

In general this is the wrong approach to obtaining sex from Western sluts and probably any white sluts. Maybe it works in some places.

Maybe that happens in Asia but not anywhere else. It definitely doesn't happen in any White nation and probably no Western nation.

I tried to be friends with girls and actually want to respect one before I bang her and want to have a genuine relationship with her.

I just don't really care anymore. I would pound p***y as long as the girl is worth banging.

Better to shoot for the acceptable minimum and then if I get a good girl, I get a good girl. Otherwise, I won't care. I just want to use females at this point since I saw and realized most are just sluts in 2021.

Trying to actually be anything more than banging sluts, having girls pop out babies, and earning just enough to survive and travel and gave leisure is just not worth it in 2021. Besides, most guys who are stable are stuck in low quality, rubbish First World nations with trash sluts and feminazis and simps.

Best advice for guys, do the opposite with almost all girls. Girls say they want a great guy but they actually go for the opposite during the prime of their life. Want any girl in her prime, do the opposite.

Movies that show respectful guys getting a girlfriend and banging her are maybe 1% of girls. 99% want a guy that doesn't care.

20% of the effort gets 80% of the results. Guys need to stop putting in too much effort with life and with girls because 80% results is successful enough to accomplish things and keep a girl.

Back when I actually cared about life and girls, I was more unhappy because I couldn't get what I want because I live in a f***ed world in a f***ed time with degenerate Western culture gone global like a plague of immorality (mainly fornication) and toxic ideologies like feminism.

Why would girls at 16 pop out a baby for a teen guy who can't contribute anything? Why would a middle class blonde slut in her 20s from American suburbs pop out a baby for a poor, deadbeat African American guy around her age from the ghetto which happens a lot? Or maybe a Euro slut or British slut who rides refugee cock or African migrant cock? They can't support a baby.

They don't care.

The point is to not care. Guys have that privilege. Girls don't no matter what degenerate feminism might tell them.

[MarcosZeitola]

My new approach is if I can get any attractive female, I will bang her.

You may have to lower your standards, briefly, in order to gain a greater experience in dating and relating to the other sex, as well as sexual confidence gained from having frequent sex. It's easier to obtain sex if you don't aim for hotties every time. A picky man, unless he is rich or very tall, dominating and a model type, will be getting less sex than a man who is considerably less picky. Even a great and highly successful guy still would have a harder time getting the highest quality, top of the crop, then a great guy who just went for lower quality girls who wouldn't shit test him and would be genuinely honored to receive his attention... and his seed.

Reproductive success does not require you to knock up only 7s, 8s, 9s and 10s, it requires you to knock of whoever you can knock up, preferably from lower social-economic backgrounds and levels of education as the poor and downtrodden are more likely to continue the cycle of reproducing in high numbers as opposed to the well-educated and well-off.

My advice to you is to have your fun and not be picky about who you have that fun with, at least not in the beginning. You will then 'graduate' to hotter girls as your confidence and skills grow, which they inevitably will. You just need to get in the game. You haven't yet because you are picky, but this is the best advice I can give you given your specific new approach to dating, if you want it to work out and be a 'success', that is.

[Cornfed]

You may have to lower your standards, briefly, in order to gain a greater experience in dating and relating to the other sex, as well as sexual confidence gained from having frequent sex. It's easier to obtain sex if you don't aim for hotties every time. A picky man, unless he is rich or very tall, dominating and a model type, will be getting less sex than a man who is considerably less picky.

The f**k uggers and work your way up model of scoring skanks doesn't work nearly as well as it used to in the good old days.

[MarcosZeitola]

You may have to lower your standards, briefly, in order to gain a greater experience in dating and relating to the other sex, as well as sexual confidence gained from having frequent sex. It's easier to obtain sex if you don't aim for hotties every time. A picky man, unless he is rich or very tall, dominating and a model type, will be getting less sex than a man who is considerably less picky.

The f**k uggers and work your way up model of scoring skanks doesn't work nearly as well as it used to in the good old days.

True, bit it might very well work for Tsar; he's shown me his picture and he's young-looking with decent features and a full head of hair. His main problem is social skills and this would probably help him make some gains in that area, which would then ensure better lays further down the line. It's really his only option besides winning the lottery. But I don't think he's entirely hopeless and he has potential as long as he gets busy with it soon. He's already lowered his moral standards, next go the physical requirements and he's good to go.

[Tsar]

You may have to lower your standards, briefly, in order to gain a greater experience in dating and relating to the other sex, as well as sexual confidence gained from having frequent sex. It's easier to obtain sex if you don't aim for hotties every time. A picky man, unless he is rich or very tall, dominating and a model type, will be getting less sex than a man who is considerably less picky.

The f**k uggers and work your way up model of scoring skanks doesn't work nearly as well as it used to in the good old days.

True, bit it might very well work for Tsar; he's shown me his picture and he's young-looking with decent features and a full head of hair. His main problem is social skills and this would probably help him make some gains in that area, which would then ensure better lays further down the line. It's really his only option besides winning the lottery. But I don't think he's entirely hopeless and he has potential as long as he gets busy with it soon. He's already lowered his moral standards, next go the physical requirements and he's good to go.

I am willing to bang any feminine girl that is thin, at least a B cup, is clean (zero STDs), and looks feminine. If I am just banging a girl, I don't really care if she has dyed hair and I can overlook most tattoos and slut piercings if she has any slutty piercings. I think it is easy for 25%-50% of girls to meet my minimum standards depending on her ethnic, racial, and national backgrounds. I just wouldn't bang a single mom even if she did meet my minimum.

I just would never be able to lower my standards to the point I would bang a low quality girl that would do nothing to actually make me feel a sense of achievement. I need to feel like to at least banged a girl that has the minimum to actually be considered a female of average female beauty to feel I accomplished or achieved something. Otherwise, I should just use whores or get an affordable sugar baby.

I would rather not need a girl to wear a ski mask to hide ugliness and I need to take Viagra to get an erection from the very start because I would not be able to become turned on enough to actually perform in the slightest.

[gsjackson]

You may have to lower your standards, briefly, in order to gain a greater experience in dating and relating to the other sex, as well as sexual confidence gained from having frequent sex. It's easier to obtain sex if you don't aim for hotties every time. A picky man, unless he is rich or very tall, dominating and a model type, will be getting less sex than a man who is considerably less picky.

The f**k uggers and work your way up model of scoring skanks doesn't work nearly as well as it used to in the good old days.

True, bit it might very well work for Tsar; he's shown me his picture and he's young-looking with decent features and a full head of hair. His main problem is social skills and this would probably help him make some gains in that area, which would then ensure better lays further down the line. It's really his only option besides winning the lottery. But I don't think he's entirely hopeless and he has potential as long as he gets busy with it soon. He's already lowered his moral standards, next go the physical requirements and he's good to go.

Also, when you're getting some, regardless of source, the females can smell (or sense) p***y on you, and it turns them on. It's more than just a confidence thing -- they literally can tell if you've been laying pipe. Far, far better to reek of p***y than of desperation.

[Tsar]

Also, when you're getting some, regardless of source, the females can smell (or sense) p***y on you, and it turns them on. It's more than just a confidence thing -- they literally can tell if you've been laying pipe. Far, far better to reek of p***y than of desperation.

I was actually going to make a post about that.

One of the animalistic instincts of females is that they can smell the pheromones of other females on a guy. Most likely, banging girls is when guys get the most female pheromones. They really want a guy more when they smell the pheromones of other females. Also, having pictures with other girls also makes them more interested.

But I am not desperate. I will probably be pounding a sugar baby or two later this year and getting pictures of me with girls, and maybe I have a threesome with two sugar babies.

I was never really desperate.

[mattyman]

RE "I never would respect a nonvirgin or fornicator enough to seriously date or marry her."
Just because someone's had a previous partner DOES NOT MEAN they're a fornicator!

Previous partner doesn't mean she hasn't had the same experiences of loneliness you've had prior to meeting him. Previous partner doesn't mean he was a cassanova or best in bed. When you meet someone you click with naturally, and they do with you, you won't care about each others previous partners! You'll be enjoying each other!

Honestly, having had a previous partner doesn't mean their a fornicator or have millions of guys. Usually it's that they had a relationship that didn't work out (and in many cases WISHED they were virgins). Hope that helps.