Whether I'm handsome or not is your opinion. Others may disagree. Even some guys here like Moretorque and Jamesbond think I'm handsome. Many girls think I am too, in SE Asia and some in Russia did too. Your opinions are your opinions only, not fact. It's obvious you must be unattractive, because only unattractive men call other men ugly. Brad Pitt and Tom Cruise would not call me ugly, because they have no need to try to bring down other men to their level since they are above other men. Ugly men like you need to bring others down to your level so you don't feel alone.Space Invaders wrote: ↑October 14th, 2022, 8:01 pmAre you smoking crack? You were not handsome in 2006 and you definitely do not look good in 2024. You are delusional.Winston wrote: ↑October 14th, 2022, 6:27 amNot true. When I first went to the Philippines in 2006 I was only 32 or 33, not old. I looked good and still do. You forget it's not always about money. I feel COMFORTABLE in my own skin in the Philippines and resonate with it and the oversoul there likes me, so I get a good vibe there. That's PRICELESS and is beyond words and beyond looks and money too. You are being too shallow. This isn't about business. Likability is subjective and about resonance. I don't feel comfortable in my own skin in the US and never have, not even when I was in my teens or twenties. It's priceless. Once you experience it, you understand and are in your ELEMENT. That's beyond words and beyond anything you are talking about. If you haven't experienced it, I feel sorry for you. When you are free of feeling any social anxiety outside, like you feel in the US when you go out, it's priceless and liberating beyond words. I swear. People start to naturally like you and coincidences tend to help you and go your way too. The flow of things tends to be in your favor more often.Space Invaders wrote: ↑October 9th, 2022, 4:37 pmOh come off it, Winston! You know damn well that the only reason girls in the Philippines give old, ugly guys like you (and me) the time of day is because you bring something extra to the table i.e. you PAY FOR STUFF! Sure, things USED to be different in the US, Europe, East Asia etc. In our parents generation maybe an ugly geezer had a shot at a young girl, even if he wasn't rich. Dude, those days are long gone so stop CAPPING! I'll bet even the Philippines has changed a lot in the last ten years.Winston wrote: ↑October 9th, 2022, 8:16 amCheck out this typical response I got from Matt's community on YouTube to my rant above. It's typical narrow American.
B Willy
7 hours ago
Or maybe there’s a reason women are calling security on you
My reply to it:
Happier Abroad - Expat Living and Dating Overseas
3 minutes ago (edited)
@B Willy Typical American copout. Very narrow too. They never did that in the 70s or 80s. The reason of course is that they are antisocial and anti-male and the US is a very antisocial society nowadays, especially on the West Coast. Deep down we all know this. Why deny it? You can feel it to your bone. Also, if the problem is me, how come in most other countries women don't mind flirtation or chatting them up, in fact they are flattered by it and consider it an honor to be noticed and approached. That's how true feminine women are! Watch movies from the 60s or 70s and you will see how feminine women were before, they still exist today but you gotta LEAVE America to experience it, which Matt refuses to even consider for some unknown reason. No joke. Get out of America and you will see all that i say. I promise! I've approached thousands of women in Russia, for example, and the Philippines and never once did anyone call security. It never felt taboo or wrong! HUGE difference! I swear!
Surely no attractive Filipina would be honored and flattered to be approached by you. That's a complete joke.
Actually if you watch me approach women in the Philippines you will see them blush and giggle and definitely look FLATTERED. So you are definitely wrong about that. I swear. Ask my friends, they've seen it in person. You can tell when a woman is flattered by you, and when she is not. Body language and vibe do NOT lie. Women overseas are much more enthusiastic about men in general. If you go there and experience this you will see and become a believer. Guaranteed. Don't use the US as a barometer of what's normal and natural, it is definitely NOT. I swear to God you are definitely wrong.
You are way too shallow and narrow man. You forget that it's not all about looks. If a woman likes you, then she likes you, not for your looks. It's subjective. There's also a destiny/script in that if you are meant to be together, you will. That's how all couples form, especially married couples. Nothing to do with choice or logic. It's simply scripted in their life and so it happens naturally. You don't make it happen or force it. It's up to the universe or the will of the universe. I explained this hundreds of times already. It's obvious and the only explanation for how people hook up and do not know why or how. If you go to China or Taiwan you will see tons of ugly/nerdy guys with good looking women. Why? Well that's why. It's the only logical explanation. It's all a script. There is definitely a hidden order in the universe we don't see.
I agree that relationships between men and women are not all strictly about looks and money. There are intangibles at play. However, looks, money, and status do play the driving role in attraction. This is undeniable. To claim otherwise would be, again, quite delusional.
I am sure you are aware of the ever increasing impact of social media on interpersonal relations. The Philippines may not be as affected (or infected perhaps) as the US and Taiwan, two countries you hate, but they soon will be. Girls, everywhere, are pickier than ever. Do you have any RECENT videos of you seducing young Filipinas? I doubt it.
"If you go to China or Taiwan you will see tons of ugly/nerdy guys with good looking women"
I will admit that Chinese girls are not as hung up on looks as the Koreans and Japanese. Not particularly interested in money either. Mostly they like to go to restaurants and eat good food.
It's not all talk either. Women who say I am handsome also treat me like I am handsome too.
Yes I have recent photos of me seducing young Filipinas. I don't need to post them because I already posted many in the past. But yes I do have many pics of them. I'm a photo person, not a video person so I don't take many videos especially since videos taken on smart phones tend to be huge and run up to gigabytes and use up too much storage space. But yes I do have recent photos from my last trip to the Philippines where I dated and banged many girls. You wanna see them? If so, they are in my Google Albums. I can PM the link to you if you promise to keep them confidential. Some of them are not G rated.
Of course Chinese women are big on money, they tend to be very materialistic and practical. Everyone knows that. How do you not? I was saying that it's all destiny and intangible factors. There is a script that runs out lives from the matrix. That's why certain couples get together. They have a karma and script to follow. Looks get attention, but ultimately a couple is together because they are meant to be so it happens naturally. They don't "make it happen". So those couples you see in China of ugly men with good looking women may just be destiny or inner connection or the man may be her sugar daddy. But even to be a long term sugar daddy, the woman has to like you to some extent. It can't be zero.
Btw, you went off on a tangent in this thread by taking cheap shots at my looks, instead of addressing my main questions in the OP. Why? Can't you answer my questions in the first post of this thread? If not, why do you even bother replying? I'm not asking for cheap shots here. Just answers to my questions.
