US sucks for dating,but ohio is the hardest confirmed by two posters on citydata
Posted: June 18th, 2023, 5:04 pm
Quote: Originally Posted by ManLivinginOhio I'm 27 years old, and I've still never dated, had a girlfriend, or been intimate with a woman. I blame my entire situation on this Cincinnati Metro Area at this point. I've been trying to get with girls since I was a 13 year old teenager, and no matter what, it has failed. I've been involved with sports, clubs, hobbies, and still no luck. I was a high schooler like everyone else, I went to Miami University(Oxford, Ohio), still no luck. I've gone to public places, and approached women, and still no luck. I know my age group(20-29) has the pickiest women(since adult men lust after this group the most), but I feel like I should have scored with a girl by now. I'm not picky, I'm in good shape(I'm a gym-rat), I'm confident, funny, and an ideal match, yet still no luck. I've even tried online dating websites, and apps, and I've still had no luck. The common denominator is one thing: THIS AREA. I've lived in the city of Hamilton my entire life, and it doesn't get much better when I venture around the Hamilton counties, or even northern Kentucky. My conclusion is this entire southwestern area around the city of Cincinnati is full of the pickiest, and most stubborn women in the country. Whenever I go on vacation(I've been to southern Louisville, Kentucky, Denver, Colorado, Gatlinburg, Tennessee, Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, all over the state of Florida, and all over Indiana), and the people in those states are friendlier, and much more open. On top of that, I actually receive attention from women. Even the people in the outer cities/towns(away from the tourist) area seem to be more welcoming. So, my question is, can anyone else confirm that Cincinnati is a terrible place for dating, and there are other areas which are better? Where can I move to that makes this aspect of my life better? I don't live in Cinci, but I live in Cleveland, and the dating scene is similar here if not worse. I'm 22 and I have been in a relationship or 2 but I do think that it may be the place and not you. One of my ex best friends was an amazing person who always had terrible luck with relationships. Granted, he had his issues like everyone else but as soon as he moved to PA, he found someone and they've been together for years and they're engaged. I have a lot of friends in their late 20s who have similar dating issues just like you and I've always said maybe its just the people here. I also think that a majority of our generation is far more interested in hooking up vs being in long-term relationships. Even though we claim to want to want to be in relationships all the time. In some of the Ohio cities and towns, I also notice most people tend to only date people in their own social circles which probably makes it harder for outsiders to mingle or get to know some of the single people. Maybe you should start travelling and see where that takes you, not just relationship wise but just for your own personal experience.
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