Mercury wrote: ↑January 31st, 2024, 8:10 pm
Many men I am sure have experienced it before. They go to a strip club, they see dancing women half nude (usually topless, though a few clubs do go fully nude), they get a private dance, but then you try to touch her but she says no touching, it's club rules, so you end up having a crummy dance. And then you leave and vow never to return, or if you do return, you never buy another dance there ever again.
Then you write a review revealing the club's "no touching" policy, and then it gets deleted, or it gets a reply, and their reply is like they're saying; "No touching is Federal law in the United States of America! You clearly are unaware that it's illegal under Federal law in the United States of America to touch the dancers at any strip club within the United States of America, and that touching the dancers at any strip club within the United States of America carries up to 75 years in Federal prison for you, plus the club can be shut down by the FBI."
This gives us an idea of where you are spending your money, instead of going abroad and finding a girl there, consistent with the forum theme.
Most serious crimes are not a matter of 'federal law.' Someone could go shoot a stranger in the head without violating federal law. Murder isn't covered under federal law in most cases in the US. That's state law. Now if you harmed a state official, did something on federal property, if the offense was in the waterways or on an airplane or something like that they have laws to cover things that occur in states. Rape and assault, including sexual assault, or typically state crimes. The US does have laws forbidding child molestation overseas and certain other crimes.
What you describe is typically a state law. US laws are based on common law, and under common law, touching a stripper in a sexual way might be considered an assault. If you went up to a strange woman and slapped her on the butt, depending on the state, that could be an assault or specifically a sexual assault. There might be a misdemeanor offense that it falls under for that level of assault, and there is a range a judge might sentence people too. It is possible to get 20 years for assault in some places.
Assault typically includes touching someone in a way not deemed appropriate by society.
So if you knock someone down to keep them from getting hit by a bus, you might be within the limits of the law. But if you went up to a homeless beggar and pushed him on the ground, claiming you were making a 'citizens arrest', you'd generally be committing an assault. This varies by state. Throwing blood or urine on people could also be deemed an assault.
So what if you got a lap dance and put your hand on the girls behind-- not some stranger. I suppose technically that could be an assault or a sexual assault in some states. It's not a federal crime. But this is an unusual circumstance. The girl is engaging in foreplay like activities with you, maybe slapping you in the face with some silicone double Ds, grinding on your lap with her behind, etc., or whatever they do for lap dances. Would a judge find a man guilty of assault given he's being worked up like that? I suspect the owners of strip clubs don't want drunk men charged for getting handsy, so they throw them out.
Also, think about the other legal implications. In some states, masturbation for hire may be an illegal prostitution-like activity, or they may call it something else. Lap dances probably come right up to the line of what is allowed in exchange for money. It's a kind of borderline sex work, and most US states outlaw prostitution. So they are skirting this law. If a girl is rubbing herself all over some guy for money, and he can grab her, what else might he do to her? The women probably feel safer if a man can't touch and use that as an excuse. Kicking men out who cross the line probably prevent outright sexual assaults from occurring.
Aside from being immoral, I don't know why a man would want to get himself worked up like this, to be in that situation and not be able to touch or feel or take it further? It must be maddening. I can understand the 'skin hunger'-- which is an okay thing in the right context (marriage), but why work it up to a level of frustration that cannot be satisfied in the normal way?
Why don't you save your money and go overseas and find a girlfriend in a country where some of the women want to date men who fit your ethnic profile. It may give you a leg up or not. I don't remember if you were the black pill poster down on your own looks, but if you aren't that good-looking, maybe you could get a girl who is just about to graduate and get turned out of an orphanage or care home for the blind.