S_Parc wrote:
You have to believe there are a few left.
I believe this is the diamond in the rough concept. The problem, however, is the issue of father time....
Yes, as well as probability and risk. With all those anti-male laws hanging over your head, what kind of odds do you think you're playing if you want a successful marriage with a good woman in America? Given what we know about US/Anglo cultures as poor environments for women, what really are the chances of finding that diamond in the rough?
And why even look for diamonds in the rough when there's already an overwhelming supply of better women outside the US? Are American women really that valuable? Compared to other women I've seen, my answer is: no, I don't think so.
what can an American woman offer me which I don't already have?
Exactly. I actually said something similar a while back when "woman's view" posted as ahardy57: "You may have to shop around for countries a bit, but once you step outside the US/UK/AUS, your dating/mating prospects with reliable, high quality women significantly increases. And then, you find you don't feel the need to seek Anglosphere women like Hardy for dating advice -- as such women become rather superfluous in the face of an overwhelming abundance of much higher quality women overseas."
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At the time, I naively assumed that hardy (woman's view) would actually read and comprehend something written in clear, understandable English. Then I remembered, "ah, she's a woman -- and an American woman at that. Therefore very high on the self-centeredness part, very low on the critical thinking part."
Like you said, there really is nothing American women can offer -- not when there already is an abundance of better quality women elsewhere. For the man who sees a bigger world outside the US, American women are, to put it quite brutally, superfluous.