Woman'sview wrote: ↑
January 24th, 2011, 5:25 pm
This is the only website, that I know, where people speak the truth about the cultural situation in America and the West, and the relationships between the genders here. I admire Winston for his honesty, and the many posters here who shed light on the truth of America and the West. It is very refreshing to hear the plain truth. But I have also to say this:
Some men will try to immigrate so they don't have to grow up, and never look deeply within to see what part of their unhappiness is caused by themselves. Yea, it can be hard getting a date in America, but, at times, it can be your shortcoming. If, you don't know how to treat a woman, you will find yourself without one. If you think a woman owes you submission just because you were born male, well, that might be the reason you are alone. If you feel that you can just be selfcentered and accuse all of womandom for your problems, well you maybe doing yourself a disservice. If you feel you have to attack every woman who tells you the truth, then you can never grow whole. You may become a miserable, lonely, old man.
If you keep comparing yourself to every other man who has a girlfriend, and cursing your condition, you may become vindictive and envious.
It is true, immigration might solve the problem of a lots of menfolks in America, but some people will find more problems when they leave here. Because they are taking themselves with them. If you disrespect women here, and you go overseas to find a woman, will you respect her and treat her like a whole person? Or will you treat her like a lesser person?
Will you go overseas and be a playboy, using women for your gratification, or secretly thinking that you are better than them or more superior to them? Will you try to control her?
Will you give America a bad name, by constantly hanging around bars and nightclubs, approaching women for casual sex, and treating women like a plaything? Will you make women objects?
That's the wrong reason for going overseas.
It's also a good way to get an incurable venereal disease.
Do you think if you were lazy to change your character here, that the natives will not see through you, and say that gringo has "problems?"
Some men leave America for good reasons, or even noble reasons. But for those who go for only their selfish reasons, you are only kidding yourself. You will become a lonely outsider, and there is a possibility you may fit into neither America nor the land you are trying to put down roots in.
If you hate American women just because you feel that is your right and superior position, you may become a very angry person, raging against all females who come your way, whether they are good or bad. You will bring out the worse in all females, just because your approach to them will be so hostile.
Your attitude, will paradoxically fuel the feminist movement, because you will at some point begin to resemble the poster child for the oppressive 'chauvinistic' male.
The man who reacts to the feminists with rage will one day find himself an invert feminist, bitter, lacking grace and gentlemanly qualities. The same rage that fuels the feminist, will also fuel you. You'll become exactly like her, raging, reacting at every perceived slight, thinking only how you are going to become even. Yet her image will haunt you all day, and you will find yourself addicted to anger as you try to get even.
Forgive American women her errors, and just live your life. Become a man. It's a worthy quest you'll probably have to devote your whole life to 7 days a week, 24 hrs a day, 365 days a year.
To the rest who are sincere and coming form their best side, this was not addressed to you.