E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote:
zboy1 wrote:I'm no longer an angry Asian American man, since arriving in Asia. Now, I'm having the time of my life. It's completely different being an Asian male in Asia and being an Asian male in the United States. It's like a total 180, in my opinion.
And I still ask this question: Why do so many Asians I meet, want to come to the United States? Many of them will be solely disappointed, sigh. I keep warning them, but many don't listen. In fact, Winston, Baoning, me and EthanSg were warning some Chinese girls about this, but many seem confused by our feelings, and didn't understand what we were trying to say.
It's a bit frustrating, to be honest.
Wwwwwwwowzers. Well, you just keep living in the PRC, zboy1!!!! It sounds like you're doing well for yourself!!! :0)
Speak to Terrance aka HA poster The_Adventurer. He's also in the PRC now.
I've encountered this same thing, here in China, but it is mostly from young girls. I don't bother to tell them not to go because, being young girls, and pretty, they might really do better
in the USA. Sure, they might encounter some bad things too, but what if the overall picture for them is better? They can make more money and will have a lot of guy after them.
If they are not careful, things can surely go south. I knew a beautiful Taiwanese girl back in USA, who got pumped and dumped a couple of times. Broke her heart. Still, she had a great job, in a field probably not very popular, if existing at all, in her home country. The same happened to a couple of Japanese girls I knew. They were thinking long term and the guy was just thinking sex.
On the other hand, I also knew some girls who got with guys, usually nerdy guys who probably didn't do well with AW, or they are Japanophiles, really into anime, martial arts or some other aspect of Asian culture, and they were happy together. Still together now.
The Korean girl I date back in 2009 is living in USA now and is doing very well. She makes a lot more money, travels a lot, and seems to be having the time of her life. She thinks it is so great, she keeps telling me to go back there. It's quite possible that it is great for her
being a cute Asian girl, but wouldn't be great for me, being a black man who doesn't want to get shot.
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