I don't think anyone can score with all women. Its not a digital 0 or 1, its an analog percentage.Winston wrote:FuzzX, that story sounds a bit pretentious and black and white. No guy is liked by everyone. Not even Tom Cruise is.
If there were a formula or technique for creating attraction, everyone would use it. There may be a formula that helps yeah. But it's not easy and doesn't work for everyone.
Every attempt to put humans into formulas fail. History has taught us that. And so has experience.
Like Rock said, it's like a martial art you learn little by little. But even then, it's not going to make a mega difference, though it may help a little. Even if formulas and techniques do exist that create attraction, they are not all powerful and have their limits.
When someone is selling something, they always overexaggerate the claims.
Now love, that's another matter. Surely you agree that "true love" is not controllable by formulas or techniques, don't you? Lots of women love men who do all the wrong things.
You guys are forgetting something. Not all girls like bad boys. It's young ones and airheads that do. I know plenty of girls who do not like bad boys.
Also, just cause a guy is needy doesn't mean he's unattractive. If a girl really loves him, she will not mind his neediness and will also show her neediness to him too. It's only when she isn't into him and is looking for excuses to blow him off does she use his "neediness" as an excuse to reject him further.
You misunderstood my analogy with martial arts. Yellow belt is a beginning level. If someone practices hardcore fighting techniques at a young age, say Muay Thai and Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, with a decent club for a few years, you can be almost sure it will yield a mega improvement in his practical street fighting skills.
Please, get over it being formulas and techniques. Its better to see PU as an art form. Different things will work well for different people. Part of it is about finding out what works best for you. Mystery and Style are two well known gurus. But they have very different ways of succeeding with women. I mean, one of them is a scruffy long haired 198 cm magician and the other is a short and balding writer. One thing they do have in common though - neither is a victim of left brain thinking. They're both very creative in their own ways and understand women quite well.
Finally, you're right that not all girls like 'bad boys', especially in a place like Taiwan. But I can tell you, most are not attracted to weakness. Being wimpy or needy will at best usually get you into the 'friends zone'. If a woman here really wants a wussy, she is probably seeking an unhealthy situation where she can control the guy and have all the power.
Being strong as a man can be very different than being a bad boy. Here are some examples of a strong man: He does not tolerate disrespect and knows how to handle shit tests. He has clear boundaries and enforces them whenever challenged. He is prepared to walk without a show of emotion of the girl does not treat him right. He is not needy and can handle life. He naturally takes the lead on dates and makes the girl feel safe and comfortable. None of those behaviors or attitudes necessarily makes someone a bad boy.