Re: Taiwan massage parlors and brothels - scouting report
Posted: December 24th, 2020, 1:15 pm
@momopi
Thanks for all your helpful advice. But i think you're only partially right and u miss something important. Yes its true that if a girl likes me and i like her there will be some chemistry than otherwise. However thats not enough. I met a taiwanese lady in 2004 who liked me and talked to me for years. We only went out a few times. She wouldn't sleep with me but she treated me to dinner and called me and gave me baskets of fruits. So she seemed to like me even though she was a prude. The thing is we had nothing in common so the chemistry was just nice and superficial. It only went so far.
The thing is momopi you and i are very different. You fit into taiwanese culture and people far more than i do. Even if i meet taiwanese people and hang out, like i did with u and your date and Jennifer in taichung that one time, the connection feels superficial.
Im sure u know that Taiwanese only like normies. If you are eccentric, or say things outside the box or say anything politically incorrect, they usually drop u like dirt. True friends dont do that and such friendships are superficial. Not true friendships. Plus taiwanese dont appreciate honesty. They prefer you to be politically correct. Honesty is not appreciated in taiwanese culture. Thats obvious. Im sure u know that and wont deny it. So even if u make friends in taiwan or meet people the connection is always hollow. Maybe to u thats normal but it isnt to me. It doesn't feel like a true human connection. Theres never true camaraderie or connection in Taiwan.
Maybe u cant relate. I dont know. But im sure others here know what i mean. U gotta understand we are different people u and i. And what goes for u doesnt necessarily go for me.
Im not trying to be argumentation or debate u. Just being honest. Hope u understand.
Btw regarding speed dating, even rock told me it was a waste of time and he is smart and practical like u. I did attend a speed dating event once in the Philippines in 2006. It was fun but all the girls were into the young filipino guys that looked like R&B rappers and singers. It was kind of ego deflating and told me that i wasnt the hot item i thought i was in the Philippines. I did meet several girls though and got their phone numbers. But it didnt go anywhere.
So even in a country like philippines where i fit in and get dates easily i didnt do that well in speed dating. I wasnt popular and no one voted for me. So what does that tell u? Obviously I'd do even worse in a country i dont fit into and always feel awkward in right? Also we all know that Taiwanese women are super shallow and picky, far more than filipino women are. Ive never vibed with shallow picky women for some reason. They always detest me immediate and sense that my vibe and aura are very different from theirs.
U gotta understand that i never feel normal in Taiwan. I always feel awkward. Kind of like if u were to put ketchup on a chocolate chip cookie. It wont kill u to eat it but it will always feel awkward. The flavors dont mix and arent meant to. That's what u and my dad dont understand. I told my dad about this 100,000 times yet he still doesn't get it and assumes taiwan is a normal country with normal vibes. Ita hopeless trying to get him to understand me. Even rock understands me a little. But it seems u and my dad cant understand me at all. Oh well.
Thanks for all your helpful advice. But i think you're only partially right and u miss something important. Yes its true that if a girl likes me and i like her there will be some chemistry than otherwise. However thats not enough. I met a taiwanese lady in 2004 who liked me and talked to me for years. We only went out a few times. She wouldn't sleep with me but she treated me to dinner and called me and gave me baskets of fruits. So she seemed to like me even though she was a prude. The thing is we had nothing in common so the chemistry was just nice and superficial. It only went so far.
The thing is momopi you and i are very different. You fit into taiwanese culture and people far more than i do. Even if i meet taiwanese people and hang out, like i did with u and your date and Jennifer in taichung that one time, the connection feels superficial.
Im sure u know that Taiwanese only like normies. If you are eccentric, or say things outside the box or say anything politically incorrect, they usually drop u like dirt. True friends dont do that and such friendships are superficial. Not true friendships. Plus taiwanese dont appreciate honesty. They prefer you to be politically correct. Honesty is not appreciated in taiwanese culture. Thats obvious. Im sure u know that and wont deny it. So even if u make friends in taiwan or meet people the connection is always hollow. Maybe to u thats normal but it isnt to me. It doesn't feel like a true human connection. Theres never true camaraderie or connection in Taiwan.
Maybe u cant relate. I dont know. But im sure others here know what i mean. U gotta understand we are different people u and i. And what goes for u doesnt necessarily go for me.
Im not trying to be argumentation or debate u. Just being honest. Hope u understand.
Btw regarding speed dating, even rock told me it was a waste of time and he is smart and practical like u. I did attend a speed dating event once in the Philippines in 2006. It was fun but all the girls were into the young filipino guys that looked like R&B rappers and singers. It was kind of ego deflating and told me that i wasnt the hot item i thought i was in the Philippines. I did meet several girls though and got their phone numbers. But it didnt go anywhere.
So even in a country like philippines where i fit in and get dates easily i didnt do that well in speed dating. I wasnt popular and no one voted for me. So what does that tell u? Obviously I'd do even worse in a country i dont fit into and always feel awkward in right? Also we all know that Taiwanese women are super shallow and picky, far more than filipino women are. Ive never vibed with shallow picky women for some reason. They always detest me immediate and sense that my vibe and aura are very different from theirs.
U gotta understand that i never feel normal in Taiwan. I always feel awkward. Kind of like if u were to put ketchup on a chocolate chip cookie. It wont kill u to eat it but it will always feel awkward. The flavors dont mix and arent meant to. That's what u and my dad dont understand. I told my dad about this 100,000 times yet he still doesn't get it and assumes taiwan is a normal country with normal vibes. Ita hopeless trying to get him to understand me. Even rock understands me a little. But it seems u and my dad cant understand me at all. Oh well.