Posted: December 1st, 2013, 3:22 pm
What does this have to do with Indonesian ladies?Falcon wrote:Trailer for an award-winning film about a Filipina maid in Singapore.
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What does this have to do with Indonesian ladies?Falcon wrote:Trailer for an award-winning film about a Filipina maid in Singapore.
Nobody said unselfish personality wasn't important and it number #1. However the challenge is GETTING BOTH and that's where too many men come up short, talk themselves into some falsehoods about attractiveness and forget in post modern civilization looks are important. If you live in some tiny village in Indonesia, nobody gives too squirts overall and more kindhearted people would wish you well.Falcon wrote:Yeah, I was expecting this from some of you guys, but I don't really mind. Please consult OTB's thread on how an unselfish personality really is #1.Banano wrote:Falcon
These chicks that you describe as 'pretty' and 'cute' are not attractive at all. Bellow average.
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The point is that they're completely the opposite of many Western women and could serve as an alternative for some guys in Taiwan who are very frustrated with Taiwanese women. They're friendly, warm, approachable, and flirty, which is also Winston's point here.
Read the OP. A primary focus here is on Southeast Asian domestic helpers in rich East Asian countries.What does this have to do with Indonesian ladies?
Did they also withhold the helpers' passports? My aunt does that, even though I would personally object to that.momopi wrote:When my grandparents in Taipei were still alive, we hired a number of maids and helpers as their caregivers. My mother's opinion is that the best ones were from the Philippines. The Vietnamese ones were more greedy or selfish, but at least stayed and completed their contract. We had 2 Indonesian helpers that ran away, probably to go work at factories or higher paying contract.
This counts as a type of abuse. Not respecting foreign workers' religions is way too common in Taiwan. I read the Qur'an with our maid, speak Indonesian to her, ask her to tell her story, and only has her make halal food, which are things that my other relatives would never even think of doing.momopi wrote:In "Taipei Rose Town", a retirement community in the outskirts of Taipei, my old nanny told me of one of her neighbors who neglected to provide halal food for her Indonesian maid. She refused to eat pork or touch any of the family's food. Eventually she fainted from malnutrition and had to be taken to a hospital.
Nope, we did not withhold their passports and they took off as soon as they found a better gig (legal or otherwise).Falcon wrote: Did they also withhold the helpers' passports? My aunt does that, even though I would personally object to that.
As for Vietnamese ones often being more greedy or selfish, that;s because of the old-fashioned Chinese mindset, which would also generally apply to Mainland Chinese as well.
And have you also socialized with foreign workers from SE Asia while in Taiwan? I'm wondering what's your take on this.
Lots of the maids in Singapore, Taiwan, HK are from indonesia and the philippines. My pinay maid says the indo are paid much lower and are bad competition for pinay domestic workers. they tend to look the same too (south east asian features, no make up). The pinay bargirls you guys love will look like falcon's tribal girls, he just goes for the more natural and down to earth look, afterall, a woman is still a woman under the clothes and make upanamericaninbangkok wrote:What does this have to do with Indonesian ladies?Falcon wrote:Trailer for an award-winning film about a Filipina maid in Singapore.
Falcon, any girl you like the way they look or like their personality, you date them or make them your friend. Each person has their own taste. They don't look like bar girls and that is good. i can tell you the average girls in Philippines are Thailand aren't that good looking.Falcon wrote:Could you post some example photos then? I think these women look perfectly fine, unless you've been looking at too many supermodels with plastic surgery.anamericaninbangkok wrote:That's not the point. The point is there are far better Indonesian (or other Asian) women to choose from than so-called tribal women. It has nothing to do with being better than western women.
And yes, some of these women could have peasant backgrounds, but they're certainly not tribal. Tribal women in Indonesia are like this.
WorldTraveler wrote:Falcon, any girls that you like the way they look or like their personality, you date them or make them your friend. Each person has their own taste. They don't look like bar girls and that is good. i can tell you the average girls in Philippines and Thailand aren't that good looking.Falcon wrote:Could you post some example photos then? I think these women look perfectly fine, unless you've been looking at too many supermodels with plastic surgery.anamericaninbangkok wrote:That's not the point. The point is there are far better Indonesian (or other Asian) women to choose from than so-called tribal women. It has nothing to do with being better than western women.
And yes, some of these women could have peasant backgrounds, but they're certainly not tribal. Tribal women in Indonesia are like this.
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