Winston back in America - Observations and Updates

[Winston]

Have u noticed the following.

In Russia and the Philippines people are stingy with money but generous with time. But in America people are the opposite, they are stingy with their time but generous with money. They are selective about who they hang out with and stingy about the value of their time. But in Philippines and Russia people will hang out just for the heck of it even if they dont like u that much.

So many women in Russia and Philippines will hang out with u just for the heck of it as long u are paying for everything. They will never pay for you. But in America a woman has to really like u a lot to make time to be with you. Americans are very stingy about their time.

This is consistent pattern I've noticed. Have you? Any of u noticed this too?

I'm definitely more like Filipinos and Russians in that I'm more generous with my time but frugal with my money. Sometimes to the disappointment of others of course. Lol. But I'm not stingy. I will pay what i owe. But i dont like wasting money and there's nothing wrong with that. I don't get why Russian culture says there's something wrong with that. That's illogical and an infringement on my free will to require me to be generous and never count money, especially when they themselves count money and are very frugal.

[Mew6ix]

American and Canadian women don't give average men the time of day.

Many Canadian women, especially female teachers buy gifts for the Yung Chads and Yung Tyrones, while promoting feminism to the students to hate on average men.

[have2fly]

American women are "all or nothing" for what they believe matters in a man. You have to be a Chad or a millionaire or both, otherwise you are nobody and do not exist. Also if you look outside of the "normal", such as not smiling in photos - you are automatically labeled as a creepy weirdo and placed into ignored-avoided category. You have to love stupid commercial sports, get tattoos and perform bestiality by licking dogs in your pictures for any American women to even notice you. Even better if you lick dogs while being tattoed sitting in a private jet or a yacht, that's a jackpot for American women.

[Winston]

Do any of you notice these things about America that are weird and awkward? Is it only the suburbs or Las Vegas that this is true? Or all of America?

There seems to be this weird assumption when you are out in public, that you do not need romance, a date, love, sex, or to meet women. It's assumed that you already have a wife and that if you need sex or romance, then you should get it from her, not seek it elsewhere. And that your focus is on raising your family, because everyone in America seems to be married and settled down. If you are not, then you are an anomaly and an odd man out. It's very weird and isolating. It's like America constantly tells you that you don't belong here and that you are the odd man out, since everyone exists to raise their family and is settled down except you. Everything in America is geared toward couples and families it seems, so if you are a single man, you are an anomaly and odd man out and have no place. It's very alienating and unforgiving to those who didn't marry their high school sweetheart and settle down early in life.

Any of you get this feeling too in America? It's very isolating and punishing, as if you are excluded and being punished for not settling down early and marrying your high school or college sweetheart. That's so mean. How come other countries like those in SE Asia or Latin America don't make you feel that way? It's as if there is nothing to do in America if you are single guy, and no place? As if you shouldn't even be here. Very alienating for sure. And unfriendly as well.

So basically, it's like America expects you to settle down early with your sweetheart from school or college, and then for the rest of your life never talk to strangers again unless it's business-related? Do I have that right? That's what it seems like.

How come there's nothing to do in America if you are single? What do single people do in America? In Europe, Russia, SE Asia and Latin America there is TONS to do for single men, and lots of single women to hang out with. How come that's not the case with America? It's like everyone is married and settled down. That's so NARROW. Why are Americans so square and narrow in real life, but in the movies they are so open and wild and freespirited? The difference between Americans in the movies vs real life is like 1000 percent!

Any of you notice this too? It's like if you are single, you have no place in America and nothing to do, but feel alienated all the time. It's very AWKWARD for sure. Why bother coming to America at all? The nature and land in America is beautiful, however the social environment, people, culture, and cement environment is very antisocial, unfriendly, cold, toxic, mean, paranoid, dehumanizing, and invalidating. Very God awful. There is no warmth, closeness, or sincerity at all. No fun or freedom or love or connection or friendly vibes either. Why do the Gods or God allow such an unfriendly unnatural environment like America, where everyone is married and settled early and never talks to any strangers after that? What kind of a weird F-ed up society is that? It's very unnatural and inhuman.

Moreover I never understood how you are supposed to be married and settled down in America if women aren't friendly or approachable, and do not like men and are not feminine and are cold and impossible to connect with? Especially white women? Isn't that the biggest oxymoron?

Do any of you think these thoughts when you are outside in the American suburbs too?

I even feel awkward walking in the streets of my neighborhood. Because no one is outside. Everyone is shut inside and when they drive home, they quickly close the garage door. There's a paranoid energy too even when no one is around. So I feel awkward and out of place even taking a walk in my neighborhood. Any of you feel this way too? It's worse than Washington, it's like Las Vegas locals are EXTRA UNFRIENDLY and antisocial for some reason. I haven't seen a single friendly social person in the Vegas suburbs at all. It's very weird and creepy and makes me feel like a freak for no reason. Very friggin weird.

[Winston]

Have you noticed America offers no love or sex or romance or human connection or human companionship? All it offers is gluttony (excess food) and consumerism and commercialism. It's like everyone in America wants to only sell you something, not connect with you. As if business and sales are all what matters in life. So boring. America assumes u were born to be a consumer and salesman as if that's what we are here for. Lol. So weird. Nothing but hyper consumerism, hyper commercialism, and nothing else. So sad and empty. Like a soulless machine with no purpose except to perpetuate the economy.

Also what's the point of working hard if u aren't happy and your needs aren't met? I can't do that. I don't get how America expects u to do that, work hard for the sake of working hard and be independent and not need others, just for the sake of it. So weird. How do people put up with that and accept that? They must be NPCs.

Isn't it weird how everyone in America acts like they love their job and are upbeat about it and act positive for no reason like they are always in a good mood for no reason? How do Americans do that? We are more logical here and need a good reason to be happy, positive and upbeat. I've never understood how Americans can act upbeat and positive for no reason just because it's part of the culture to do so.

[rainbanx]

Have you noticed America offers no love or sex or romance or human connection or human companionship? All it offers is gluttony (excess food) and consumerism and commercialism. It's like everyone in America wants to only sell you something, not connect with you. As if business and sales are all what matters in life. So boring. America assumes u were born to be a consumer and salesman as if that's what we are here for. Lol. So weird. Nothing but hyper consumerism, hyper commercialism, and nothing else. So sad and empty. Like a soulless machine with no purpose except to perpetuate the economy.

Also what's the point of working hard if u aren't happy and your needs aren't met? I can't do that. I don't get how America expects u to do that, work hard for the sake of working hard and be independent and not need others, just for the sake of it. So weird. How do people put up with that and accept that? They must be NPCs.

Isn't it weird how everyone in America acts like they love their job and are upbeat about it and act positive for no reason like they are always in a good mood for no reason? How do Americans do that? We are more logical here and need a good reason to be happy, positive and upbeat. I've never understood how Americans can act upbeat and positive for no reason just because it's part of the culture to do so.

Hi Winston!

Yes, in America people determined what you're career is and/or your net worth. They want people to turned into a consumer, so people ended up working longer hours just to make ends meet.

[Natural_Born_Cynic]

Yes.. single men are treated like pariah.
If they think of sex, they are viewed as potential rapist, creep, and scumbag. However, if women have sex with multiple guys she is viewed as an empowered women. And P2P is illegal in most states except Nevada?
You can't make friends in America as a men. Most of them have a thick ice wall and will leave you if your not cool or have lot of money.
In contrast, it is far easier for women to make friends. Most of women have an extensive social support structure in American society. You see everyday that there is domestic violence shelter for women, fight for breast cancer, empower women this.. that, Girls in Tech and STEM, Affirmative Action, etc. When women claim that they are "social outcast" or "lonely" then they are full of crap!
America is similar to Afghanistan for men. it is the men who wears the veil and it is the women who can do whatever the f**k they want. Being a brainless whore is a badge of honor for American Women. They consider that as being liberated..

[Space Invaders]

Have you noticed America offers no love or sex or romance or human connection or human companionship? All it offers is gluttony (excess food) and consumerism and commercialism. It's like everyone in America wants to only sell you something, not connect with you. As if business and sales are all what matters in life. So boring. America assumes u were born to be a consumer and salesman as if that's what we are here for. Lol. So weird. Nothing but hyper consumerism, hyper commercialism, and nothing else. So sad and empty. Like a soulless machine with no purpose except to perpetuate the economy.

Also what's the point of working hard if u aren't happy and your needs aren't met? I can't do that. I don't get how America expects u to do that, work hard for the sake of working hard and be independent and not need others, just for the sake of it. So weird. How do people put up with that and accept that? They must be NPCs.

Isn't it weird how everyone in America acts like they love their job and are upbeat about it and act positive for no reason like they are always in a good mood for no reason? How do Americans do that? We are more logical here and need a good reason to be happy, positive and upbeat. I've never understood how Americans can act upbeat and positive for no reason just because it's part of the culture to do so.

Says the guy who's never had a real job and is still living off of mommy and daddy at the age of 50 lol. Dude, some of us have to work for a living smh
Judging by the size of your belly, America's excesses seem to suit you just fine. I mean you are in buffet town right now, after all. Living in the house that Daddy Wu paid for lol. I wonder how many visits you've made to the Bunny Ranch since you've been back?

You're the last person deserving of acting like some moral compass in this f*d up world. It is what it is.

[Jackfruits]

Have you noticed America offers no love or sex or romance or human connection or human companionship? All it offers is gluttony (excess food) and consumerism and commercialism. It's like everyone in America wants to only sell you something, not connect with you. As if business and sales are all what matters in life. So boring. America assumes u were born to be a consumer and salesman as if that's what we are here for. Lol. So weird. Nothing but hyper consumerism, hyper commercialism, and nothing else. So sad and empty. Like a soulless machine with no purpose except to perpetuate the economy.

Also what's the point of working hard if u aren't happy and your needs aren't met? I can't do that. I don't get how America expects u to do that, work hard for the sake of working hard and be independent and not need others, just for the sake of it. So weird. How do people put up with that and accept that? They must be NPCs.

Isn't it weird how everyone in America acts like they love their job and are upbeat about it and act positive for no reason like they are always in a good mood for no reason? How do Americans do that? We are more logical here and need a good reason to be happy, positive and upbeat. I've never understood how Americans can act upbeat and positive for no reason just because it's part of the culture to do so.

Says the guy who's never had a real job and is still living off of mommy and daddy at the age of 50 lol. Dude, some of us have to work for a living smh
Judging by the size of your belly, America's excesses seem to suit you just fine. I mean you are in buffet town right now, after all. Living in the house that Daddy Wu paid for lol. I wonder how many visits you've made to the Bunny Ranch since you've been back?

You're the last person deserving of acting like some moral compass in this f*d up world. It is what it is.

is winston not making money from this site from all the desperate fools signing up for scam marriage agencies?

[peregrino]

America is similar to Afghanistan for men. it is the men who wears the veil and it is the women who can do whatever the f**k they want. Being a brainless whore is a badge of honor for American Women. They consider that as being liberated..

The thing about this country is that the religious right always takes the same side of the feminists. Women are always victims and men are always scum who just need to man up if they're not happy.

[Natural_Born_Cynic]

America is similar to Afghanistan for men. it is the men who wears the veil and it is the women who can do whatever the f**k they want. Being a brainless whore is a badge of honor for American Women. They consider that as being liberated..

The thing about this country is that the religious right always takes the same side of the feminists. Women are always victims and men are always scum who just need to man up if they're not happy.

Yep, exactly. Despite the bible stating that the men should obey god while women should obey the men, even religious organizations pander to the females and even homosexuals. I used to go to this Korean Church on Sundays, but their council or congress or whatever forced the church to accept homosexuals into the church. The pastor said no, but the Council kicked him out and took away the church building. Now it's empty as the council lost the majority of the followers. The followers went to set up independent church with their pastor. It's crazy man. Even bible verses doesn't matter anymore and all religious organizations care about is motherf*cking money. It's not like they can cash out in Heaven. God doesn't give a sh*t about those green notes.