Seeking advice and new member recognition
Posted: August 25th, 2011, 3:30 am
Hey Dudes,
First a quick briefing about me. I make around 75K-100K a year, am of good looking Italian origin, 5'9" and thin. I am very presentable, I dress well, have a college degree, a condo, a paid off truck etc.
Now I am going to try and keep my story brief and to the point. I am originally from Southern California but relocated last year to Kansas City (Yes i know, listen to my story). I was dating a girl long distance for 2 years (flew her out many times to LA, and flew out here to see her) and she egged me on to move out here and be closer to her. Well as soon as I got out here she dumped me and just altogether stopped talking to me wouldn't answer my calls, texts or emails. I still can't figure out what the hell happened and I'm really pissed at her for doing this to me, I changed my life for this girl and dropped my career I had in California for her.
So yes, that was the last bad relationship I ever want to have with an American woman or any woman in my lifetime. Luckily I am still young (25 years old) and got it out of the way. I did purchase a nice foreclosure out here for really cheap and it's very rentable and I stand to make $200/month just on renting it out. I did this just to make myself feel better for having packed up my life in California to move to this wasteland they call the midwest. I have dated a little more out here, but nothing. I have kind of become afraid of American Women.
The last girl I was seeing (working woman, good looking, 32 years old from a small town in Kansas) came over to my place, drank an entire fifth of my Kettle One vodka that takes me 3 months to get through and she polished off the bottle proudly within one hour! I made sexual advances on her and she then proceeded to wrestle me, least to say I won and she had her clothes off and was in my bed ready with her legs spread demanding it. She woke up the next morning had coffee and left, after I shut the door I said to myself WTF was that? Needless to say I found out she was screwing 3 other guys the same time as me, so I stopped seeing her plus there were other issues.
I DONT GET IT. Why on god's earth is it so hard to date or have a steady girlfriend in this country? Let alone get married anymore. And don't tell me it's money which is every guys copout, I know multi-millionaires in California who have had their wives divorce them. I have tried everything and I mean EVERYTHING to find a good girl in this country and Gen Y women are far worse then even Gen X or Boomer cougars.
The other good news in my life is, I just got EU citizenship this year (Italy)! I applied 3 years ago with my mom and we both just got it earlier this year.
Now I ask the expat's, where can I go to have the most success with women?
First a quick briefing about me. I make around 75K-100K a year, am of good looking Italian origin, 5'9" and thin. I am very presentable, I dress well, have a college degree, a condo, a paid off truck etc.
Now I am going to try and keep my story brief and to the point. I am originally from Southern California but relocated last year to Kansas City (Yes i know, listen to my story). I was dating a girl long distance for 2 years (flew her out many times to LA, and flew out here to see her) and she egged me on to move out here and be closer to her. Well as soon as I got out here she dumped me and just altogether stopped talking to me wouldn't answer my calls, texts or emails. I still can't figure out what the hell happened and I'm really pissed at her for doing this to me, I changed my life for this girl and dropped my career I had in California for her.
So yes, that was the last bad relationship I ever want to have with an American woman or any woman in my lifetime. Luckily I am still young (25 years old) and got it out of the way. I did purchase a nice foreclosure out here for really cheap and it's very rentable and I stand to make $200/month just on renting it out. I did this just to make myself feel better for having packed up my life in California to move to this wasteland they call the midwest. I have dated a little more out here, but nothing. I have kind of become afraid of American Women.
The last girl I was seeing (working woman, good looking, 32 years old from a small town in Kansas) came over to my place, drank an entire fifth of my Kettle One vodka that takes me 3 months to get through and she polished off the bottle proudly within one hour! I made sexual advances on her and she then proceeded to wrestle me, least to say I won and she had her clothes off and was in my bed ready with her legs spread demanding it. She woke up the next morning had coffee and left, after I shut the door I said to myself WTF was that? Needless to say I found out she was screwing 3 other guys the same time as me, so I stopped seeing her plus there were other issues.
I DONT GET IT. Why on god's earth is it so hard to date or have a steady girlfriend in this country? Let alone get married anymore. And don't tell me it's money which is every guys copout, I know multi-millionaires in California who have had their wives divorce them. I have tried everything and I mean EVERYTHING to find a good girl in this country and Gen Y women are far worse then even Gen X or Boomer cougars.
The other good news in my life is, I just got EU citizenship this year (Italy)! I applied 3 years ago with my mom and we both just got it earlier this year.
Now I ask the expat's, where can I go to have the most success with women?