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Being a recent victim of divorce after 36 years of marriage, I should feel right at home here. I stumbled across this site while browsing for the American Bitch (not that I’m bitter).

To make a long story short. As usual - I got the shaft in the end. I’m not bitter about the divorce so much as I am on how rigged the system is, rewarding bad behavior. I live in a no-fault (liberal) state, which means if your spouse doesn’t like your outfit for the day, he/she can divorce you on the spot. My divorce was over a frivolous issue (job relocation 300 miles away). I now pay her to sit on her butt.

I have joined the ranks of all the other poorly treated men I’ve seen in this country. I have been observing this horrible behavior from American women for years. I never expected to be part of it.

IMO - American women are caustic. Few appeal to me anymore. Their general outlook of men, laziness, lack of personal responsibility, values, and total selfishness - Suck. I’m done with American women. They have no appreciation for Anything. It must be miserable to be so hateful.

With that said. I think I’ll enjoy my visits here. I will say, this is the first site I have come across that shares so many of my thoughts over the last several years. It’s refreshing to see topics discussed here I could never share with others. So much of it is true.

– Enjoy & carry on the good fight.

Welcome to the board... Im divorced as well and feel your pain. The no fault state in my case was a benefit but I paid through the nose to have it the way I do now. Best of luck with things and good to see you here.

Divorce is one of the most stressful events that any man can through, at least on this forum you have a support group in place to help you. I'm divorced too, and while I recognize it was the best decision for me at the time it took several years for me to get over it emotionally. I consider myself lucky, some guys never recover from divorce and even though they have high paying jobs they end up living in their cars and are essentially homeless.

There is one way you can get out of paying alimoney. If you can find a job in a non-western country and if you never come back to the US you might be able to get out of it. This involves a lot of sacrifice on your part of course, you'll have to get used to being around friendly, beautiful women, half your age that like you(non-western countries are like this).

Greenecho wrote:Being a recent victim of divorce after 36 years of marriage, I should feel right at home here. I stumbled across this site while browsing for the American Bitch (not that I’m bitter).

To make a long story short. As usual - I got the shaft in the end. I’m not bitter about the divorce so much as I am on how rigged the system is, rewarding bad behavior. I live in a no-fault (liberal) state, which means if your spouse doesn’t like your outfit for the day, he/she can divorce you on the spot. My divorce was over a frivolous issue (job relocation 300 miles away). I now pay her to sit on her butt.

I have joined the ranks of all the other poorly treated men I’ve seen in this country. I have been observing this horrible behavior from American women for years. I never expected to be part of it.

IMO - American women are caustic. Few appeal to me anymore. Their general outlook of men, laziness, lack of personal responsibility, values, and total selfishness - Suck. I’m done with American women. They have no appreciation for Anything. It must be miserable to be so hateful.

With that said. I think I’ll enjoy my visits here. I will say, this is the first site I have come across that shares so many of my thoughts over the last several years. It’s refreshing to see topics discussed here I could never share with others. So much of it is true.

– Enjoy & carry on the good fight.

Welcome Greenecho, were are glad you found our forum. Being married for 36 years and then to get divorced must be emotionally draining. I have never been married and if I do take the plunge, it will be with a foreign women (eastern Europe, Russia or South American woman).

Do you plan on traveling to any foreign countries? Let us know how things are going for you and welcome to the forum!

Greenecho wrote:IMO - American women are caustic. Few appeal to me anymore. Their general outlook of men, laziness, lack of personal responsibility, values, and total selfishness - Suck. I’m done with American women. They have no appreciation for Anything. It must be miserable to be so hateful.

Thanks odbo & all.

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I think I’m going to enjoy it here.

Did you have any kids with this woman?