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Hey guys. I came here, obviously, because I am having some difficulty starting relationships in the US. Kind of overwhelmed with all of the different suggestions on this site. I'm a white male, 5'6, a little above average, in second year of college, studying english.

Just wondering if anyone looks similar and would be able to make some suggestions or relate their experiences. I'm planning on probably teaching english overseas after I get my degree, and I also want to start traveling this summer, but want to make sure its a place I could meet women or eventually move to. (In addition to the lack of good women in the US, life here is kind of depressing in general)

My preference is asian girls, but it seems like most people on this forum agree that Korean and Japanese women aren't very open to dating western men, or have little interest in sex. I dated a Japanese exchange student for a little while until I found out she was asexual. (...)

I'd be open to be checking out any country except places in Africa. Don't really have any interest in moving to places like Russia or China permanently either.

thanks for the helpful info

Hello pdc99, glad you found our forum. Your smart to think about teaching english as a second language overseas, that's a great way to get your foot in the door as far as having a job in a foreign country.

check out vietnam.. hanoi or hcm.. its happening over there for white teachers.. much tougher here in the phils.... good luck and spank around some of them young donkeys in the us w hile your young... lol

good luck

lol thanks for the advice guys. Vietnam looks pretty good, though there's some weird visa issues I heard

oh i was not aware of issues....... i just remember many schools take care of work permit for ya.. after u finish celta or whatever its called. many ppl bitch about the teaching wrk there this i do remember hearing.. prob old lonely weirdos who wear trousers or obsessive wanna be teachers who use spell check.... they say the big schools in vn grind em up and spit em out.. they say they make u wrk long weeks... idk how bec if it was me.. i would just put my time in, get paid, and be happy... but anyway.. i would look into hanoi or saigon.. id be happy with 1000usd per month in asia, and some die harders make alot more per month... im not sure how much fishing or golfing they do or double teamin 19 yr olds... but i guess they are happy in vietnam... i mean i guess they are but idk how.. im in the phils and its much bettewr here thenn in the us... thats me anyway