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I’m new to the forum but a longtime fan of Winston’s (watched most of his Youtube videos).

Just for some context, here are my stats: 25 years old, 6’3â€￾, white, nice gym body with a 6-pack, about a 5 facially.

Despite being decent looking, I’ve struggled IMMENSELY with girls my entire life. Had a few chances with younger girls in high school, but that’s only because they were naïve. College was much more difficult. Getting a girl to talk to me one-on-one was like pulling teeth. Sadly, I didn’t hook up once during my entire stay (while living in a coed dorm of all places). Finally bit the bullet and lost my virginity to an escort at almost 22 years old. Since then, I’ve had a few unsatisfying encounters with obese, older women from online.

Many of my male friends have had it just as bad as me, if not worse. Hypergamy has gotten so out of control that if a young guy isn’t literally in the top 20% of looks (mostly based on face) among his same-aged peers or doesn’t have a ton of social status, he could very easily approach hundreds of girls irl with nothing to show for it.

I’d hightail it out of this hellhole if money weren’t an issue. However, the economy is so bad that even with a business degree, I’ve been forced to work fastfood type jobs for the past couple years. Fortunately, I have about 40k in savings and am able to live with my parents rent-free, so it could be worse.

Anyway, I look forward to spending an inordinate amount of time on this forum.

Wow, I'm really shocked any fit 22 year old guy has to go to those lengths to lose his virginity... My God I was 22 in 1992 and things were sooo different back then.

I think western men have let women go too far and it's going to be impossible to make a difference now - Even if there's an economic collapse and 80% unemployment I can't see girls acting nicely to men even to"use them" for food - they'll continue to insult guys and act stuck-up while they're starving to death.

But to answer your question, you should get time off work and use your money to go on a Contiki tour around Europe and see where you like best, then find a way to move there in the future. Rome wasn't built in a day...

polya wrote:Wow, I'm really shocked any fit 22 year old guy has to go to those lengths to lose his virginity... My God I was 22 in 1992 and things were sooo different back then.

I think western men have let women go too far and it's going to be impossible to make a difference now - Even if there's an economic collapse and 80% unemployment I can't see girls acting nicely to men even to"use them" for food - they'll continue to insult guys and act stuck-up while they're starving to death.

But to answer your question, you should get time off work and use your money to go on a Contiki tour around Europe and see where you like best, then find a way to move there in the future. Rome wasn't built in a day...

It's hilarious, but it's sadly true. Good points, Al Bundy!